Poor people are not only broke, they are also particularly emotional.
- Davy Not Me
Most things in poor people's homes are caused by emotionality, of course - the most essential reason is that they don't have enough money. Being rich makes you less emotional. Just like people who have been in business are different from those who haven't.
People who haven't done business their way of understanding the world is to consume - the consumer is God.
One of the things I always say is - if you are God, why do you pay for what you buy? --Isn't the merchant supposed to pay God? That means most people are not God - it is they who pretend they are.
I've never seen God need to rent an apartment. Isn't God supposed to live in a big flat? Shouldn't he be living in Shenzhen Bay One? Why did he go to share a room, why did he go to someone else's house to rub food together - he doesn't understand the life of God.
The people who have done business are not God, they are also consumers. Because you have to eat and drink too. But the difference with the 100% pure gold consumer is - they don't get emotional, and if they do they don't get emotional with a stranger - they get emotional with someone they have a stake in-
For example, a boss will scold his employee and say - why are you so stupid? Why are you so stupid? Because employees are the assets of the company. Employees make mistakes mostly leaders are also responsible. But scolding employees is essentially for the good of the company.
And the poor people scolding, emotional, are with their own no interest in the people. For example, today there is a man to catch the high-speed rail did not catch up, essentially, he did not pay attention to listen, addicted to playing the phone. As a result, the high-speed train left and he smashed the 6 machines at the ticket gate.
Do you think rich people, people who have done business can do such a stupid thing? It's the poor people who do it. It is clear that the reason is their own. He fucking also smashed things. As a result, he was detained for 7 days and had to pay for the damages.
When a woman is married to such a stupid man, can they still live a good life? Absolutely not. Emotional men should never be married. Emotional men are poor. That's for sure. If you don't believe me, go and observe your male friends around you - as long as the man is poor - he is definitely emotional.
With this kind of man, it is definitely a disaster movie.
Of course, when a rich man finds a woman who is particularly emotional, or a woman who is particularly aggressive, you'll find that the man's career will be absolutely no good either - it's definitely downhill.
Or as the saying goes - the man is the woman's backbone, and the woman is the man's feng shui.
Men and women only have the same goal, do not be too emotional together - then there is a chance to get better and better. Where the woman wants too much and the man can't fulfill it - then it must fall apart.
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Some people ask - like you say, don't live your life.
Living life is for ordinary people, poor people.
- Davy is not me
What is the life that ordinary people live - it is friends, relatives, wives and children hot pit head, coworkers, brothers and sisters and what not. That's what a lot of poor people can't get around their whole life - when you decide to be a rich person, what you want is - stay away from this group of people who are not a value with you -
The poor people aspire to life is - wife and children hot pit head, nothing to find their colleagues rubbing mahjong, playing cards, nothing to play an all-nighter. Home has a wife and children to take care of their own food and clothing. Then sleep to wake up naturally, there are people to cook their own noodles to eat - such a life is the majority of people want -
You want to be a strong, when a rich man. You can't get into any of these things - even if you think that's what a normal person should be like, that's the old you - not the later you. If you want to make a difference in the future you, then you have to start changing your perceptions from now on.
The sooner you start changing the better, if you are now in your 19th or early 20th, then you have to start denying all your previous perceptions, all your previous behaviors now. Because your previous behavior will not make you rich in the next 10 years.
Instead, it will make you stupider. People only get smarter on the way to getting richer, not the other way around.
A poor man's i experience any more will never make him rich. Because his social circle is centered around the poor people around him , and the most important thing is that he does not create his own value for this society. He is only able to support himself.
Most people whether they are in a big city or in a small city - they are just supporting themselves. Why else are so many people single? Why do so many women in their 30s in Shenzhen say they want to start their own business? Isn't it all because they are only able to support themselves?
You didn't even start a business before you were 30, and you're telling me that you can still start a successful business after 30. You are still a woman, please give me 10 reasons why I can believe you. You tell me where you've been for the first 10 years?
Men and women are different, men can still fail before 30. But women can't. In fact women have to go find a good man until they are 25 if they don't have much of a career ahead of them -
Finding a good man is also a career. It's even better than making 20k a month working for yourself. your chances of finding a good man before 25 are far greater than when you're 27 or 28 years old.
Women are not more wanted the older they get, but if they are younger the more they are wanted. Even if you can't make money, your husband can make it.
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All the hobbies that can't be realized are not called hobbies, they can only be called consumption.
--David is not me
Often I hear people say - look I have to go to painting lessons every week.
There are times when this group of people - will also pass their hobby works to the circle of friends. Actually the purpose is to have someone to give him likes and comments - painting is not important - what is important is comments and likes.
To put it bluntly - buying bragging rights with money.
It's the compliments and praise from others that they want. In their opinion praise is the only way to survive in this world - if someone praises him, he is happy. If no one praises him, he is not happy -
Their emotions come from the circle around him. Their joys and sorrows come from what those around them say about him.
Actually most people's hobbies are short-lived - I've heard of a lot of people who love to paint, but that was 10 years ago. Nowadays people don't even mention painting themselves.
I've heard a lot of people like to sing, but he's never done it live, never insisted on singing every day--
I've heard a lot of people like to talk about guitar, and I had a college roommate who did. But never heard him mention it either, and of course I don't have his contact info.
I've heard a lot of people talk about how much he likes to write himself - but how many people are still writing? None. Just 0.
I've heard of people who think they have a great sense of humor, but none of those people have the guts to get up on stage and perform. There are a lot of stages in this community, there are live streams, there are short videos, there are text-based self-publishing. There are offline talk shows, and you don't do any of these. Then it's just that you're not funny - you're just getting high.
Man's self-importance comes from the fact that he doesn't know enough about himself - that is, he lives in his own world. That is, he knows nothing about the outside world.
You don't have to go on stage if you want to sing, you can record a song. Upload it to Netflix. Those who want to dance don't have to go on a show. You can dance and upload to short video platforms at home. You did not insist on singing, dancing - then it can only mean one thing - that is, your hobby is not even a hobby, that is consumption.
It's just a way for you to consume yourself.
All hobbies you don't stick to, that's not called a hobby. It's called a whim - like a man who sees a beautiful woman on the street - and his first thought is - I'm going to get her. A whim is either love at first sight - or wanting to have sex with this woman.
Even if the man went to hit on, into, is a mutual need. If it doesn't work out, the man finds the next target.
So - you see people have a wide range of hobbies, but none of them are the ones who do it well and for a long time. Because they have all been seduced by the immediate benefits - like beauty, like all kinds of entertainment.
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A woman who constantly uses a man as a cash machine is a trash for life.
--David is not me
This kind of guy is also a trash, obviously are using you as an ATM and still feel honored. Serves you right for not having money and for getting screwed by women. Serves you right for not being able to find a good woman.
My most annoying kind of woman is - depending on others like her, hanging a man. The man sends her anything she wants. --But if you want to be with her, she will tell you that - you are not suitable for each other - not suitable for you to fucking need other people's things why?
What do you need if it's not right? If you don't want to delete and blackmail him, you still have dinner with him, you still talk to him about Sao, you still have an ambiguous relationship with him -- what do you want?
Isn't it just that he's good to you, and then you can send a friend circle if you want?
A slap in the face is not enough. This kind of woman, meet are sweet dog. Are thinking you do not like me, I still hope to be good to you silly than men. To put it bluntly - this kind of man has not seen any women.
Or maybe this kind of man has never seen any beautiful woman.
They thought they had found a good one when they met one by chance. The fact is that they are not wanted by others. The good ones can be left to the sweet dog. The good quality women are in the successful men's home, will not leave the sweet dog. The ones that are left for sweet dogs are the ones who are not decent.
Either they want money, or they want someone to be nice to them. What is wanted is someone to chase her but not let you have her. To put it bluntly this woman is fishing.
Fishing means that there is more than one man for this woman, maybe more men like this sweet dog man. Giving away stuff and money again.
It's like when you build a house, you need all kinds of materials. You need bricks, you need cement, you need rebar, you need free laborers and so on. These sweet dog men are those materials, and when the house is built, it's time to cut ties with these men.
At best, keep a light bulb changer in case you need one later. There's a story about a guy who was interested in a woman he was with, but after a long period of time of pursuing her, the woman all but told him - it wasn't going to work out between them - and then the guy said - it's not going to work out between them. -Then the guy says - let's be friends then.
Then one day this woman suddenly sent a certain letter to find him said - free, can not go to her home to install a light bulb. The man must have felt that the opportunity had come. Going to her house, installing a light bulb, if you want to add a time, it would be 8pm. All in all it gives the impression - here's your chance.
The man went in three times, in less than 10 minutes. Less than 10 minutes to install. Then the woman called and told her boyfriend - the lights in the house were installed - and the man who helped her install the bulbs heard it from the sidelines - because the cell phone was on speakerphone!
Then the man asked her why she was still looking for her boyfriend. The woman replied - I'm afraid of electrocuting my boyfriend.
So - don't be cheap when it comes to men, don't sell your time cheaply. Talk about the conditions and then decide whether you want to help or not. Don't waste time on people who have no value.
If a woman really does not like a person, when what a few friends. The first thing you need to do is to get out of the way. When the friend is to be a spare tire, give the man a chance to change.
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Long-term do not see the results of things to do more, short-term see the results of things to do less.
--David is not me
What does it mean to do things that don't see results in the long term? --It's when you do it now and now you don't see any results. Even you wonder if you're stupid. But this is something that allows you to have all the buildup.
Writing, for example - you won't see any progress in the early stages. Even if you do, it's short-term progress. Maybe you'll get a rise in followers, but it's the same whether you get a rise or not. Like if you have 1 fan up to 5 fans, you say you feel it? -- You don't feel it.
But for you you see more than just those 4 followers. You see more growth for you. You writing, 1000 words a day is not the same as someone writing 200 subs a day. Writing 200 words might be posting a circle of friends. Writing 1000 words, at least you have to write in paragraphs.
It takes different work. Someone who writes 200 words can do it all in one paragraph, and can do it without paragraphs. While it's true that you don't feel much when you write 1000 words a day, day after day. But as long as you stick with it, you'll find that you're looking at things in a deeper way than anyone else -
Of course writing 1000 words pre-writing you certainly don't have enough. In my opinion at least 5000 words to start. Write day by day, constantly. That's a whole other topic.
The thing about writing is that you don't see very obvious results in the short term - but it will make stop being pretentious, stop becoming anything but emotional, stop making you narrow-minded, stop making you look at sentimentality. This is your harvest - you can't see any changes on the outside - the inner changes can't be seen by others -
But you can experience it! --That's the effect of a little accumulation. When others care about when the paycheck is due, you care about whether the perspective of looking at the problem is unique enough. Mr. Wang said - whether an article is good or not depends on your entry point. A good entry point can be found -
This is something you need to practice for a long time - not just come up and get a hit piece.
Writing is something you won't see any results from in the short term, and you're not going to make any money from it. Most of the time in the early stages of writing just do this as your side hustle, and the rest of the time just make money to support your living expenses.
For the short-term thing where you can see results is working part-time - you get a job on the 22nd of today, you get paid on the 22nd of today next month. That's the shortest time possible. Of course, you can also go and do casual work for someone else and get paid for each day you do it.
But most people have actually always been on the part-time job path, the path that looks like it could go on forever. All the way to 60 years old retirement. This kind of people are fit to be poor for the rest of their lives.
Suitable for short-term things to do dry for a lifetime, that is lazy. Long-term things to do for a lifetime is diligence. The result of diligence is wealth freedom. The result of laziness is to be poor for three generations.
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No woman will look down on a man who can't make a decision.
- Davy is not me
The man who doesn't make decisions is more scary because the man is just terrified of doing something wrong. In that case you can't gain the trust of others in your career or in life you. Even if you are in a relationship, women don't feel safe with you.
The most typical is if a woman asks you where to go for dinner - and then you say whatever. Whether you are the main or the other party is the main, you should clearly show your attitude. Whether to go to eat hot pot or go to eat Cantonese, or Hunan cuisine. Or do you go for Szechuan food. Or maybe you have a good place to recommend - that's all fine -
No matter what your relationship is, knowing where to go is better than if you don't know where to go - you go out and play outside, you have to have a place. You can't just say you'll go anywhere. Eating is the same thing ah - where you want to go to eat, how to go, take a taxi to go or take the public **** transportation to go -
Even if you are walking to go can ah - as long as the other person wants to. -as long as the other person is willing. If you are walking for a long time, you can also take a taxi. People are alive and well, and there are always more ways than there are difficulties. -Don't ever say - casually two words. Because in other people's eyes is a sentence without weight -
is a sentence without responsibility. What you want to eat and what you don't want to eat. Where you want to go and where you don't want to go. You have to say yes. No one likes to say whatever. It's like if you're doing a multiple choice or a quiz, multiple choice you have 4 options - you pick any one you want you can have a chance of getting it right - 25% chance.
You don't pick one, so the probability of you getting it right is 0. For quiz questions you write a solved word you get points. Even if you can't write anything. But you just write you may get a 1 or 2 points ah.
In fact, a lot of times people do not have too many choices, rather than not wanting to bear the consequences and risks of failure to choose.
Risk aversion is the reason why all people don't succeed - and why all people don't make money.
Working people spend their entire lives avoiding risk for themselves - so they are stuck being poor for the rest of their lives and have to work for a company for the rest of their lives - working until they die. But until they die they don't figure out how rich people make money - rich people just think through all the risks -
Even if you fail, you're still fucking starting from 0. Even if you're in debt, you can pay it off and start again.
Rich people are willing to take the consequences of failure, because failure and success are both 50% probability. But you only know if you're doing the right thing if you make the choice. If you are right, keep going. Then you have a higher probability of success. If you're wrong, you're never right to begin with.
The man who does things hesitantly is not worth marrying, not worth going to bed with him. This kind of man inherently wants to avoid responsibility. Even if a woman is pregnant with a child - he will just break up with you regardless of you.