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How can you take advantage of the coolness if you don't plant the tree first?
To be a mother-in-law who does not give help to her daughter-in-law in her most difficult time, but only wants her daughter-in-law to serve when she is old and sick is too also shameless!
I, the first ten years to see the mother-in-law, the next ten years to see the daughter-in-lawdaughter-in-law do not do their best to take care of the month when the mother-in-law, but with their daughter to travel, may I ask is to spend money to hire a nanny sister-in-law to the daughter-in-law? I'd like to ask if the daughter-in-law's monthly life is guaranteed?
It is a good idea to travel with your daughter and let your daughter-in-law bear the burden of the month alone, is it really a good idea to be a mother-in-law?
It is said that after the son married and daughter-in-law should be independent not to gnaw on the old not dependent on the old man, but the son daughter-in-law is difficult to do the mother-in-law not to help is really should not. The daughter-in-law has managed to survive the most difficult years, can breathe when the mother-in-law came out to let the son and daughter-in-law to bear the problem of support, may I ask the appropriate?
The most exhausting time for a woman is the first 10 years, during which she has to raise children and earn money to support the family, and which is the time when the family spends the most money and needs the most help.
After 10 years of the mother-in-law into old age, their bodies are increasingly aging, health is also deteriorating, if the mother-in-law in the daughter-in-law before the marriage of 10 years to give timely help and support, then this after 10 years of old age basically get guaranteed.
If the mother-in-law did not help her daughter-in-law in time, to the old age, in turn asked her daughter-in-law to take care of themselves, which is unfair to the daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law has no right and no obligation, there is a problem or to find the daughter who accompanied their own travel, the son who is proud of it!
Being a mother-in-law should always remember that the daughter-in-law is also a human being, she is also flesh and blood and have feelings, do not bully people too much.
II, the position of their ownin the marriage of daughter-in-law to the position of the daughter-in-law, mother-in-law should also be the position of the mother-in-law.
Particularly, the mother-in-law should not think that she has a daughter, and not count on her daughter-in-law in the future, and make things difficult for her, so that her daughter-in-law can live in the heat of the moment. When you are old, you will have to rely on your daughter-in-law to find her, and you will use your daughter-in-law as a moral abductor, so that she will have to serve you.
The dispute between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, in which the son plays a key role, this time the son must correct the position of their husbands, and the daughter-in-law to stand on the same position to solve the problem.
There is also the question of the daughter, as the mother's daughter, brother and sister-in-law's sister, she should not be in the sister-in-law when the mother dragged away, but should persuade the mother of the sister-in-law a little bit better, do the sister-in-law should also be correct in their own position.
Three, can not rely on the old manSubordination of the elderly although it is a Chinese virtue, as the old man should not rely on the old man, not to mention the moral abduction of daughter-in-law, you can ask the daughter to ask the son, but can not threaten the daughter-in-law.
Daughter-in-law to serve the mother-in-law is the love, do not serve is this.
Being a mother-in-law is the first thing you need to do, and if you can't do your own job, then you should ask your daughter-in-law to do it, because your daughter and son are not good enough.
To be kind, a mother-in-law should be sympathetic to her daughter-in-law's difficulties, and cherish her daughter-in-law's efforts.