01.
Most women will be in a daze after reaching their forties.
Middle-aged women tend to devote their energies to their families, rarely thinking about themselves first, and focusing on taking care of their husbands and children.
However, this kind of pay and can not be exchanged for the same care and treatment, this kind of trouble has been lingering in the heart of the middle-aged woman.
In life, those who always think of others to pay for the woman is often their own life is not so happy, but those who are able to think for themselves, love themselves love more than others in the life of the woman, in order to live more and more blessed.
When a person is accustomed to other people's good to him, he will take this good as a matter of course.
One way or another, you're not going to be able to get away with it, and you're not going to be able to get away with it. It doesn't make you happy.
Women live not to please others, but for their own better self-identity, they are the dominant player in their own lives.
Only if you make yourself the center of gravity of life, and learn to care for yourself, others will also value you.
Middle-aged women can only live for themselves when they learn to be "selfish", in order to live out their own posture, and only then let the people around them look at themselves, so that women can live more and more blessed.
02.
After a woman reaches the age of forty, most families seem to naturally contract all the housework to a woman.
When a woman comes home from work every day, she has to take care of the family and do a lot of housework.
Such a woman will only make herself more and more difficult to live.
When you are laboring to do housework, the husband is lying on the sofa playing games, many women encounter this situation have endured down, do not want to cause a fight.
And smart women will pay more attention to their own bodies, these chores will be fair arrangements for everyone in the family to do.
Middle-aged women need to take care of their bodies and get more rest in their family life.
If you put up with all the chores in the beginning, there is no one who will volunteer to take them on for you in the future, and they will naturally assume that it's all yours to do.
Only if you value yourself will others value you from the bottom of their hearts.
Women over forty, pay more attention to their own rest, pay attention to their own body woman, in order to live in the future life more and more happy.
Downstairs, Auntie Li who has reached middle age looks radiant every day, and is smiling every time she says hello.
Unlike other aunts in the unit, Auntie Li looks very happy and full of life every day.
Every night after dinner, Auntie Li is always the first to come to the square to dance.
Auntie Li and Uncle Liu have been married for so many years, and Auntie Li has always insisted on going to the square dance, while Uncle Liu naturally took over the housework after dinner.
It's because she still has her own hobbies and interests and her own circle of life that she can make her own life fulfilling and happy even after she reaches middle age.
They have a hobby to stick to, and their husbands will naturally help you with the chores at home.
They have their own hobbies and interests, and naturally they will be happier and happier.
Song often complains that she is a bitter woman.
After getting married, she gave up her old life and chose to stay at home to raise her children.
At the beginning, the husband is still very moved, time is long for the husband's rightful enjoyment, for Song's dedication and sacrifice did not see in the eyes.
Xiao Song live their own life into a greasy middle-aged woman, every day only stay at home to work as if with the outside world to lose all the "contact".
In fact, after the middle age, the woman this way, it is easy to live in front of the husband as a transparent body, their own happiness will be planted in the hands of their own.
After the woman to the middle age, to learn to love themselves a little more, do not think of what time to pay for others, only their own love themselves, others will cherish you.
When it comes to favorite clothes, bite the bullet and buy them, and dress yourself up a little more exquisitely every day to appreciate your own beauty.
After all, in the middle age, women rely on their own ability and charisma, only their own love for themselves, in order to belong to the charm of the middle-aged women to radiate out.
Don't just live for others, break through the shackles of the mind, live for yourself, live out of yourself, to be able to have a happy life.