Blind date is the process of two strange animals approaching slowly with vigilance and vigilance. The most common embarrassment is silence.
Two people were sitting in a restaurant, chatting while eating. One build did not build. Both sides racked their brains to find a topic, and their brains were running at high speed. Eating a meal is more tiring than fighting. If you are not careful, it will be cold, and it will be over after three or five times.
It took time and energy, and finally, I lost my wife and soldiers.
The key point is that this kind of "static blind date" is only suitable for "the initial stage of blind date" and can't be played all the time, because the static mode can't effectively promote the subsequent plot development, and the efficiency is extremely low.
The same is true of watching movies.
The two spent three hours, except for the "pick-up+drop-off" stage, they could probably exchange a few pleasantries, and most of the time was wasted on watching movies, with couples cuddling head-to-head in front and boys kissing behind. ...
You two can't watch movies, spend money for nothing, can't talk, and are stuffed with dog food. It's stupid and embarrassing, completely meaningless and inefficient.
In fact, the most suitable stage for watching movies is the most critical "turning point" stage in the relationship between two people.
The relationship between the two people is initially stable, and each feels that the other party is reliable and can continue to go on, but no one can save face and help him at most, and has never found a key breakthrough point to raise the relationship to a higher level. Then go to the dark jungle .......................................................................................................
Generally speaking, two people in the "primary stage" can adopt a "static mode", sit in a restaurant and talk while eating, and use language to explore, investigate and find out each other.
If you have a little affection for each other, at least you don't hate it. This is good news, which shows that "everything is difficult at the beginning, and it has made a good start".
I dare not eat any more. After three or five meals at most, we should quickly change from "static mode" to "dynamic mode" and try to "move every time" to make the blind date full of rhythm and rhythm.
-be quiet from beginning to end and endure it.
How to move?
Like going to an amusement park.
Because you two are not very familiar, you must go to an environment with a "dynamic atmosphere" and use the environment to drive and stimulate. You are all young people. When the environment is stimulated, it is easy to release your activity.
Man is an animal. As long as you play together, it is easy to eliminate the sense of distance and strangeness with your partner and quickly narrow the distance.
Animals will do this. As long as a strange male and female can play together, they can get into the grass behind them. .................................
Moreover, amusement parks, such dynamic places, are generally noisy, so you don't have to rack your brains to find nonsense. Take action.
There is a third advantage of the playground. Adults and children are yelling, people who play laugh, people who don't play are also very enthusiastic, everyone is very happy, and they all follow * * * productism-the atmosphere is great.
Both you and the other person can be infected by the atmosphere. When people are happy, it is easy to unload their disguise, put down their guard and guard, and open their hearts, so that thieves will increase and naturally lead to many topics.
Occasionally make a mistake, the other party will laugh it off and won't mind.
You two are going to put it in the restaurant for a static chat. What's wrong, you poke at the other person's acupoint, but she doesn't say it in her heart. You just paid the bill here, and she deleted it for you there. You don't even know how to die, you are at a loss, and you die unsatisfied.
In a place full of sports and joy, there are no such concerns.
It doesn't matter if you are really timid and dare not do anything. The surrounding environment is good and the atmosphere is great. You two can rent a recreational vehicle to watch the fun and chat while watching. The title will never be sad, and you can tell a book unconsciously.
It costs hundreds of dollars, which is much better than going to a restaurant and is particularly efficient.
So, what should I play when I enter the playground?
Of course, you have to listen to your sister. You have the right to suggest and explain, and she has the right to decide.
Don't worry, girls always have reservations when they come out to play with you for the first time. She won't drag you to the roller coaster as soon as she gets on the bus. To really catch up with such a Tigress, you should either run, kneel down and sing conquest.
For the first time, my sister usually doesn't play too hard. She doesn't know you well enough, so she plays the double event with the difficulty coefficient below 1.0, and the merry-go-round hits the ferris wheel ... As long as she has fun, once dopamine is secreted, you will be pleasing to the eye, and then have dinner together at night, and the communication efficiency will be swished.
As long as you two can play together, the blind date process will basically go smoothly, and maybe you can find something to catch up with.
Can't we play together?
That's better, it shows that fate and love are not separated. Say goodbye and forget it before it's too late. Don't waste time and energy.
Among them, four points should be noted:
1 means to make the other person happy, and you are happy when she is happy. Don't make everyone happy.
Once there was a big brother who took my advice and went straight to the amusement park with his blind date on weekends. At first, it was great. He was very busy and dealt with it. His sister had a good time. They made love for a while, and then they played. Grandson himself was high, and he lost someone as soon as he turned around. ...
Some men are born to be lone stars in Dreadwind, suitable for solo flight all their lives, but not suitable for playing the two-person combination game of marriage.
2, properly control your hormones, don't look at the girl happy, you take the opportunity to touch others' little hands.
The first time you successfully invited someone out to play, it was as if the Red Army had just left Jinggangshan and had not yet started the Long March. Don't rush to attack the Kuomintang, or you will be embarrassed.
Don't be shocked, challenge the super pendulum, show your little masculinity ... maybe ask her to play 120 for you.
3. Don't play popular projects.
Because of the long queue, it is easy to get upset, and the two people return to the static mode of staring at each other, which is very embarrassing.
4, how busy people are, how long they are, protect each other's safety, and take care of themselves.
Whether in love, dating or writing a story, we should pay attention to a "quiet mode", and do it every time, actively mobilize the hormones of both sides, create some surprises and excitement for her appropriately, and stir up the emotions. Don't always go to restaurants and cinemas to play a dead "static mode" to make them fall in love with their seventies and eighties.
In short, in the "transition from the beginning to the end", we should be quiet (eat), move (play), and be dark (the cinema grove) ... finally.
Don't get the order wrong.
There was an old comrade who was in excellent health, and someone kindly introduced him to a wife. When they first met, the old man was still as steady as a dog. The second time I took the old lady to the square dance directly, Qiuci twisted his waist and lay at home for half a year ... This is a lone star of Dreadwind, and ghosts dare not recruit him.
Many people are worried. They met their blind date three or five times and ate three or five meals. They felt ok with each other, but they just didn't know how to move on.
Chatting with people statically on WeChat every day, greeting in the morning and evening. She is not Galeries Lafayette, but you have become Li. The atmosphere makes you lifeless, tasteless, eccentric and very embarrassing. Give it to me, and I won't talk to you.
Comrade Weibo, the founder of People's Republic of China (PRC), ruled this country. That's because he is the president. You are in love with WeChat. Who are you?
People who are in love "fall in love" on WeChat, but you don't. You are on a blind date route, and there is nothing to talk about with each other. You have to take the slant of the sword, take the sports route of "playing with friends" and "play" the atmosphere.