What is the experience of always being accosted by an older woman

The most popular place for foreigners to get hit on would be bars. But since those bars in Ningbo are free for foreigners I don't like to go there anymore. Because I find it too humiliating to enjoy this free reception. I've basically been hit on by every neighbor with a dog in our neighborhood. And went to so many people's houses for dinner. Been accosted by square dance moms,