Appearance beauty can please people's eyes, and inner beauty can warm people's hearts! -6 Q Liu Zhongliang
6 1. Deal with the mood first, then deal with things 2
The second level: deal with the mood first, then deal with things!
If both sides are calm at this time, we have to deal with one thing; You can adjust your emotions first, then actively influence others' emotions, and then adjust things. Add more positive emotions to yourself and others, and at the same time add some negative emotions, so as to form the tension to change as soon as possible. -6 Q Liu Zhongliang
60. Deal with feelings first, then things 1
The first level: deal with the mood first, then deal with things;
The first is for the children and others. When we see that children or others have negative emotions, we deal with the emotions first, and then deal with things.
Secondly, when I have my own emotions, I should deal with my emotions first, and then deal with things that promote interpersonal relationships; I found that dealing with one's emotions, that is, listening to oneself and each other and lowering the temperature line of emotions, on the one hand, increased the rational space, improved the quality of communication, improved the efficiency of learning, and increased the divergence of imagination and innovative thinking. -6 Q Liu Zhongliang
59. People who are full of joy insist on what they should insist on and give up what they should give up;
Those who regret disappointment, give up what they should insist on and stick to what they should give up.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
58. Innovation is a unique presentation of the close relationship between one's inner vitality and external people and things, and with nature, the universe and the gods!
57. Six steps of innovation:
Keen observation and diligent thinking;
Good at synthesis and innovation;
Dare to practice, inner saints and outer kings.
56. Selectivity means creativity. The more choices, the higher the wisdom.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
55. The wisdom of throwing stones will gradually disappear.
Strong? keep
Day after day, year after year, until the drop of water wears away, not giving up is a kind of persistence. Metaphor: As long as we persist, we will succeed. Our life is tested by will every day, and the reward of life is far from the end of the journey. As long as we have breath, we must stick to it, because the secret of success is "stick to it and you will succeed in the end"!
Have the wisdom of dripping water wears away the stone.
Follow the trend, focus, integrate and persist.
We can "carry forward the sacred learning and create eternal harmony."
6Q invites you to come, which is even more exciting!
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
54.
The wisdom of dripping water wears away the stone 3
Melting? close
The process of water drops dripping from the air and onto the stone is that carbon dioxide in the air is dissolved in water to form carbonic acid solution, and then reacts with calcium carbonate to generate calcium bicarbonate, so that the stone is dissolved in water, and the dissolved water and the stone merge into a river, which embodies the integration of water, gas and stone. Just like we study in 6Q, we keep learning and learning, and integrate the 6Q system into our body and mind, into our family and into our work and life. At the same time, there are new insights, even innovations and new wisdom in practice, which are integrated into the 6Q system; The continuous improvement of the 6Q system will not only benefit more families, but also sublimate our lives!
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
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[Rose] The wisdom of dripping water wears away the stone II
Major? be filled/suffused/brimming with
Water drops repeatedly drop on the same place on the stone, and only by concentrating on one point can the stone be broken down. Just like digging a well, digging one here and one there is not deep enough, and no well can produce water; If the goals are scattered, the effect will not be achieved. We still need to concentrate on our studies. At present, there are many schools of psychology and institutions, which not only need us to judge which is more systematic, scientific, efficient and grounded, but also need us to focus on one point in order to drink sweet well water, not just to be a well digger.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
52.
Quick action and great tension = great positive and great negative.
Clear vision, clear goal, pure heart, lofty mission ~ great initiative
A person's emotional irrationality does not change, and the consequences for himself and others are thorough, comprehensive and negative.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
5 1. rose] direction and method
The direction is wrong, and the efforts are in vain; A crazy direction.
The method is not exhaustive; A pair of methods get twice the result with half the effort!
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
50. The ultimate goal of reading all books is to read ourselves.
-"Bai Shuo"
49. Regarding the second possibility.
At the same time, it is a pity that many people's talent potential is consumed by emotions, covered by habits, confused by time, consumed by inertia, delayed by conflicts, and suppressed by self-righteous people!
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
48. One possibility is that
A full seed, fertile soil, abundant sunshine and vast space will surely become a towering tree in time; Life is connected; Everyone's success has similarities. Beat 200-300 million opponents to stand out, a happy family and school society, timely care and appreciation, more contact with the natural society, waiting for flowers to bloom.
47.
[Rose ]6Q Liu Zhongliang shares * long for durian.
Eager to eat durian and plant bean sprouts ~ If you want immediate results, you will only get bean sprouts!
Eager to eat durian, waiting for seven or eight years ~ need to accumulate and enjoy the delicious food!
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
46.
[Ross] Talking about Tong Ling.
The Book of Changes advocates that "if you are poor, you will change, and if you change, you will pass, and the general rules will last for a long time."
Traditional Chinese Medicine: The general principle is painless, but the pain is unreasonable.
"Tong" in traditional Chinese medicine originally refers to the smoothness of qi and blood, and the channel through which qi and blood run is called meridians, so "Tong" means the smoothness of meridians.
The so-called meridians include meridians and collaterals, in which the longitudinal trunk is called meridians and the branches of various parts of the network separated by meridians are called collaterals;
In organizing the team, the vertical departmental system and the horizontal project system are smooth and efficient.
6Q People say:
⑤ Represents gestalt integrity, full bloom, relaxation and pleasure, and creation of infinite possibilities;
6Q Baoshan is transparent, that is, no six realms have reached a state of unity.
Personal transparency means joy, and creation means full bloom of vitality.
Personal opacity means depression, frequent diseases and emotional ups and downs.
Ten links mean self-unity, unity of things and me, and harmony between man and nature.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
45.
Bees sip honey from flowers and thank the camp when they leave. The grandiose butterfly thinks that flowers should thank him.
Tagore
44.
[Ross] Bad money drives out good money, weeds and apple trees 3
The phenomenon that bad money drives out good money also exists in many industries, such as education and training.
Failing to support and support the training institutions of applied psychology with conscience and perfect system as soon as possible (such as 6 Q such as apple tree);
Harmful pyramid schemes, viral development, investment and training in products and services will certainly emerge one after another (for example, rats will be like weeds).
The phenomenon of "bad money drives out good money" also exists in the healthy and harmonious growth of individuals, the happiness of families and the prosperity of families. The apple trees of mutual care, mutual learning, mutual encouragement, mutual promotion, respect for differences and mutual acceptance have not been built;
Attacking each other, mutual suspicion, mutual suspicion, lack of trust, mutual harm, mutual control, mutual internal friction and so on are overgrown with weeds.
Bad money drives out good money "and fruit farmers' wisdom" weeds and apple trees "have the same effect.
The apple orchard is planted with rat grass, which is picturesque and brings out the best in each other!
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
43.
[Rose] Bad money drives out good money weeds apple trees 1
Bad money drives out good money, which means that when a country circulates two currencies with different actual values but the legal parity remains unchanged at the same time, the currency with high actual value or silver (good money) will inevitably be melted, collected or exported and exit the circulation field, while the currency with low actual value (bad money) will flood the market instead.
There is also a phenomenon that "bad money drives out good money" in the circulation of paper money. Everyone will spend dirty and damaged paper money or bad money that is inconvenient to store as soon as possible, leaving clean and tidy money. This phenomenon can also be seen everywhere in real life.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
42.
[Rose] Mencius is "rich but not three generations"
Moral heirloom, more than ten generations,
Farming and reading are second,
Poetry and songs are handed down from generation to generation,
Wealth passed from one family to another, but only for three generations.
And 6Q three-dimensional three wins and three easy wisdom heirloom, more than one hundred generations.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
4 1.
[Rose ]6Q Liu Zhongliang shares the distribution of Sansheng people.
80% of ordinary people are at the level of survival;
+16% excellent people realize physical and mental pleasure in life and family harmony and happiness;
+4% leaders show themselves, have a successful career and pursue the meaning and value of life.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
40.
[Rose ]6Q Liu Zhongliang shares * ellipsoid wisdom parents and wisdom leaders.
80% care about democracy, respect freedom, equality, win-win and nourish each other;
+16% weakness enhances each other's autonomy and creativity;
+4% The moral bottom line of laws, regulations and rules and regulations ensures mutual security, avoids heavy losses, and ensures harmonious, healthy, sustainable and rapid development in the case of major risks.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
39.
[Rose] Three characteristics of all rivers run into the sea.
Low demand means humility and compassion.
More than a hundred is broad-minded.
Sichuan needs mobility, which means connection and communication.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
38.
[Rose ]6Q Liu Zhongliang * Explanation of 6Q Nutrition = Body Nutrition+Mind Nutrition 04
When our mind is full of nutrition, every Q of our 6Q will thrive, thus realizing the full bloom of self.
Prosperous, blooming and prolific:
Love can increase the sense of security ~ high sq;
Appreciation can enhance the sense of value ~ high emotional intelligence;
Accepting the past can enhance autonomy ~ high LQ;
Allowing the future can promote innovation ~ high CQ;
The power of faith can make action lasting ~ high AQ;
Concerned about improving the quality of getting along with each other and increasing the contact RQ.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
37.
[Rose] Ordinary people and 6Q people 6
Ordinary people: everything is difficult;
6 Q people: anything is possible.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
36.
[Sun] Good morning.
[Rose] Ordinary people and 6Q people 5
RQ is different
Ordinary people: lack of resources, I have no you;
6 Q people: rich products and many opportunities.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
35.[ Sun] Good morning.
[Rose] Ordinary people and 6Q people 3
Different IQ.
Ordinary people: used to finding problems and complaining about them;
6 Q people: systematic search, innovative methods.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
34.
[Sun] Good morning.
[Rose] Ordinary people and 6Q people 4
AQ is different.
Ordinary people: helpless in the face of difficulties;
6Q people: The more frustrated and brave they are after failure.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
33.[ Sun] Good morning.
[Rose] China's Top Ten Classic Wisdom 3EQ2SQ2AQ+1IQ1q1rq
1. If goodness stops, there is no dispute ~ EQ
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
[Sun] Good morning.
[Rose] China's Top Ten Classic Wisdom 3EQ2SQ2AQ+1IQ1q1rq
4. A drop of water wears a stone, but sticking to ~AQ is the most important thing.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
[Sun] Good morning.
[Rose] China's Top Ten Classic Wisdom 3EQ2SQ2AQ+1IQ1q1rq
No matter how clever a person is, he is stupid. Don't rely on intelligence ~ IQ.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
[Sun] Good morning.
[Rose] China's Top Ten Classic Wisdom 3EQ2SQ2AQ+1IQ1q1rq
3. Indifferent and comfortable, with clear thinking and firm will ~AQ
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
32.6 quarter growth of three
Reflect the advantages, and there are more and more advantages;
Let the deficiency be transformed and the ability become stronger and stronger;
Let 6Q internalize, and the wisdom will be higher and higher.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
3 1.6Q self-awareness
First, what I do, who I associate with and what resources I use are very important;
Second, it is very important to use resources and interact with people to achieve what kind of results;
Third, what kind of person I have become through this process is particularly important;
Fourthly, it is most important that I can positively influence the vitality of many people in the process of becoming a harmonious and complete 6Q person.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
30. anger and sympathy
If a person's behavior makes us angry, it just shows that there is still a lot of room for improvement in our behavior; The stronger the anger, the greater the room for improvement from the general principle of 6Q.
When we practice the general principle of 6Q and think in words and deeds, when the other party insists that a deer is a horse and that 1+ 1 equals 3, we will feel more pity and curiosity than anger and sadness.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
29.
[Rose] Internal and external communication
A person's own body and mind, that is, 6Q Baoshan, is not harmonious, which will cause great consumption of his own internal energy;
At the same time, it will cause the consumption of interpersonal communication to the people around it, and will have a lasting negative impact on the vitality, blooming degree, work efficiency and effect of the team organization;
The quality of one's internal communication determines the quality of his external communication!
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
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[Rose] Six manifestations of the beauty of harmony 6
Harmony is embodied in the unity of heaven and man ~
We are all unique manifestations of the same life energy in the universe! We are more closely linked because of similarities and grow faster because of differences.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
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[Rose] Six manifestations of the beauty of harmony 5
Harmonious bodies are now harmonious but different; Not the same, but not the same. A gentleman is harmonious but different, and will not blindly agree; The villain just agrees blindly and will not be harmonious!
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
26.
[Rose] Six manifestations of the beauty of harmony 4
A harmonious body is now equally respected ~
We all have the right to express once, communicate consistently and win-win. Although I may not agree with your opinion, I will defend your right to speak!
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
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Six manifestations of harmonious beauty II
Harmony is embodied in neutralization and wisdom ~
Express emotions in the middle of the festival in the emotion that is not expressed;
China is also the great foundation of the world;
Harmony is also the way of the world.
Neutrality, the position of heaven, the education of all things.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
24.
[Rose] Six Expressions of Harmonious Beauty 1
A harmonious body is now three-dimensional, win-win and easy-to-change wisdom ~ a person's body and mind are harmonious and transparent+past, present and future are coherent+I match your situation in three directions. The three meanings and the relative center are round and full.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
23
[Rose ]6Q Gao Ying EQ sentence 9
Emotion is instinct and EQ is skill.
Deal with the mood first, then deal with things.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
22
[Rose] 6Q camp high emotional intelligence golden sentence 7
Success and wealth are very important; Growth and happiness are more important.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
2 1
[Rose] 6Q camp high emotional intelligence golden sentence 6
Scores are very important; Growth sharing is more important.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
20.
[Rose] 6Q camp high emotional intelligence golden sentence 5
Encourage yourself and others.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
19
[Rose] 6Q camp height EQ sentence 4
More appreciation, more encouragement;
Less criticism, less blame.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
18
[Sun] Good morning.
[Rose] 6Q camp high emotional intelligence golden sentence 3
What others say reflects his quality; My reaction reflects my wisdom.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
1
[Rose] Xianglian 1
External competition, internal closely linked;
Lotus+lotus+lotus seed+lotus leaf+lotus stem+lotus root.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
2
[Rose] Xiang Lian 2
It is better to leave the mud and beautiful smell than to leave the pain;
From earthly to pure land, from evil to perfection,
From the mundane to the Buddha, from one shore to the other.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
three
[Rose] Xianglian 3
"Learning", "learning" and "repairing" correspond to air, water and mud;
Different positions, different difficulties, different growth.
(Lotus roots are closely connected! )
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
4.
[Rose] Three dimensions of progress from emotionalization to high emotional intelligence
First, the amplitude is reduced ~ that is, the intensity of emotions is reduced, such as the voice is reduced from octave to five degrees when losing temper.
Second, the speed is accelerated ~ that is, the time from emotionalization to emotional stability adjustment is shortened and the speed is accelerated. For example, it only takes half an hour to adjust your mood from the previous half day.
Third, the frequency is reduced ~ that is, the number of emotions in a week is reduced, such as losing your temper from three times a week to only once a week.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
five
[Rose] 6Q Listening and Peeling Onions
First, peel the onion, layer by layer; Shed a tear.
Second, be good at listening, listening layer by layer; Shed six lines of tears.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
six
[Sun] Good morning.
[Rose] In parent-child interaction, parents show more strength, while children are often weak or more rebellious.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
7.
[Ross] Internal friction
The biggest internal friction in the world is the conflict between persistent wise men and stubborn fools: contest, torture, entanglement and injury. Increasing the proportion of people who persevere in wisdom is the direction for the wise to reflect the value and significance of life!
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
eight
[Rose] The purpose of learning 1
The purpose of learning is self-growth: self-awareness, self-responsibility, self-choice, self-breakthrough, self-innovation, self-awareness and so on;
The second purpose of learning is to nourish and actively influence others, so as to be hello, I am good and everyone is good.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
9.
[Sun] Good morning.
[Rose] About the plan
The plan for the coming year lies in winter;
Today's plan lies in last night.
When doing things, the timeline is coherent: everything is set in advance, and if there is no plan, it will be ruined.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
10
[Rose] We deserve wealth; 6Q People find that there are many innovative ways to make themselves rich, and all of them are win-win and sustainable.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
1 1
Compass [rose]
Compass can draw a circle because its feet are walking and its heart is unchanged;
Can draw a big circle because it is willing to expand its mind;
And why can't many people interpret dreams?
Because they are often confused and motionless!
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
12.
[Ross] Man and the Tree of Life
In fact, the growth of people is similar to that of trees. The higher a tree grows, the deeper its roots will reach into the nutrient-rich land.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
13
[Rose] Tan Xiu
A person internalizes good quality and positive energy three times a day and persists for a lifetime.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
14.
[Sun] Good morning.
[Rose] Third filial piety 1
The first level: meet parents materially, ensure parents' food, clothing, housing, transportation and medical care. (In fact, most parents in China are very frugal, unwilling to spend money or spend money indiscriminately, and often scrimp and save); This is the most basic and concrete filial piety!
[Sun] Good morning.
[Rose] Three Levels of Filial Piety 2
The second level: caring for parents spiritually, listening and appreciating more; Listening to their voices and growth experiences are mutually nourishing! And with curiosity, I like the concentration and input when I listen for the first time! This is the warmest and most precious filial piety!
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
[Sun] Good morning.
[Rose] Three Levels of Filial Piety 3
The third level: beyond the inheritance of parents, let parents' good genes fully bloom in our children! Generation after generation! This is the most meaningful, profound and lasting filial piety!
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
15、
[Sun] Good morning.
[Rose] Lesson 3 Self-cultivation
When 6Q lifts pipes, an important test is to observe their communication style and tone with restaurant waiters, street sweepers and grass-roots employees, and to test their equal respect, modesty and modesty, and their thinking mode.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
[Sun] Good morning.
[Rose] The second lesson of self-cultivation
I will try my best to save and not waste, for example, I will bring my own toothpaste and toothbrush in the hotel and try to finish packing leftovers; I don't have to care about how others distribute costs and profits; I expect other people's profits to be high, so as to promote development and research and promote a virtuous circle of society.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
[Sun] Good morning.
[Rose] One of the self-cultivation experiences
Whether my spending and investment are worthwhile is determined by my comprehensive evaluation at that time.
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
16.
[Sun] Good morning.
[Rose] Talking about patterns
Up and down in all directions,
Throughout the ages.
The universe is full of time and space. How big the pattern is, how high the achievement will be. (Borrowing "Zhuangzi")
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang
17.
[Sun] Good morning.
[Rose] Thinking determines the way out, attitude determines the height, and the pattern determines the outcome!
-6 Q Liu Zhongliang