Youthfulness, which teenager does not love, which girl is not pregnant? Everyone is looking forward to their beloved together with the person holding hands into the marriage hall, and then walk together to the sunset when the sun sets.
Life, every time I see the square park, those gray-haired old people walking with each other, whispering, that mutual affection, let a person envy, more people moved.
People in their old age, there is a true companion companion guarded by the side, from youth to gray hair twilight years, each other to hold each other to the old, is a happy thing, this life has no regrets.
However, the wish is just people's hearts on the life of a good prayer, life, really can do so couples are few and far between, most of the couples are plain life, some are more than each other grudges life.
People in their old age, for the first to go to the old partner, love the rest of the couple will be due to sadness miss; can usually is not very good couples, on the contrary, will feel that they live more easily.
02, confided in: 70-year-old Yao auntI'm 70 years old this year, there is a son and a daughter, and my partner lived together for 43 years, my partner is 3 years ago, a sudden illness. The children came back to help take care of the aftermath, and it's a shame to say that my partner didn't actually die in our house, but in the house of his confidante, who slept through the night, and the woman called me to tell me about it.
My partner and I are employees in a unit, and initially, we were both workers at the bottom of the shop floor. After we got married, in order to better support my old partner's career, I almost took over all the housework at home.
My partner goes to work every day, comes back from work, and spends his days in the shed reading books and designing drawings. I took my two children to read and study in the big house. In order to keep the children's voices down, I took them out to play after doing their homework.
In this way, without a few years of hard work, my partner became the leader of the unit, and I still work in the grassroots workshop. I was able to get a lot of work done, but I was able to get a lot of work done.
Every time we chat, he will use the words of the goat, what do you know ah, you a small worker, do their own work is good, do not worry about so many things.
Later, the children are out of school, I was 45 years old that year because the health of the in-laws are not good, I retired early. Every day at home to take care of two unwell old people, really is particularly exhausting, a day down, I feel very tired.
Then came the mother-in-law with Alzheimer's disease, not very serious, but also to have someone to look at, or it is easy to lose. The old partner often because of this scolded me even such a little bit of small things can not do, not give me a good face.
In fact, at that time I already knew that he had someone outside,I always comfort myself, the child has not yet become a family, he is just a moment of happiness, a little bit of power, others are willing to talk to him, as long as he pays money to the family, to the children of the elderly, there will always be the day to play tired, I waited for him to return to it.
But I'm waiting for the second half of my life. The first thing I did was to get a divorce from my father-in-law, who had been living with me for a long time, and he was very happy with me. I don't want to take half of my life's hard-earned wealth so easily, I want to think about my children.
So I have been dragging him along, not divorcing him. After he retired at age 60, he lived with me in peace for 3 years, and we lived peacefully together until the year he turned 64, after he went square dancing.
He met another confidante in his life, a woman 10 years younger than him, who was also retired, widowed and had a daughter out of town. The two ended up dancing together because they both liked to dance.
Initially, he also filed a divorce with me, I did not agree. He then took the pension payroll card, and after some time, moved away from home, and said, you're so widowed interesting?
Why should I fulfill him? I've been with him all my life, and I've not enjoyed it, I've suffered a lot, and the only thing I've done is to save some money for my children, and I've purchased two sets of real estate, and I've been able to get a divorce, and I've been able to get half of my family's assets with another woman, and that's not going to happen.
Sometimes, my children would advise me that I have no feelings, so I should just forget about it, and keep an empty house like this, and how miserable I am inside! But I still do not want to divorce, because after the divorce, my children will lose a lot, that is I use their own half-life happiness in exchange for the family property, can not easily cheapen others .
Who would have thought that he moved out not even a year ago and left so soon. At that time, I thought it was the old gods who had opened their eyes and let the bad guys get their punishment. That woman still refused to move out of our set, she kept saying that this set, my old partner promised to give her when he was alive.
I really want to wrestle her a big mouth, obviously the real estate certificate is our husband and wife's name, he promised you, you let him speak now, this is our family's things, there is a share of you.
In the end, the woman messed around for a long time, and finally with the help of the police, she was driven away. I really don't know what this woman was thinking, why should I give you the house that other people worked hard for half their lives just because you were with the old man for a few years?
Don't be delusional, if the old man is willing to give you anything, he should have done it long ago, just because I know the woman is also just figure their own property with their own, with good words to the woman to listen to just.
The old man has been gone for 3 years, and I still always have nightmares, and now I sleep better than ever, because the one who held me back is gone, and no one is ever going to let me get upset again.
How to say that there is no sadness at all is a lie. Although my old partner made a sorry me and the marriage and family, but overall is still a qualified father and son, to the children is very good, to the son to buy a house and a car, to the daughter's dowry, the salary and later the pension are on time to me. A few old people passed away, he is still doing a good job on the big side of etiquette.
Who hasn't made a mistake, it's just that couples seldom have the time to reflect on themselves. I think about it now, if I had been gentle with my partner during the 3 years he lived at home after his retirement, or had been less cold, wouldn't I have been hooked up with a dance partner?
Perhaps, one only remembers what to do after a loss. Anyway, I'm having a very comfortable and soothing time. No more opening my eyes and wondering where he is now. Thinking about him makes my teeth itch. His passing is a relief for me because I will never be laughed at again, so what if I'm the leader's wife, I'm still alone in the house.
I am now in good health, able to take care of myself, and every day I live a free life. In the morning, after dinner, clean up, go to the park and sisters boxing, walking, chatting, and occasionally a small gathering. After a nap, a tea table on the balcony to drink tea and listen to kunqu, go out for a walk in the evening, and occasionally go for a walk with the sisters together, watching TV and reading leisure books.
Sons and daughters always want me to live with them, I don't go, I sold the house where my partner lived with that woman and divided the money equally among the sons and daughters.
I still have a lot of savings in my hand, and when I can't move myself, I'll go to a nursing home, and then I'll sell the house I'm living in as well, and then when I'm a hundred years old, I'll let my children split the money evenly between them, as much as I have left.
Last year, a man 5 years younger than me looked for a partner to live with me, and I turned him down, telling her that I was used to being alone, and that I wouldn't trust a man in my life, and that it wasn't enough to fall into a hole in my life. It's not enough to fall into a hole in your life, to live with a man again, I'm out of my mind.
People ah, or from the young, couples have to treat each other well, or to the old age will really make their own sad, regret. If the old partner did not have so many flowery thoughts, I will certainly be serious and sincere service to him, he is not so early to go.