There are two sides to the influence of any one thing on another, the positive and the negative.
The same is true for the influence of a man on a woman in a marriage. The negative influence is not something I want to talk about here. I think we can all relate to it.
I want to focus on the positive, I have always loved Stephen Chow's line "I support you ah"! A kind of seemingly careless but with great courage to make the inner certainty of righteousness.
Marriage, men, you should raise women, and this kind of support, not simply material support, but more should be the spiritual level of training, nourishment.
To give two examples, I have a friend who is particularly fond of fitness, after graduating from the university has been practiced eight-packed abs, chest muscles than the average girl are large. Then he made a girlfriend, and she was weak and sickly, but as if everything complemented each other, they still walked into the marriage hall.
The friend's habits haven't changed, and he still goes to the gym every day. Friends every time to go to the gym back to exchange ideas with his wife, instilling the benefits of fitness, talking about life in motion, finally, slowly her wife followed, because in many cases, do not follow his rhythm, a lot of things can not be accomplished, for example, eat together. Chat together, together to find *** the same language, and even some points of view, so her wife slowly also run the gym every day.
Wonderful thing, a year down, he was slightly fat wife's body became unusually charming, the two began to often in the circle of friends together "show off the belly", opened another kind of show of love unique mode. The first time I saw this, I was able to get into the class of a woman.
Not long after, and successfully pregnant with a baby, the family is happy.
Such a harmonious and happy family picture, I think the main credit with my friend's good habits, this habit to influence each other, subtle inculcation, and ultimately the fruit, should be considered the most beautiful creation.
My other female friend is called Xiaohui, she is the president of the company's dance association, every weekend with a group of dance enthusiasts rotating in the dance studio, a variety of large and small party performances have her figure.
But three years ago, she didn't even dare to go to the square dance.
At that time, she tried several times to join the big moms, however, looking at the wide square and the bright night lights, she backed off again and again.
She even tried to sneak by and find a dimly-lit spot to do some gesticulations, but walked on and literally treated it as if she were passing by again.
But every now and then, her husband would encourage her, telling her how to overcome her inner demons and how to break out of her bondage. Finally, she plucked up her courage again and plunged headlong into the center of the square.
But she realized that her hands were completely out of control, her ears couldn't hear the music at all, her mind was blank, and she could really feel the eyes of everyone around her, watching her make a fool of herself. She was like a man in the back, hating to find a crack in the ground to drill in. She simply closed her eyes.
Suddenly, she was tapped on the shoulder, and she turned around to see that it was her husband, standing behind her, waving comically after the amazons.
Suddenly she felt a warmth, it turned out that her husband had run out onto the floor to dance even as a big man in order to encourage himself.
She looked around shyly, and realized that the amazons hadn't even noticed them, and that all the people around them, coming and going, with the occasional sidelong glance down this way, could barely see the two people in the center of the square.
After that, Xiaohui became a regular at the square dance, mixing with the amazons and later leading them in a new dance.
Moment the woman as a wife, as a partner, as a lover, and even as a friend, always keep a simple heart, respect each other, to the man should have the responsibility and responsibility, with the bosom to open up a stage, so that the other side of the show the potential of the heart, to show the better themselves, this is the realm of nourishment it.
Who says that marriage must be boring and dull?
With such a kind of marriage atmosphere, little happiness is staged every day, happiness is an exclusive.
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