One time I heard a jingle from Qing Qingxin Nian that came from nowhere: "Love the oldest, spoil the youngest, and forget about the middle." I was shocked that there was such a saying. At that time, I was still young and didn't look into it, and of course, I didn't talk about it, but just thought that the child was just making a joke without meaning to. It is similar to the little monk chanting sutra, the kind of mouth without heart.
In the blink of an eye, we have grown up and should know that this jingle is not correct, not to mention what is the truth. Because, every child is the heart of the parents, whether it is the oldest, or the oldest, or the oldest, or the oldest, or the oldest, or the oldest, or the oldest, or the oldest, or the oldest, or the oldest, or whether it is a boy or a girl. No matter who, as long as seriously to experience, can feel the importance of their own in the hearts of parents, can feel, as long as the heart.
I once heard my uncle criticize a certain phenomenon like this: "Marrying a daughter is like selling a daughter, strange, never seen!" Of course, uncle just in private sentiments, when I happened to be around uncle, not too old, and do not know who uncle refers to, and do not ask, just surprised at the tone of uncle pain, so remember. Yes, the marriage of daughters as the sale of sons and daughters, but our family has not done. From the eldest sister down to the youngest sister, who has the feeling of being sold? No one. But which child is not cherished by his parents? The children's peace and prosperity, is the parents' greatest wish, is not it.
I talked to my mom on the phone, whenever the siblings, who has what is not good, mom's words are with anxious crying, and whenever there is a good, mom's tone of voice and endless joy. The parents' love, to heavy and deep, and who can not feel it.
In short, we know, parental love, to who are the same, there is no bias in favor of who. Every son and daughter is the heart of the parents. And for us, to cherish ourselves, love ourselves, so that self-improvement, is the best repayment to our parents.