Need to know what the child needs first. 1. Take an active interest.
Autistic children are not without feelings, but they are not good at expressing and communicating with others, so we should take the initiative to care for them and communicate with them so that children can feel your love and kindness. Parents can be close to their children, play and walk with them in daily life. As long as the weather is not too bad, they can take their children out for a walk and say hello to others.
observe carefully
Observing children from subtle things and finding their unique expertise, each child's situation is different. Some children are indifferent to everyone, but they will be closer to their parents. Some children are resistant to everyone, some children like musical instruments although they don't like to talk, some children are good at drawing, and some like sports. Parents and friends should be good at discovering children's strengths, cultivate children's interests according to their different hobbies, and give timely encouragement and support when their situation improves slightly.
Create an atmosphere
Autistic children are usually insecure, have a cold face on everyone, hate governance and change, have little interest and are narrow-minded. Parents should create a warm and loving environment for their children, make them willing to integrate into our big family, help their children get familiar with the environment in a gentle way, create a warm and peaceful environment for their children, and reduce their psychological pressure.
4. Affectionate parenting style
Caring is the premise and foundation of special education. For these children who grew up in special education schools, caring is their hope of survival, the spark of their ideals and the ladder of their success. Special children are vulnerable groups in society. Relatively speaking, they lack the patient care of their families, which leads to most of them having personality disorders. A good family environment plays a vital role in the formation of children's healthy personality. In order to make the children living in Hushan School develop healthily, our school implements the directional "mother" service, so that children can feel that they have relatives around. Therefore, our teachers are divided into groups, responsible for children's study and life, and provide assistance and education services. The person in charge of each group always communicates with the object he is responsible for, shares the children's joys and sorrows, and at the same time understands the children's psychological status, counsels the children's study, educates the children's conduct, and carefully takes care of their daily life. In xxx school, every staff member is required to care about the children's life like parents, take care of and help them all-round 24 hours a day, let them feel the warmth of the family, let them have a sense of belonging and security, and enjoy the warmth of the family, thus forming a healthy personality. In short, for special education, caring for students is the life of school education and an important means to save students' flower of life.
5. Let children gradually improve their personality in art and consciously carry out "psychological drills" for special students.
As far as today's society is concerned, meeting children's material needs is not enough. It is also necessary to meet the spiritual needs of children and let them have a healthy personality. A healthy psychology is a necessary condition for the perfection of personality. And the children in these special schools have some psychological problems more or less. Loneliness and inferiority are typical characteristics of their psychology. Therefore, it is necessary to promote their health through a certain period of time and good practice.
6. Willing to study with students
Special children have great difficulties in learning because of physical disability and mental retardation. Knowledge is successfully input into students' brains, and then expressed by sign language or words, which is an iterative and gradual process. Teachers should have enough patience to go deep into students' study and study with them. So as to solve students' learning confusion and experience success and harvest with students.
7. Set an example and standardize children's behavior habits.
To let children develop good behavior habits, we should not only persuade and educate, but more importantly, play an exemplary role. Children have the strongest imitation ability, so adults' words and deeds have a great influence on children's behavior. Teachers should use their words and deeds to subtly influence children and get rid of their original bad habits and behaviors.