My hometown in a beautiful mountains, pleasant climate, beautiful scenery, surrounded by mountains in a small county, people work every day at sunrise and sunset, the pace of life is slow, life is casual and leisurely. Every night, you will see a lot of people along the girl through the city and the river, in that leafy long river, in that water gurgling wind and rain bridge and willow side, there are walking, there are playing drums, there are elegant dancing, there are children all kinds of play, and not far away from the gymnasium plaza from time to time to come from all kinds of square dance jump melody, small town sleepless, laughter more than. In the eight months since I was sent to Thailand to teach, my son Zheng Zheng has been living in this beautiful and cozy little county, with his grandpa, grandma, uncle, aunt, and little cousin Haotian, and my sister-in-law, Zheng Zheng's aunt has been uncomplaining to help me take up the role of Zheng Zheng's "mother," although there is a distance, but it is full of warmth and charm, just like spring. I'm not sure if I've ever been in the same situation before.
The temperature of the home has always been bright and warm with my aunt in it. Auntie is a kindergarten director in the county, similar to my age, work seriously, hard-working, has won the thirty-eight red flag, usually at home to my parents are very polite and filial piety, in the haotian was not born before, the home at any time you can hear her a long, a short shouted "dad, mom" voice, and then have a Later on, with the birth of Hao Tian, the sound of "Old Mother, Grandfather" still echoed in the house. In the days when I was pregnant with my son Zhengzheng, I often went back to my hometown to live with my sister-in-law. At that time, our new house had not yet been renovated, so I lived with them in the kindergarten, and even after my son Zhengzheng was born, he spent his menstruation in the kindergarten, which is a credit to my sister-in-law in our big family. For Zheng Zheng, who was two years old and eight months old, my aunt was a strict mother, demanding, uncompromising, and not dragging her feet. As long as my aunt was at home to eat with me, Zheng Zheng didn't dare to cheat and not eat because as long as my aunt said, "Bring it over here, I'll feed it," he immediately jumped up! Zheng Zheng immediately jumped up, shook his hands vigorously, and opened his hands to block and shouted, "Don't come over, don't come over, I'll do it myself!" Then he hurriedly picked up the big rice bowl and took a big mouthful of rice and kept stealing it into his mouth with the spoon, and his eyes also rolled upwards from time to time to see where his aunt was, and this way of gulping down his food forced him to eat, which made the whole family cry and laugh every time. However, his aunt often took Zheng Zheng and his brother Haotian to bookstores, supermarkets, playgrounds, field trips, fruit picking, sweet potato kilns, etc. Zheng Zheng was really afraid of his aunt and loved her at the same time! What he was afraid of was his aunt's authority to say nothing, and what he loved was the fact that he could go out and play happily and joyfully as he pleased. Lin Qingxuan said, "A good education is not to teach a child to strive for first place, but to awaken the seed within him." This aunt of the kindergarten director is awakening Zheng Zheng: the days when you don't have your mother by your side, your aunt is your mother, and your mother's love and your aunt's love for you are love squared. The love that Zheng Zheng gets is not less, but more, like the buds in early spring, with the change of seasons, the branches slowly become flourishing.
There was a time when Grandma couldn't take Zheng Zheng to kindergarten because her brother-in-law was hospitalized to give birth. During that time, Zheng Zheng went to kindergarten early every day with the headmistress's aunt, and came back in the afternoon with her aunt and her brother Hao Tian after school. After dinner, her aunt took them out to play, and then she was busy bathing them after they came back, and before they went to bed, she insisted on teaching them how to read, memorize the Three Character Classic, and so on. During that week, because Hao Tian's brother was going to participate in a kindergarten storytelling competition, his aunt taught them to tell the "Story of a Button" before they went to bed every night, and Zheng Zheng listened to, followed, and learned from his aunt's story every night as he went to sleep. When Zheng Zheng and I were videoing, Zheng Zheng and Brother Haotian volunteered to tell me the story of the button, and I was shocked at the time, thinking how a child of only two and a half years of age could tell such a cute little story so eloquently. You see, Zheng Zheng's little mouth was pouting and grinning at the same time; his little eyes were fluttering and glaring at the same time; his little head was shaking and tilting at the same time; and he was listening with his head tilted in a different direction. ------ The whole person's expression was strange and cute at times, and sometimes he was serious, and sometimes he was comical and funny, and he was telling it to his brother Hao Tian in an emotional way, which was cute and adorable! Once after school, because Grandma had to pick up Sister Xiaoyu and Brother Haotian, she let Zheng Zheng and Grandma Huihui from next door come back first. Along the way, with the pleasant wind blowing in the small town, Zheng Zheng stood in front of the pedals of the trolley, and from time to time turned his head and chatted with Grandma Huihui, and said sweetly with a sweet mouth, "Grandma Huihui, from now on, I'm not going to beat you up anymore!" Grandma Huihui smiled and replied, "Really? Lying is a puppy oh." Clang Clang said with a serious face, "Well, cheating is a puppy!" Yes, in a child's world, he is sometimes capricious, sometimes crying, sometimes naughty and mischievous, but whoever treats him well and whoever treats him badly, he can really feel it, and when you treat him with a sincere heart and walk into him, he will also report you with a sincere heart. People, no matter how big or small, each other's attitudes, all determine the height of the child's growth.
On New Year's Day, the neighborhood was buzzing with the New Year's atmosphere, with the sound of firecrackers, chickens and geese, and the sound of laughter. Under the guidance of his aunt, Zheng Zheng and Hao Tian brother stood together in front of the festive home to pay early New Year's greetings to everyone. In the video, I saw Zheng Zheng and Hao Tian brother together, hands clasped together, fingers crossed, raised to the chest, full of smiles, grinning little mouth, bared his little teeth, his little buttocks pouted and pouted to follow the rhythm of the hands, up and down to imitate the adults to pay New Year's greetings, the tender children's voices are full of: "Happy New Year and good health to everyone!" When Brother Hao Tian and Zheng Zheng introduced themselves together, when Brother Hao Tian's voice was louder than Zheng Zheng's, Zheng Zheng pulled his brother back and said, "Don't, don't, give it to me, give it to me, give it to me, give it to me, give it to me, give it to me, give it to me, give it to me, give it to me, give it to me, give it to me, give it to me, give it to me, give it to me, give it to me, give it to me. ------" The endings of the childish words had already begun to carry the small-county accent slightly, but that kind of dialectal childish sound went over the high mountains, over the seas, through The sound of that dialect reached me in Thailand over the mountains, over the sea, and through the airwaves of thousands of miles, and instantly the sunshine poured into the room, spreading happiness all over the floor. During the eight months that I was sent abroad to teach in Thailand, my sister-in-law, Zheng Zheng's aunt, was like this: in addition to being busy with the school every day, she also took care of all kinds of education for Zheng Zheng's daily life at home, as well as taking care of all kinds of daily life at home. It was precisely because of this head teacher's sister-in-law that I was able to work at ease without any worries during the days that I was teaching abroad. I have often heard that children are the trees and parents are the roots, and the healthy growth of the tree is closely related to the roots. I know that the healthy growth of Zheng Zheng, Yixin, Haotian, and their younger brothers is inseparable from the nurturing of their aunts, uncles, grandparents, and grandmothers. Sometimes, "bacon education" is family education, which is the root and foundation of a person's growth, and parents are the first school for children to understand the world and acquire knowledge. After returning to China, even if Zheng Zheng goes back to Nanning to go to school, I have to tell him from time to time, on your way to grow up, mom is not absent from your life, mom is only temporarily not accompanied by a part of your journey, but mom's family, dad's family, are your family, they are the most honored guests in your life, no matter where you are, you should always be grateful.
On the day of spring, the grass grows back and everything recovers. Today is the weekend, Thailand's sunshine is still bright and shining, I took a light step into the school's third-floor office, sitting quietly against the window, counting the days of returning to meet with Zheng Zheng, look out the window of the blue sky and white clouds, the distant sky on the clouds and clouds, the campus of the flower garden flowers bloomed and fell, a wind brushed lightly, the sunlight just sprinkled in the desk of the first time that the whole family took a picture of the photo, I can feel the air flowed with happiness, and I can feel that the sunlight is not only the sunshine, but the sunshine is also a good thing. I can feel the flavor of happiness flowing in the air.
The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of a long journey, and it was a long time coming. The first time I saw this was when I was in the middle of the night, and the second time I was in the middle of the night. The first time I saw this, it was a very good time for me to go back to the house.