Some time ago, someone will be wood heart poem "once upon a time", summarized two sentences, I think very incisive:
From once upon a time, slow, slow to a lifetime can only do one thing;
From once upon a time, slow, slow, slow to a lifetime can only love a person.
In comparison, the divorce rate has been rising in this era, and there are numerous cases of couples who were in love yesterday but are in court today to discuss divorce matters. Why is the divorce rate getting higher and higher in this era? I think there are probably a few reasons:
First, the temptation is more and more
Scientific research statistics show that many couples are divorced because one of the husband and wife have an extramarital affair or a mistress. In today's society, people's lives are no longer as simple and pure as in the ancient times. Life has a red wine and green, there are drunkenness, a variety of entertainment with a variety of temptations, in the face of temptation, not everyone's willpower like Liu Xiahui as able to do not chaotic, not to mention that many times, not you but to provoke others, but other people take the initiative to throw their arms around you can control once or twice, but there is always a time when the willpower of the person is weak, not to mention that some of the temptations are so strong that you simply have no The first thing that you need to do is to get a good deal of money.
Second, the development of social networks
With the development of science and technology, WeChat shake, drift bottle, strangers, about the emergence of a variety of social networks, people closer to each other, one-night stands, extramarital affairs occurring one after another. As the old saying goes, "If you want people to know, unless you do not do", when it comes to the east window, but any bold point, not divorce is strange. Or, in the way of a variety of emotions, temporarily tolerated, but thereafter, is also playing each other, until the play does not go on, both spouses or choose to divorce.
Third, economic independence
In the past, if the male cheating or fault, the woman will basically make a fuss, and then swallowed the anger to continue, although the days go on, but like eating a dead fly, disgusting life. Why don't you leave? It's not that I don't want to leave, but I don't dare to leave. Because there is no economic source, how to maintain life after divorce, how to feed the children, remarriage is also halfway between husband and wife two hearts and so on a variety of scruples. This era is different, you make money and I also make money, we are economically independent. Divorced, even if you can't find a man, you can live the rest of your life by yourself without worrying about food and clothing. Why condescend to yourself.
Fourth, the pursuit of self
Previously, when things broke down, the first reaction was to repair, repair can continue to use; marriage problems, can communicate to solve, mutual tolerance and understanding. In this era, the complete opposite is true: when something breaks, the first reaction is to replace it with a new one, not to find a way to repair it and use it again. People are pursuing themselves, advocating self-centeredness, especially young people, you are a son at home, I'm a princess at home, if not suitable, then leave, China is so big, the world is so wide, you can always find the right person. Moreover, if you don't divorce for the sake of your parents or your children, what about yourself? So, the pursuit of self is also the reason why the divorce rate continues to climb.