Many of the foreigners who follow their children in the city, into the city is not the rural parents of the old age of the trap, the main thing is to see the old man's will is to be satisfied.
Many sons and daughters want to do their filial piety, so they will be the old man to the city to live, that this behavior is the practice of caring for the elderly. But the wishes of the elderly are not satisfied, more elderly people want to have a good old age, they want to live with the local residents, because in the countryside in the village people almost know each other, but in the city can not meet can not meet the heart of the people, which for the parents of the parents is a particularly aggravating way to live.
Many of the foreign elderly who follow their children in the city drifting, into the city is not the rural parents of the old age trap, it is just young people for the elderly a kind of filial piety behavior, want to take care of the elderly parents through the old age.
I had also thought that after I earned my own money, I could buy a house in the city and take my parents over to live there. But I asked my parents for their opinion, and what they wanted most after they got old was to go back to their hometown, where they could grow vegetables, look at the scenery, talk to their neighbors, play cards, and live their own easy life, free and easy. Unlike living in the city is so binding, only a few dozen square meters inside the house can walk around, for them is like a cage, physical and psychological can not be relaxed, our so-called filial piety, in fact, for the elderly may be a kind of pain.
Many of the foreign elderly who follow their sons and daughters in the city drift into the city is not a trap for the rural parents in their old age, but the parents are unable to adapt to the hustle and bustle of life in the city.
Most of the elderly actually do not like a particularly noisy life, they prefer a quiet and idyllic life, because they are older, in terms of sleep will actually have an impact. Unlike our young people most like to live in the downtown area, feel the atmosphere of life inside the city, because we have been accustomed to such a life. But for the elderly, they need quiet, fresh air and real company. These are things that we can't even do when we live in the city.