Chapter 1: wife, lover, confidante
Wife is the harbor of love, and now you are tired; Tired can help you find the warmth of home. Wife is oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea, which can make you taste life. A wife is like boiled water, ordinary but precious. Wives sometimes nag, but men hate it and can't stand it. But that's just a way to love. Your wife will cry and laugh with you. I will always be with you. She is an indispensable part of your life. A wife is like a left hand holding a right hand. After a long time, there will still be temperature. But you can never lose her. Your wife is your most loyal friend; The person who cares about you the most, the person who loves you the most, and the person who is willing to pay for your life. She silently pays for you, but her wife can't give you poetry, but she can give you an unpretentious heart. Dull is eternal, and your wife can help you; Share joys and sorrows; Grow old together. ; Sometimes your wife's nagging will make you annoyed, tired and annoying. But it needs your understanding and tolerance. Understanding is two-sided, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, and there are no perfect people in the world. Nagging may be a landscape of life. Wife needs your heart to accept, feel and understand. Slowly tolerate. Love is two-sided. Isn't it?
Life is fate, and life is happiness.
A lover is a vase with only a beautiful appearance. Lovers only want men's money. A lover blindfolds a man and makes you lose your way. What she brings to men is only an illusion. Lover is a game, a weapon for men to find * * *, find * * *. Don't trust your lover's tears. Lovers are beautiful lies and seductive traps. Men know it's wrong, but they also deceive themselves and make mistakes again and again. Knowing that this game has no good result, they also use each other to hurt each other. Although this vase is beautiful, it is easy to break. A lover is like a epiphyllum, it is only a beautiful moment, but it can never be eternal.
Confidante, every man wants to find his confidante. But it's hard to find a confidante in this world. A confidante is a friend who talks about everything, a man's lonely and empty reliance, and a man is most afraid of his misunderstanding. A confidante is your inner sustenance.
In addition to the precious love between men and women, blood is thicker than water, which transcends the boundaries of friendship. Is that the so-called confidante? No man can tolerate the woman he loves becoming a confidante of others. Because love itself is selfish, and people are selfish. Therefore, men should not dream of having any confidante. Maybe there is no confidante in this world. Live your life in a down-to-earth manner and cherish your happiness.
A wife is a trustworthy friend, a lover is an unreliable friend, and a confidante cannot be a friend at all.
Article 2: You are my confidante in this life and the next.
Watching the cigarette in my hand light up a little, my mind is still in a mess-I don't know how to tell my readers your story. Because our acquaintance didn't begin, our story continues. When I first met you, I didn't feel strange: it seemed that we were friends a long time ago, although we were far apart-I was in the far south and you were in the distance with mountains. But the feeling at that moment was so clear-we were born to know each other, but it was God's will that separated us for so long.
I once told you that 20 years is a reincarnation, which brings you and me back to the starting point of life. In this year's most confusing and unforgettable life journey, from acquaintance to acquaintance, to today's closest confidant, it seems that God has arranged it long ago, and everything is so logical. There was a brief unhappiness, but it soon melted and left no trace in our hearts. This feeling comes and goes in a hurry. Even if the disseminators do their best, they will eventually fall short. What we give each other is understanding and tolerance. There is no doubt and there is no need to doubt, so we trust each other. It seems that any questions about each other are self-defeating, redundant and have formed a tacit understanding.
Looking back over the past year or so, we have experienced emotional and life experiences together through thick and thin. We have been supporting each other to this day, without much kind words or any artificial actions. Even a very ordinary look, I can read you, a very ordinary word, you can understand my wishes. In their dictionary, there is no word "strange". In many people's minds, it seems that there can only be love between boys and girls like us who have never met before, except friendship. Even if there is friendship, it is doubtful. But I see a "third feeling" in us, which is deeper than friendship and less stressful than love. I don't need to promise anything, just try my best. No matter whether we can completely solve each other's problems, there are no complaints. Because we know that each other is working hard, we are convinced of each other, and we all believe that the best result is nothing more than that.
I can't remember who said, "What kind of love is the most beautiful love in the world? Answer: Love without sex is the most beautiful. " I don't know if we can feel it.
People's emotional life, in addition to the innate affection, love and friendship are like the wings of birds, making people's emotions fly and colorful. In this noisy and impetuous society, standing on the edge of emotion, I am thinking deeply about how to appear beside you. I don't know who said that what men in this world need most, besides their wives, is confidante. Let you be my forever bosom friend. When we meet, get to know each other and know each other at a mature age, we are extremely happy and meet each other late. On many issues, we are interrelated. We can get information without words, so that we can understand you, your eyes, your actions and even a sigh. You also know me, a whisper, a tenderness, and even a worry. When we are together, we are always extremely happy and cheerful. We often feel that there are fewer friends and more speculation. We appreciate each other, yearn for each other, and care for each other pervades our hearts.
I don't want to be my wife, that is, you don't have to take care of your husband and educate your children, and you won't chatter in front of you like a person who stays with you day and night and sleeps with you. It won't make you feel threatened, worry that I fall in love with you, and it won't give you a misunderstanding that you fall in love with me. In this period when "lovers" are all over the world, I won't let you be my lover. Because there is only one unforgettable love. A person's heart is not a box, it can be reloaded when it is empty, just like first love, only once. You will meet your love, and I will meet my love. I just want to tell each other's stories freely and confidentially, and talk about each other's ideals and life pursuits. Who ever lamented that "it is enough to have a bosom friend in life"? Who is singing "A scholar dies for a bosom friend"? "The mountains are green, the water is green, and the mountains are flowing ... life is a rare bosom friend, ..." The farewell of Cai E and Fengxian Xiao once moved me deeply. Therefore, in the emotional world, I only hope that you are my forever confidante.
If you are the blue sky, the sun is your wife, the moon is your lover, and the stars are your friends, I would like to be the star that adorns your life. Although ordinary, it is brilliant and lasting. Maybe I am not the brightest star in your sky, but I will keep an eternity, give you a touch of clear light every night, walk into your heart and have a long talk with each other in a language that we can understand. I think you would like to be my loyal listener. When I encounter something unsatisfactory at work, you will accompany me to drink * * *, so that I can release the troubles accumulated in my heart into alcohol in words and make me feel comfortable after talking; When I am sad, you will be by my side, touching the tide in my eyes with your delicate hands, listening to my dissatisfaction with life setbacks, and giving me the greatest comfort with your gentleness; When I encounter adversity, you will not hesitate to lend a helping hand and do your best to help me tide over the difficulties. Some people say that confidante is a fairy tale for adults. Let the years witness our calmness, our laughter and our peaceful mind, so as to complete an adult fairy tale in real life. In this noisy and impetuous society, even if I am in a hurry, it is my greatest happiness and satisfaction to let me walk through every day of my life with your smile.
Buddha said: Looking back 500 times in the past life, I only got a pass in this life. Who Lu Yu is with, who he is close to, and who he turns against, it is destiny takes a hand, and no one can escape from this fence. Colliding with you in the sea of people gathered and scattered, it is doomed that I will be troubled by this kind of concern all the time in the next 365 days. I don't know if I should thank this encounter in my life.
I call it parting every time I close the screen. And every time I leave, I'm not embarrassed. That song-like yearning and ten thousand kinds of tenderness drown out thousands of words in my heart. In the night, hands folded, the soul turned into a standing statue, and the radiant figure was scattered all over the floor, like the moonlight of water. On the day when the wind blows and the flowers fall, and the clouds float with the stars, who can turn the induction of the soul into a constant and eternal expectation? ...
At the two ends of the video, those persistent exhortations and entrustment, those warm care and care, and those unchanging sincere concerns suddenly fall in the hearts of you and me with the wind and become eternal thoughts. Cares within reach, like a hard rock, weigh heavily on eternal thoughts. Autumn wind rises and falls, clouds roll and clouds are comfortable, and those yellow leaves, after dancing for a season, lie quietly in the embrace of the earth and sleep soundly, with endless nostalgia for spring flowing in their voices and dreams.
At this time, I stared out of the window alone, staring at whether you were standing alone in the dim light or whether you were silent under the starlight. The feeling of phoenix nirvana turns into a haggard face, and sleepy eyes feel the sad beauty when we meet in life. Tears, finally can't help falling gently.
That constant concern has quietly occupied your heart and mine; Greetings and blessings are no longer simple exhortations; The collision between heart and heart crossed the distant time tunnel. The barrier of distance has become the breakpoint of reality. In desperation, we can only pray and bless the sky, let the rational heart bind the beautiful emotions, and let the fantasy moment close the eyes of reality.
Looking at the faded cup of tea in my hand, it still smells faint and still retains a bitter taste. Instead of wandering in front of the window, it is better to pour the whispers in your heart on a paper boat, then turn it into a canoe and sail to the other side of your dream, bringing endless worries and thoughts to the harbor in your heart and staying there. May your face not be carved by the sharp edge of the years, and may your heart be full of poetic smiles.
In this life, we no longer have the romance of holding your hand; No more vows to grow old with my son, no more spoony feelings, no more sadness that you hate my late birth and I hate your early birth, and no more love for the afterlife. Let's appreciate each other with a smile, let each other's attention penetrate into the deepest part of each other's hearts, and don't indulge our feelings. In the contest between emotion and reason, in the residual warmth of love, let us precipitate heartache, give up the love that we loved and often stung in trivial matters, give up the love that we loved and always lingered in sadness, and hide it in our respective hearts. In the emotional world, we are bosom friends who have no words to understand!
Because you are my confidante, I don't want to fall in love with you. I'd rather, in the middle of the night, miss you quietly, and then smile and nod, because, even if things have changed, someone will know that I like you after all. ...
Chapter three: confidante
As an indomitable man, I have a wife who loves me and a warm home. But in fact, in men's bones, they don't trust their wives and women all their lives. He hopes to have one or more lovers, but what he really needs is a confidante who cares and understands himself. This confidante is not necessarily his lover, she is a woman who reaches the depths of his soul and lives in his spiritual field. She may not be beautiful, but she must be gentle, dignified, holy and considerate.
A wife is a woman who accompanies a man all his life. She loves him wholeheartedly and devotes herself to this family, but this woman may not make you care about her all your life. Couples who have been together for a long time will inevitably get a little tired. At this time, men will seek another kind of spiritual comfort. This woman is his lover or confidante.
A lover is not necessarily your confidante. She touches you with her eyes, coquettes you with her charm and confuses you with her charming body. What she values is your position and money, while what you value is her beauty and amorous feelings.
A confidante is not necessarily your lover. She gets along with you attentively, communicates with you with wisdom and touches you with true feelings. What she values is your character and talent, while what you value is her wisdom and gentleness.
A confidante, the most important thing is to understand you, tolerate you, care about you, love you, not take and demand. She is always so gentle and considerate. When you encounter troubles at work or in life, the first thing you need to talk to is your confidante, not your wife. You will tell her your troubles and confusion. At this time, she will definitely bring you a cup of green tea to stabilize your mood first, then stare at you quietly with a sweet smile, listen to you silently and read your mind without interrupting you. When you are finished talking, she will give you analysis and advice bit by bit, although what she said may not be right. But at this time, your heart will get a kind of warm comfort, a kind of feeling arises spontaneously, and your mood will be suddenly enlightened.
If your confidante is far away from you, she can't stay with you. When you talk to her on the phone or in class, she will understand your mood at this time, listen to you quietly and share your pain silently. Under the comfort of her gentle voice, your heart is no longer lonely. She will give you spiritual comfort with her unique gentleness, cheer you up, encourage you to stand up straight and cheer up to overcome difficulties. You will suddenly forget your troubles and worries, smile with relief on your face and feel relaxed and happy.
If you travel long distances or are busy with work, you have lost information. Your confidante will worry about you day and night and want to call you many times, but every time she picks up the phone, she puts it down, puts it down and picks it up, and finally puts it down. Because she knows you must have something, and she doesn't want to affect your work and life. She will only leave you a message in your room, silently care about you in the distance, and bless you. When you were busy enough to show up again, she just smiled and asked, "Long time no see, how is everything?" How is your health? How was work? "She won't mention her worries, her anxiety, her anger, never. She knew that mentioning those things was irrelevant and meaningless. As long as you are safe and smooth, your happiness is her happiness, and your happiness is her comfort. She doesn't want to expect that kind of love that doesn't belong to her, she just wants to grasp her own friendship with her heart. In your heart, she will always be just an unknown confidante who cares about you, misses you and wishes you well.
A confidante won't cry when you are sad or sad, she will only secretly cry for you behind your back. She won't cry until you touch her; She only cries when she cares about you; She only cries when she misses you; She only cries when you ignore her. Tears, because I have you in my heart, love you and understand you; Silence is because I have you in my heart, love you and understand you.
Beauty knows that she is a wise and clear woman. She can fully integrate into your mind and soul, and she will abide by the moral defense line with you and rationally safeguard this affectionate friendship. Because she knows that only by keeping this vague emotion can she be forever. She can't influence your family, she just wants to exist in your spiritual field forever, and she can only keep her love for you in her heart forever. She knows best that if a woman wants to be eternal in a man's life, she can only be his unknown confidante forever. Understand him, just can't fully own him; Miss him, but don't disturb him; Like him, but can't tell him; Love him, but not completely belong to him. She will keep her own judgment and not influence him or hinder him. She knows to give him free play, don't give him any pressure, don't give him the threat that you fall in love with him, and don't let him be too impulsive because he falls in love with you. She knows to remind him at the right time, comfort him, think more of him, and think unselfishly of herself.
A confidante is willing to pay deep affection for you, but will never hold you back. If one day you feel bored, you can always let go of her hand without even giving her any reason. For your indifference and your departure, although she will be sad and shed tears, she will understand you. Because she knows that her feelings for you only exist for feelings. She is willing to accept everything you bring her, good or bad.
A confidante is the eternal sun in your heart. When you feel tired, lost, lonely, troubled, painful and depressed, a bosom friend will raise the sun in your heart, warm you and shine on you.
A confidante can read your heart only by spiritual sustenance, verbal communication and emotional comfort. Ambiguity is another emotion mixed between friendship and love. Confidante, staring at a distance, waiting quietly; Confidante, relief is in sight, concern is not seen; Confidante, faint feelings, eternal concern; Confidante, tacit understanding in this life, lifelong friendship.
A man, if he can have an unforgettable love for you in this life, can talk to you, understand you and understand your confidante, what an honor and happiness it will be! How happy and happy it would be to have such a confidante!
If you meet such a confidante, please cherish her! Although you can't depend on each other and have each other, you will always keep this beautiful feeling in your heart. This kind of spiritual sustenance and emotional comfort, that kind of light and long love, will make you always aftertaste, always sweet, and remember it all your life.
A confidante is a boutique among women. A confidante, a man's persistent choice without regrets, a man's dream!
People who have seen it also:
1.
2. touching words to confidante
3. Articles about bosom friends
4. The difference between a confidante and a confidante
5. Warm words to confidante