Some people, they would rather eat the bitterness of life than accept the pain that needs to be experienced in the process of thinking change.
If you love reading history, or read biographies of some successful people, you will find that the biggest difference between the poor and the rich is the difference in thinking. Different thinking creates different patterns, which in turn affects a person's belief and ability to do things.
The rich believe that man can conquer nature and the future is in his own hands, while the poor often lament that everything is God's will, but their fate is not good. When life is in trouble, most poor people do not think about how to solve it, but quickly play the role of victims and put the responsibility on the other side, society and even the government. There are no so-called "rich victims" because their lives are created by themselves and have nothing to do with others.
Many people will say that money is not important, or that money is not as important as love.
Those who say these words, in the final analysis, still don't enjoy the convenience that money brings to life and don't know the role that money plays in society. Anyway, the more people who have no money, the more they like to hypnotize themselves with the above two sentences.
Life is hard if you only want to do the easy things. But life is easy if you are willing to do hard things. Leave your "comfort zone" and improve the pattern, so as to grow.
In the process of growing up, I hope you can associate more with successful people and learn more from their advantages. Stay away from negative people with negative energy, and don't let their pessimistic thoughts affect you. Energy is contagious. Either you influence others, or others influence you. Choosing who to stand with is one of the prerequisites for success.
If your goal is to live comfortably, then you will probably never have money. But if your goal is to make a lot of money, you may feel very comfortable. It is very important to plan your own money blueprint and confirm your goals as soon as possible.
Rich people want to create Qian Shengqian and make money work for them, so they care more about time. Poor people's time is worthless. They are used to spending their time on meaningless little things, and at the same time they are used to pinning their hopes on big prizes such as lottery tickets. But there are not so many things that fall from the sky.
To be realistic, learn to manage and cultivate your own thinking first, which will be an important skill you need to have in happiness and success.