But when everyone knows what happened, they will show their understanding for their son, because it is really too much for an old man in Hunan to lose his grandson four times in two years. But the old woman thinks that it is very wrong for her son to drive himself out of the house, because she thinks that she is taking care of her son's family attentively, and she feels that her son's driving himself out of the house makes her very chilling.
First, the elderly in Hunan lost their grandchildren four times in two years! The daughter-in-law of an old man in Hunan gave birth to twins, and the old man's son hoped that the old man could help him look after the children. You know, the old man loves children very much, so he chose to agree to his son's request. It seems that this is a very happy thing, but what the old man's son didn't expect was that during the two years of looking after his grandson, the old man lost his grandson four times.
Perhaps many people think that the elderly will forget or be inconvenient to move because of their age, but the elderly who help take care of their grandchildren have no such problem, because he often plays mahjong and dances in square dance, and even the elderly have the bad habit of drinking and clubbing.
It is precisely because the old man did not put his mind on taking care of his grandson that his son chose to drive him out of the house.
Second, the old man's son kicked his mother out of the house! Many people may think that the old man helps to take care of his son's children, and the old man's son should thank him. However, the old man's son chose to drive his mother out of the house. If we only look at the surface, the son of the old man is indeed unfilial, but when everyone knows that the old man often loses his children, even the filial children will not choose to continue to be cared for by the old man.
Of course, the old man's son drove his mother out of the house, not only because the old man often lost his grandson, but also because the old man had many bad habits. If the old man and his grandson are often together, children can easily get into some bad habits. In order to avoid this, the old man's son chose to drive his mother out of the house.
In fact, every child knows very well that it is indeed controversial to drive his mother out of the house, but for the healthy growth of children, even if things are controversial again, they must be resolutely implemented.
Because once a child gets into a bad habit, even if he corrects it later, it is impossible to get too good results. The expulsion of the mother from the house also puzzled the elderly in Hunan, and even the elderly were very disappointed with their son's behavior.
Third, the old man in Hunan thinks his son's behavior is very sad! The old man in Hunan thinks that it is very unfilial for his son to drive himself out of the house because he was invited by his son and daughter-in-law to take care of his grandchildren. The old man thinks that he is also doing his best to take care of his grandchildren.
What the old man didn't expect was that his son finally made the decision to drive himself out of the house. When you know the whole story, you will understand the behavior of the old man's son, because the old man's son doesn't dislike his mother, but because the old man does have a lot of negligence in taking care of his grandson. If he continues to let the old man take care of his grandson, a serious accident is likely to happen.
In addition, the elderly still have many bad habits. In order to prevent their children from catching bad habits, the old man's son will choose to make a decision to drive his mother out of the house.
To sum up, of course, I also hope that the old man can calm down and talk with his son. Only when the gap between mother and child is eliminated can we return to the previous relationship. If there is a gap between the old man and his son because of this incident, it will inevitably bring many disharmonious factors to the mother and son. In order to avoid more discordant voices, the old man and his son should choose to sit down and discuss.
You know, there is no overnight feud between mother and son. As long as both sides can put themselves in their shoes, this matter can be solved satisfactorily. The old man's son did something unreasonable in this matter, so I also hope that the old man's son can say sorry to his mother.