Beijing is a city that many young people aspire to, and it is also a place where dreams begin. Living in Beijing if you don't work hard, what can you do to support your children, your family and yourself.
The hard work behind the "flow transfer".
During the epidemic, in order to prevent the spread of the epidemic, will be infected with the flow of transfer track public, if there is contact with the personnel need to check in time to do a good job of isolation.
And in this copy of the flow track, we saw the adult life is not easy. For example, the daily life of a previous 34-year-old Shunyi dad showed us the struggles of parenting under Beijing.
The dad commutes 50 kilometers a day to work in the Haidian district. After working all day, he has to read at night to prepare for his exams.
On top of that, the dad has to do the shopping at home, send his kids to an early childhood class, and three days before he was due to take the exams, he was sent to Ningbo on a business trip by his company.
Under great pressure, the father obeyed the company's arrangement, but unfortunately he was tested positive for nucleic acid in Ningbo. The hard-working dad, had to give up his chance to go to graduate school this year.
Another 32-year-old woman had to work two jobs on her own. During the day, she has to work at her office, and at night she works part-time at a courier sorting center from 22:00 to 2:00 am.
It is reported that this lady is not an occasional part-time job, but a long-term solid. Her monthly salary from her two jobs could break ten thousand dollars, so why is a woman working so hard.
Maybe she has her dreams, maybe she has her difficulties, maybe she is for a better life in the future, maybe to give her children better quality conditions.
The other is an online driver in his forties, who works 17 hours a day, from 6am to 11pm. He stays in his car all the time and eats in a hurry in order to get more orders.
In his mid-forties, he has a young family and the whole family is counting on him. It's a very stressful age, how to live without working and how to take care of your family.
These a part of the flow of tone, let us see the back of the pain, adult world and not easy word . It's easy to be born, it's easy to live, it's not easy to live.
Why are Beijing adults so desperate?Beijing is a first-tier city with countless successful entrepreneurs, start-ups and social elites. Beijing is not short of good people, nor is it short of people who work hard.
Why adults in Beijing squeeze themselves to create value, I personally think there are the following reasons.
First, to pay off their loans.
Beijing's wages are high, but so are the relative price levels. Many young people choose to go to Beijing to make it big, and when they meet someone they like, they naturally want to settle down in Beijing.
Beijing can be described as a land of gold, the price of housing is naturally not low. In order to pay off their loans, young people must work hard and increase their income.
Adults who work hard don't dare to waste every minute, 24 hours a day will be arranged properly. And they won't let go of the opportunity to make money,every point earned now is a point of pressure for the future.
And then, for the sake of the future of the children.
In your 30s and 40s, you usually already have children at home. A child's education fund, occupying most of the family's expenditure. Parents in order not to let their children lose in the starting line, not to sea enrollment classes to improve the overall quality of the child.
Some parents obviously have high incomes, but they change their habits after having children. They don't dare to buy clothes, go out to eat or spend a penny more for themselves.
Parents try their best to give their children a quality educational environment, even at their own expense. Parents don't want their children to be successful in the future, they just want them to not work as hard as their parents.
And finally, to fight for your dreams.
Beijing is a place full of dreams, attracting many young people with dreams of drifting north. They sweat and tear in Beijing, they can endure the crowded and humid basement just to realize a dream.
He can choose to return home to live a cozy life,but they prefer to make their youth live a worthy life. Some succeeded, some failed, some stayed on in Beijing, and some went back to their hometowns with packages on their backs.
No matter what, they all fought through.
Everyone has their own aspirations.Amid the stream of polls, many people note that Chengdu people have the highest happiness index. On the streets of Chengdu, you can see old people gathering to play mahjong everywhere.
They are past the age of striving and have begun to enjoy the fruits of their endeavors. As the old saying goes, When you're young and strong, you don't work hard, but when you're old, you're sad. If you don't work hard when you're young, how can you live openly when you're old.
The pace of life in Beijing is fast and people are under a lot of pressure. But people have hope, even under constant pressure, they can find the meaning of life.
Some people think they are too tired, why don't they go back home to develop. Maybe people have their own aspirations, some are used to a slower pace, some prefer a faster pace, each has their own choices.
There is no such thing as an easy adult life. No matter what city you are in, there are adults who are constantly working hard. They race against the clock, traveling through day and night, topping off their family's future with a constant fight.
ConclusionAdults in Beijing work part-time in addition to their jobs, and they work so hard for the sake of their children, for their dreams, and for a better future.
No one wants to work so hard,just that none of them admit defeat.