Education experts have said that confident children are the most beautiful!
This shows how important self-confidence is!
Psychologically, self-confidence is a healthy psychological state and a guarantee of success! If children want to succeed, no matter what difficulties they encounter, they should maintain self-confidence and dare to face life and the future.
1. "Pocket Girl" is on fire, with a height of 1.3 meters and an annual income of one million: confident and optimistic, full of positive energy.
Confidence index: ★★★★★★★
There is a girl named Huang who is only 1.35 meters tall.
Hearing this figure, many parents may think that she is still a primary school student, but she is not. She was born in 199 1 and is 29 years old.
In the corner of society, there are a group of dwarfism patients called "pocket people".
And yellow is one of them.
Dwarves, although their height is limited and their brains are unaffected, their lives will definitely be very different from ordinary people. Most children may lose self-confidence and courage to pursue the future.
However, Huang is different. She didn't give up life, but actively studied, started her own business and pursued her own life.
Now, she is the blogger of Celebrity on the Internet. She has worked as a singer, e-commerce, beauty salon and participated in variety shows, with an annual salary of over one million.
Perhaps, some parents will question: "Is her family a company?"
Not exactly. Huang was born in an ordinary peasant family, with a sister, a younger brother and a younger sister, and his family life was poor.
When she was a student, Huang was often laughed at by her classmates, and she felt very inferior. She dropped out of junior high school before she graduated.
Even so, she didn't give up on herself, but found her own way out and eventually became the "most beautiful pocket girl".
Now, Huang has made achievements, and more and more men are pursuing her. The secret behind her success is simple, that is, two words:
Confidence!
Huang Tiansheng is an optimist. Even if she was bullied and laughed at, she felt inferior and didn't blame herself.
How's it going? Is Huang's deeds particularly inspirational? Is it full of positive energy?
2. 13-year-old one-armed boy is on fire, and 7 pairs of sneakers are worn out in 2 years: confident children are more handsome.
Confidence index: ★★★★★★★
A while ago, a one-armed boy aged 13 became popular on the Internet. The national men's basketball team cheered for him, and the NBA superstar praised him and even went to CCTV!
Zhang Jiacheng, a native of Guangdong, had an accident when he was 5 years old. His right wrist was broken by a blender, his right arm was burned, and finally he was amputated by a doctor.
Although Zhang Jiacheng has only one arm left, he has not given up his future life. He firmly believes that one hand can survive.
Zhang Jiacheng's parents said: "We are worried that he will be stubborn and lose confidence in life. As a result, he is more optimistic than us. He said that he would slowly learn to do things with one hand. "
Zhang Jiacheng is not just talking. From dressing and eating to doing housework, Zhang Jiacheng can do it with one hand. An arm didn't make him lose himself, but became stronger and more independent.
By chance, Zhang Jiacheng accidentally came into contact with basketball and fell in love with it.
Because he has only one arm, it is difficult to control basketball, so he conducts "devil training" every day and finally becomes a basketball master, wearing out seven pairs of sneakers in two years.
In the face of the encouragement of famous stars and CCTV interviews, Zhang Jiacheng told the truth:
"By playing basketball, I have made many friends and become happy and confident, and everyone's support has made me more confident about the future."
There is a kind of handsomeness called self-confidence, and such children are more beautiful! Parents, do you agree?
3. 10-year-old pupils' English speech is on fire, and their pronunciation is pure, calm and confident. Netizen: It is worthy of praise.
Confidence index: ★★★★★☆.
Not long ago, in a live broadcast held by China Daily and China Daily, a primary school student aged 10 gave a speech in English and shared the story of his relatives who volunteered to fight the epidemic in Wuhan.
Wang Weimin, a pupil, won the national finals of "2 1 Century Cup".
This year, Wang Weimin stood on the stage of "New Era Lecture Hall" and gave us a wonderful speech.
During the speech, Wang Weimin was not nervous at all. He is calm and confident, and his maturity exceeds that of his peers.
After seeing Wang Weimin's wonderful performance, netizens commented in succession:
"Pure pronunciation, rich body language, no less practice at first glance, confidence in the bones, come on!"
"It's commendable, it's amazing."
"Sure enough, they are all children of other people's families."
Wang Weimin can speak in English. His diction and vocabulary are excellent, but if he is not confident, he may get stage fright and make mistakes.
Therefore, self-confidence is the key to children's success!
How do parents cultivate their children's self-confidence?
1 encourage children.
Parents' encouragement doesn't need material rewards, just one sentence:
"Mom believes you!"
"Son, if you work so hard, you will succeed!"
"Although it is difficult to do this, as long as you practice more, you will get better and better."
Parents' encouragement is like a panacea, which can help children have confidence in life!
(2) Hold your head high and keep smiling.
People with low self-esteem always like to lower their heads, dare not look at others, have no expression on their faces or cry.
Confident people hold their heads high, dare to look directly at others, and often have a smile on their faces, giving people a sense of strategizing.
3 help children analyze their advantages.
Parents can help their children analyze their own advantages and disadvantages, and don't just see their own shortcomings without seeing their own advantages.
If children only see their own shortcomings, they will feel that they have accomplished nothing, are not cared for by their parents, and life is meaningless.
If they see their own advantages, they will see their own value and become more confident.
Parents can cultivate their children's specialties and encourage them to participate in group activities, which can better enhance their self-confidence.