There is a difference between filial piety and foolish filial piety. Only those who obey their parents 100% are fools. Although filial piety is a virtue of China people, it does not mean that everything must be decided by parents, nor does it mean that parents' choices must be completely obeyed; We should judge everything according to the actual situation and choose the most appropriate approach, instead of following parents' advice, just as a family with average financial ability can't borrow money to buy a big house just because parents want to buy their own house.