Reading Class Two Forever, written by Qiu Shui, is admirable. The first topic is me and my daughter. I followed it every day for nearly a month, and finally I was named Class Two forever. Qiu Shui's articles are always flowing, humorous and unpretentious. I think this article will definitely become a pillow book for every treasure mother or teacher to learn.
I watch every episode carefully and look forward to it. It seems that I am watching my daughter grow up with her, from junior high school to junior high school graduation; I also watched her own changes, stumbling through the years and becoming more and more mature. She is a wise mother, a mother who will love her children.
As a mother, her heart will always change with the change of her children, perhaps even more than the change of her children, whether she is happy or anxious. Sometimes she wants to be a two-faced person, not only an ally and companion of her children, but also a psychoanalyst. At the same time, she has to be her own psychiatrist. Because of the sensitivity of women, a mother's responsibility can be more similar to a child's mood and situation than a father's.
In this article, I feel that Yao Yao, the daughter of a primary school, is suffering in an unsuitable learning environment and her parents are unhappy. Based on the idea that learning should not be painful, I chose a happy education school when I chose a school in junior high school, so I started my life in Class Two of junior high school.
Undoubtedly, when children are unable to make judgments, parents' rational choices are directional and will lay the foundation for children's life and family life. Parents should be clear about their children's situation and don't blindly pursue high and expensive. At any time, what is suitable may be the best.
In the four years of junior high school in Yao Yao, she met the best teacher in her life, and made a gorgeous turn from scum to bully. It is also well guarded by parents such as "I", and "I" is also full of gains. At the same time, I meet two mothers with the same educational concept, and together as a firm guardian alliance for children, people with the same ideas will always be attracted together. With the existence of this S.H.E group, "I" will not be alone on the way to accompany my daughter to study.
From the article, we can sum up some places worth learning, which can be used at any time in parenting. Growth is not only learning, but also mental maturity. Of course, this should be based on the correct concept of parents and teachers. What impressed me the most is that the cooperation between parents and teachers will always be a solid backing for the healthy growth of children.
Parents and teachers have the same goal, and teachers' sincere love is the key to children's learning.
I hope children can "study hard and get better grades". Parents and teachers are consistent, and parents must stand in the right position. However, not every child will meet rational parents and satisfied teachers.
In the article, we saw Yao Yao's first head teacher, "Lao Li". Because Yao Yao's math performance is not ideal, "I" asked her for advice on how to improve her math performance, but "Lao Li" didn't have a good way. Later, a series of situations proved that "Lao Li" had limited ability. Fortunately, Yao Yao later changed to a new head teacher.
It was the later revision of Ma Qi that changed the children, which shows how important teachers are! Children's eyes are bright.
The power of "Ma Qi" made Yao Yao consciously try to endorse. It is true to speak with actions, not just words, and children are convinced. At this time, the teacher's words will work. The teacher doesn't listen, which means it's not in the child's heart. It's no use talking more.
What is awesome? The photos of children's youth captured their parents' hearts. Later parents' meeting will make me like the new Ma Qi, and Yao Yao's ability and way of dealing with problems after she is not very hurt will make me realize that she really loves her children. How can she not capture the children's hearts? Children's initiative is stimulated, which is a hundred times stronger than others' efforts.
Yao Yao was lucky to meet Ma Qi, the head teacher, and Beibei, the beautiful math teacher. The charm of the teacher is the motivation for children to learn, and the children are sincere. She can sensitively feel the teacher's true love, and the power of love is enormous.
The article vividly and interestingly wrote about the great changes after her daughter changed her math teacher. She took the initiative to contact the teacher and was proud to be a math assistant.
The daughter saw the puzzled expression of "I" and pointed out that "I ...
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Teacher Beibei gave Yao Yao a key, which opened the door of wisdom for her and led her into the hall of mathematics. The true love of a teacher is to have a gentle heart, but to correct the child with a serious attitude. Children love and understand the teacher, even if they are scolded by the teacher, they will listen willingly! How proud you are to be a teacher when your children evaluate you like this!
Junior high school children will inevitably have a crush on students of the opposite sex. Nowadays, the word "puppy love" is often used to express. Many children fell on it and were not understood by the school and parents, or were not treated correctly at home. They went there and were ruined from then on. In fact, many times teachers and parents overdo it, fail to make good use of the opportunity or use it wrongly.
In the article, Yao Yao and his male classmates were misunderstood and fell in love while watching movies. The head teacher is open-minded and doesn't shout when he knows it. Everyone knows that he is taking it lightly.
As the mother of an adolescent child, especially facing girls, "I" should be cautious, rational, calm and wise. Children are pure, and this is an opportunity to guide them. We must catch it. Parents' respect and trust for their children will always come first. "I" learned the child's real intention and guided her in a girl's correct way. Yao Yao also knows that a girl should have self-esteem and love, and cherish feathers. I believe that if she encounters problems in the future, she will certainly handle them better than other children. Parents' example is the best teaching material.
The article also talks about another pair of classmates, Diao Si, who fell in love with the "Little Hen" of the vice monitor, and was also cared for and cared for by teachers and parents, giving them space and naturally growing well. Being in love didn't affect their study. On the contrary, I studied harder and had a "diaosi counterattack".
Children who want to be treated like this are given an opportunity to grow up every time they encounter problems. How can they grow up unhealthy? Where can there be so-called rebellion in adolescence? Children's rebellion is partly due to the contradiction between parents and teachers' incomprehension and incorrect treatment.
If children encounter problems when they grow up, they can't get proper venting and can't get care at home. They either go outside to seek, or fall into internet addiction, or suffer internal injuries, and some will have more regrettable behaviors. If I don't list them one by one, I think everyone knows a lot.
Not all parents can handle the problem calmly, so classmate Xiaoxing is not so lucky. Her mother's anxiety directly hurts her and makes people cry.
Parents' choices can really affect a child's life. Family education may be here bit by bit, but its role is immeasurable. Xiaoxing is unlucky, but Yao Yao, Diaosi and Orange are lucky. You can read and taste this article carefully. ...
Every child is a treasure, each with his own merits, and should be loved well. The sincerity and love of the class teacher "Ma Qi" touched the children and their parents. Children's learning motivation is improving, and children with learning potential are good at grasping opportunities, and their achievements will naturally be there. Lingguang's parents know how to cooperate with teachers, because both teachers and parents really want their children to get better.
In life, many of our parents don't communicate with teachers at all, and they don't understand their children's situation at school. How can we correctly understand children, let alone guide them? Some even despise or vilify teachers, leaving children at a loss.
There is a lot of interaction between me and my teacher, which is full of fun and trust, such as the interaction with Ma Qi.
I don't know why the "old fu" who always complains has changed. "I" asked "Ma Qi" quietly, and she also talked freely with "I". "I will talk to him privately." It can be seen that the way the class teacher and parents handle the problem is commendable, and of course they have to meet reasonable parents.
In response to the adjustment of the new teacher, "I" quietly inquired and fully saw the humor of the article, the emotional intelligence and IQ of "I".
Later, the math teacher "Sister" will also take the initiative to communicate with parents. "She reports her homework in the group every day. Like some students who need to improve, she will also talk to her parents privately. "
The mothers of the "I" and "I" S.H.E combination team will also exchange some information and suggestions with each other, know the children's situation at school like the back of their hands, actively cooperate with the teachers' actions, and guide the children according to the situation.
Lao Fu, the father of his classmates, blindly looked for environmental reasons, evaded retreat and missed the future of his children. The "We" of the combined team believed in the teacher, was encouraged by "Ma Qi" and was full of confidence and support for the children. Of course, the situation of children will be different.
Parents and teachers are children's right and left hands in learning, leading their children forward together, putting in wings and helping them grow up.
With a good environment created by teachers and parents, whether children can learn well is often left to the children themselves. Parents and teachers just need to cheer them up in time and become a solid backing.
Yao Yao was one of the people who was inspired. She has found the confidence to study and will work hard to learn well.
So everyone saw them report to the group to study and formed a small learning team "Five Golden Flowers". Everyone competes with each other and knows how to find ways in learning, such as their spelling speed and communicating different ideas with teachers.
In the face of temporary failure, children will blame themselves, and parents and teachers should encourage them in time, not blame them. Yao Yao blames herself and feels sad because she didn't do well in math in the district entrance exam. "I" didn't blame her, but comforted her to find a solution. The next day, she was embraced and encouraged by her teacher and believed in her own strength. Children regain self-confidence, bury their heads in solving problems, find shortcomings, and grow up with their brains when encountering problems.
Yao Yao was weak, and she was once exhausted from studying too much, which made her "mother" feel extremely distressed. The math teacher "Sister" also made a special phone call to make the child better. If in doubt, please feel free to ask. Such a teacher, of course, children will like it, and they will also try their best to study and actively participate in various activities!
Children's growth still depends on TA, and the energy stimulated is immeasurable. Parents and teachers give support and encouragement when TA encounters problems and become their solid backing! We are glad to see Yao Yao and her classmates grow up healthily in such a good atmosphere.
The junior high school years ended soon after facing the senior high school entrance examination. See the last day, "sister" class not bottom go to, pearl-like tears flow out, let me cry again!
When the line reads: "We are going to travel far away, please ask mom for approval!" " "When I appeared in front of my eyes, no one could stop crying! Thank you so much for such a good teacher! Such a good "sister" and "mother" are hard to give up. What is more precious than the sincerity of children!
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In the last few chapters, I wrote about the entanglement and choice of volunteering in high school after the senior high school entrance examination. Finally, I chose a satisfactory high school, and Class Two in junior high school is generally good. Finally, as the children promised "Ma Qi" at that time, I want to be the best Class C!
The article is voluminous, with nearly 30 thousand words. The language is simple and the characters are not complicated. Several familiar parents, several classmates who appeared beside their daughters, and several backbone teachers. Every story happened around every junior high school child. My daughter's problems, the teacher's handling and my mother's decision are all vivid and can even be used for reflection and application.
What happened to the parties in the past has long been a story in their minds. This unforgettable record will ring the wind chimes of the years in memory forever, and I am still deeply touched when I think of it! Each paragraph is like pulling up a tidbit, filling the space for children to grow up with themselves, which is not bad for the passage of time!
If I can read this article earlier and know Qiu Shui earlier, I may have more wisdom on the way to raise my children, and my children may be better. Although every child is unique and the method can never be copied, the road is simple and the concept is correct, which can be used for reference.
Children should always live to be themselves, not what their parents want. Parents are just archery bows. As long as you use love in the right place, then you have to wait for TA to shoot into the distance.
I wish you the good fortune to read this article early in front of the screen. I wish you less detours on the road of parenting, more happiness, and better children and yourself! If you are a teacher, give your children more sincere love, and you will get full of true feelings! May every child be treated correctly and grow up healthily!
Send you a favorite poem (excerpt).
To Children-Ji Bolun (Lebanese)
Your children, not your children.
They are children born of life's desire for themselves.
They came into this world with your help, not because of you.
They are with you, but they don't belong to you.
You can give them love, but you can't give them thoughts
Because they have their own ideas.
You can shelter their bodies, but not their souls.
Because their souls belong to tomorrow, which you can't reach in your dreams.
You can try to be like them, but don't let them be like you.
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