The relationship between parents and children is that he watched you step by step far away, and you watched him get older little by little, once you could not live without them, to later they saw you leave and cried bitterly.
Many parents do not express their love for their children, and there are also many children who have thus, like their parents, developed an introverted character, preferences are never said with people, and concern is never expressed, but only silently watching and caring.
This was also the case in our family, my father was quite serious in my memories, so I was afraid of him, until I got married I seldom took his arm and talked to him like everyone else because we didn't have the **** same topic because I was afraid of him. But now I have a very good relationship with my father and we have endless topics to talk about, what changed me was the night before I got married, my parents were not good at expressing themselves but they couldn't bear to see me it was true so that night my parents were sleepless and sat at home and cried all night, my father was just pulling on my hand and occasionally said a few words to make sure that I know what I'm doing in my in-laws' house.
Then I was suddenly very reluctant to give up, with is just hugging them and crying together, and then after my mother began to say how disobedient I was as a child, we began to open the box to talk, a moment to cry a moment to laugh.
It is said that three years old a generation gap, we are separated by more than twenty years, there must be how many generation gap, so you and your parents relationship is more and more distant, more and more not close is a very normal thing, at first I was the same. I guess it's the parents who suffer the most in this process, and this is something I've felt since I became a mother myself. When we were young we were around our parents every day, and now that we've grown up and flown away, we can't say more than a few words a year.
In fact, if you want to be close to your parents again, you have to think of yourself as a child, in front of them what you were like as a child, and you are still the same, you can be silly, you can say naive things, you can be pampered. Your relationship is getting further and further away just because you've grown up, and grown up you don't know how to make light of your parents, so why don't you still talk to them about their parents and say silly things like you did in high school, so that you still have just as much to say.