As a last resort, some parents have to choose to go out to work and go all out to make money.
The biggest expectation of these parents is to accompany their children day and night and witness their growth every day. How happy it is for a family to live together!
Unfortunately, in order to live, I have to give up accompanying my children and choose to let them live in the home for the elderly. In this way, the poor child has become a "left-behind child" in the eyes of others.
In 20 13, the All-China Women's Federation calculated that there were 6 102550 left-behind children in rural areas in China according to the data of the sixth national census in 20 10. /kloc-9.02 million rural left-behind children under the age of 0/6 whose parents go out to work.
The loudest voice of left-behind children: I miss my parents and hope their parents can come back again!
Example: 5-year-old Lele is very sensible. He knows that his parents go out to work to make money for him. Lele stayed in the countryside and lived with her grandparents. Although he misses his parents very much, he never calls them.
The happiest thing for Lele is to hear her parents calling. As long as the phone rings, Lele will be particularly excited, often chatting with her parents for a long time, and still holding the phone and not wanting to hang up. Lele has been crying since her parents reluctantly hung up the phone.
On one occasion, my father went back to his hometown to reissue his documents and could only stay for one night. Lele is as happy as "New Year". Dad plays with Lele at home, playing hide-and-seek and checkers for a while. Throughout the day, Lele was so happy that she laughed much more than usual for a year!
In the evening, dad put Lele to sleep. Lele is worried that his father will leave soon and will hold his father's arm when he sleeps. Grandpa cried when he saw it. The old man always feels that this poor family is really sorry for the children!
At dawn, the father wanted to get up and leave before his son woke up, lest his son be sad.
However, I broke my son's hand several times and still didn't break it. My son even tugged at his father's arm when he slept. Finally, the father couldn't help crying. He shook off his son's hand, picked up his schoolbag and went out to work.
Every left-behind child's parents have unspeakable bitterness. Fortunately, this unspeakable secret can be understood by adults of migrant workers.
Unfortunately, children are different. Children are too young, and some children who are not sensible may not sympathize with or even laugh at their companions who have "no parents".
Left-behind children are ridiculed, and their hearts are painful!
The 7-year-old boy was ridiculed as a "wild child". The boy questioned his parents: Why did you give birth to me?
The child is seven years old. He has lived with his grandparents for as long as he can remember.
Children live in the mountains, and the road is not easy at all. Children have to walk half a mile to go to school, and they have suffered from wind and rain.
One day, Xiao Tong braved the heavy rain to go to school and fell down on the way. When he arrived at school, he looked depressed. The most naughty boy in the class laughed at Xiao Tong and said, "Look at you, just like a drowned rat, you are really a wild child without parents."
Hearing this, the child couldn't stand it, and all the grievances along the way came out. The child threw away his schoolbag and beat his male classmates at all costs.
As soon as the class teacher saw it, he quickly separated the two children. Then, I helped Xiao Tong dry her tears. Xiao Tong burst into tears and begged the teacher to lend him the phone.
The child took out the note and got through to his father's phone. At the top of his lungs, he asked his father, "Why did you give birth to me if you didn't accompany me?"
Xiao Tong met his parents once three years ago. But in recent years, parents only called people to get 70 thousand yuan back, and people never went home again. Children miss their parents very much, but they can't even remember their faces. If it weren't for today, children couldn't vent their dissatisfaction at all, they would only cry in their dreams.
"No one asked me if the porridge was hot, and no one accompanied me at dusk." It is also timely to use a poem on left-behind children.
Parents are unable to accompany their children, missing the most important growth period of their children and hurting the hearts of left-behind children. In life, left-behind children also have many problems.
The pain of left-behind children may accompany them all their lives, calling on their parents to "try their best to accompany them"
Left-behind children may face many problems. Parents can only solve these fundamental problems by "trying their best to accompany" their children in their own way.
1 Left-behind children have poor academic performance and do not like learning.
Some left-behind children live with grandparents and other elderly people. The way the elderly discipline their children is usually "free-range", and the requirements for children's academic performance are not strict. Some left-behind children don't like studying very much, and no one urges them, so they don't go to school very early and stay at home to help with farm work.
Solution: If parents are not around their children, they can still urge them to study hard through video or telephone. Alternatively, parents can reward and punish their children. If the child does well in the exam, parents can go home early to visit their children and increase their initiative in learning.
Left-behind children are very lonely and easy to be withdrawn.
Parents leave their children to the elderly, so that children almost "lose" their parents' care at a very young age. This kind of pain is really great and torturous for children.
Some children have developed a withdrawn character for this, which is hard to escape all their lives.
Solution: Parents must take time out, communicate with their children more, and go home to visit their children when necessary. In addition, if parents really have no conditions to do so, they should try to accompany their children in a special way.
For example, to help children develop hobbies, assuming that children fall in love with painting and put their parents' photos aside to accompany them, children will feel very gratified and will not be extremely lonely.
Caring for left-behind children starts with "a smile"!
Being born as a human being should be good.
If the parents of left-behind children really work hard for their lives, they have no time to pay attention to their children. Then as ordinary people, we should do our best to help these children.
Sister Li in the community is a kind person. Every year, she organizes some caring people to take the initiative to visit left-behind children in rural areas. Read books with children and talk about their worries.
The power of love makes a mickle. Here, we call on the strength of the public and the people around the left-behind children to be as considerate as possible and send a little warm companionship to the children in need.
Perhaps, everyone's touch of smile and a kind company will make children's childhood more colorful and happier!