"Some people, no matter how old they are, are forever young at heart", 70-something grandmothers, physically healthy and mentally young, find an old partner to live with, it's a very normal thing ah.
Today's people's concepts are very ahead of their time, and the marriage of the older women in their old age is equally romantic and wonderful. In fact, there are two problems here, one is physical health, the other is the mindset.
First, let's take a look at the health issueMaybe you've already discovered, nowadays the elderly, the physical quality of even more than young people are good, although the action is not very convenient it, but there is no "big problem", every day is very casual sports and fitness, the dashing strength, don't mention it.
To give you a real example, the author's aunt, this year has been 91 years old, in addition to the hunchback, a little deaf, other problems are not, followed by her youngest daughter (my sister has been 55 years old) to live together, every day to walk on their own , living a very comfortable life.
The old man had a rough time of it, when I was a kid, not to mention enjoying my life, it was hard to get a full meal, and during the war years, I hid every day in the dark and damp cellar (a hole dug in the ground in the countryside in order to store vegetables) for a few hours or even a couple of days. To be honest, to survive is already a "hard life".
After the liberation, we had a good time, but then we had a natural disaster, and we heard from our parents that starvation was a common occurrence at that time. The pain of starvation was too much to bear, and many young people began to "flee", all the way to the north, to find the legendary Feng Shui treasure - the Great Northern Wilderness.
In this way, my parents, aunt and many other young couples, one after another, left their homes in Shandong Yuncheng, backpacking only a set of luggage, begging for food, each other to take care of to the north, the heart is full of confusion and reluctance.
People have great potential, a lot of things look unattainable, perhaps at a certain moment, you will be unexpected to complete it, and do a good job. Walking thousands of miles on foot is scary now, but at that time, many people did it "easily".
The Northeast is not a paradise, but at least you can have enough to eat, so many people stayed, like migratory birds, they do not have a real destination, no real ideal goal, where suitable for living, where to settle down.
In this way, this group of people in the northeast of this black soil "rooted", raising children, sunrise and sunset, hard work, not to mention. But even so, this group of elderly people's health is very good. This is indeed somewhat surprising.
The reason why I cited this example, is to tell you, to improve the quality of health, the key is still need to be more exercise, more exercise, perhaps you can not eat nutritional packages, but as long as you insist on exercise, then the health of a certain guarantee.
Then look at another problem, psychological problemsOf course, some elderly thinking concept is still relatively traditional, after the death of the spouse will choose to live alone. And some of them feel that it's better to have a companion, so that they can ease the burden on their children.
For these two kinds of old people, I think they are very normal, everything depends on the attitude of the old man, as long as the old man live happily, whether it is their own living alone, or "one more step", as the children's, should be strongly supported.
Life is really not easy, the old man has worked for most of his life, accustomed to the storm, for them to have a comfortable life is the greatest happiness, we do the younger generation, there is no reason not to support it?
These are the first time I've ever seen a woman in the world with a baby.