And the general girl will not accept the first time you confess to her, so it seems to be reserved!
Keep up the good work! I'll show you this, it might be useful for you.
Any girl's psyche is complicated when she's being pursued. She may be happy, but with a bit of trepidation, she has the ambivalence of wanting to reject and welcome this boy who is intruding into her peaceful life, and she doesn't mean it. Don't think she's testing you, she's actually struggling with herself and she's afraid of getting hurt.
Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her resentment, you don't take the initiative, she doesn't take the initiative, and slowly fade down. If you start the confession was her refusal, that is also very normal ah. Don't be discouraged, who knows what is in the heart of this girl?
Maybe you'll be impressed if you confess twice more, a good girl with a good heart is very easy to move.
If you get a setback, you immediately leave, never answer the girl, protect yourself tightly, quietly licking wounds, in your pain at the same time, unaware of that 鈥衂he child may also be in the heart of regret, regret it! Maybe she will secretly cry, regret refusing you, and then see your indifferent eyes, she is also very painful, but she will not say to you, definitely not request you to come back to chase her. Your excessive pride may hurt the girl's sensitive heart.
She will think that you don't sincerely like him, or else why would you just give up on her?
Some people say that it's really hard for guys to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social roles of men and women. From the biological and social point of view, women are always passive. If the other way around, let the men all pulse shyness, women become courageous, the world is a mess! Women's shyness is always beautiful, moving ah ~ I have always heard of a brave man overcame how many difficulties, and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are far fewer examples to the contrary.
Some guys, they are afraid of what others say about themselves stalker, fall into a bad reputation. But I think the boys pursuit of their favorite girls, a little frustrated still continue to this girl good, that people really like, very sincere, if not successful, but also not sorry, and nothing ah? Who let people like it? I hate it when people follow me around, and I hate it when people don't have any ideas and care too much about what others think of them, so I guess it's a good thing that they can't find a girlfriend.
It's a man's job to be brave. Girls are emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you pay a hard time, and once your true heart impressed her, then you will get more and longer doubled love. Such examples abound around. Girls are very gentle and sweet to their boyfriends, in exchange for this sweet, the beginning of the hard work is nothing ah? And most of the good girls are quite devoted and dedicated to love.
So, it is recommended that some boys be brave, to pursue their favorite girls, do not be so timid, one is to let people think that you have no manhood, two is your own strange hard, but the most important thing is: the last you can not get anything. The most important thing is that you can't get anything out of it. You have to earn your own happiness, and don't expect others to give it to you!
Adding another sentence, I think it's good to take the initiative, because your goal is your own sincere favorite, girls are often passive, passive can only choose to accept and reject, so I would rather take the initiative, love what I love, no regrets!
--- Life is beautiful, happy in it, to learn to find!
One should give MM what kind of first impression (time: just started contact with MM)
I think the most critical, is to let MM see your motivation.Men's greatest attraction is the success of the cause, young people do not work long enough to talk about "success", this time you have to let the MM feel that you are a person with a sense of progress.
Other nonsense, but this issue can not be ambiguous, you must tell MM, you are full of confidence in the future, you are not satisfied with the status quo, and you have a long-term plan, in short, your future is not a dream.
To appear confident and responsibleDon't be like a little kid, girls are lazy hope to find a dependence, you have to come up with your own confidence and responsibility.
It's better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.
Don't be too serious, but don't be too casual eitherThe place to be serious is serious, and the time to flirt is flirtatious.
Girls love a man who is a bit cynical, so don't look like you care about everything, that's too dull.
Second, how to start further contact with MM (time: the beginning of the chase stage)
The key to this stage is not to be in a hurry, do not make things so clear, so that people can see at a glance that you are in pursuit of people.Think about it, the average person will not take a look at you, but will not take a look at you hate you, are the children of the people's home (unless you look like Chow Yun Fat Andy Lau or Kevin Costner), good sense is needed to increase with the understanding of the realization, so the key to the problem is that you have to get the opportunity to develop further.
Standing in the girl's point of view for others to think about: you are so direct rushed over to the object, the girl must have psychological pressure. This is if the contact after a while found that you do not like you, then it is not a trick you? So if you start to put out the posture of ambition, basically will be immediately smothered back.
To start with a low profileFirst of all, the relationship should be positioned as a "friend", originally "ordinary friends", you want to become a "good friend", and have the taste to ask each other to become "friends". You can ask each other to become a "confidante" or something, in short, never say "chase you".
Think about it, if you don't mention "chase" at all, then the girl will have no chance to "reject" you - you didn't chase her how to reject you!
This will reduce the psychological pressure on the girls and make your relationship go smoothly. Do not fantasize about knowing three days to agree to marry you, to fully interact, understand, feelings are not produced out of thin air.
The process of interaction is not too impatientTo have tension and relaxation, do not pester people all day long, who is like this to you, you will also be tired. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing a girl is eight words - "cold and hot, want to capture the reason for indulgence" (this is the crystallization of my classmate's many years of hard work).
You pester people all day long naturally do not feel good about you, you appropriate cold a day or two, the girl will remember the benefits of you in.
And don't come up with "non-marriage" ambition, too much off the bad, sometimes you can play some tricks.
To create the right opportunityAs I said earlier, do not make things immediately become "you are chasing someone else", and you need to get close to the girl's opportunity, it depends on your creativity.
You can gather information and find a way to turn a wait-and-see into an encounter, or you can play it cool and find the best possible reason to invite someone to do something with you.
All in all, this is the most technical place, really can not find seniors to ask for advice.
Cut the taboo cut taboo: randomly send people gifts is not politeSome people chasing girls eager, like to often buy things to send people, but do not know chasing girls most taboo this.
As the saying goes, "you don't get paid for what you don't get", you send people things like this is to put pressure on them, and they will feel indebted to you, so they will find a way to give it back to you, and if they don't have a way to give it back to you, they will find a way to not socialize with you, so as not to always owe you favors.
If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well ask the girls to spend money together, for example, to find a good restaurant to eat, or to find expensive places to play together or something, the girls can naturally see that you spend a lot of money, but the money is ultimately the two people together to spend rather than become something to take home.
Three, "girlfriend" in the end what?
"Girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise
You and the girl began to socialize, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends", to "very, very good", to "very, very good", to "very, very good", to "very, very good". This is when she is already your girlfriend, whether she admits it or not, she mentally already thinks you are his boyfriend.
I know the most brilliant, until the bed have not asked "whether you are willing to do my girlfriend", and finally the girl was anxious: "How do you not beg me to do your girlfriend ah!
So, don't be in a hurry to break the windowpaper, the more hazy the situation is, the more favorable you are.
What is "confession"?As I said earlier, confession is actually a formality, and the correct order should be: in fact, it has become your girlfriend, so you can confess to others, and the water will come to you. A lot of people don't understand this problem, always think that people first promised to do their girlfriend, and then how how, I can only say very very "simple", and also very very "stupid".
There is no such thing as a "must have" moment.
There are times when there's a third party, or when you're in a relationship with a girl that's not mature, but the two of you might be apart for a while.
This time the confession is immature conditions confession, the risk is very big, similar to the game of chess when the situation is serious, the lagging party forced to put out the "winners and losers", win win, lose can only say "bad luck are born". The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
The word "love" is not easily exported
Often see the forum "bold confession", honestly I really think this is a very immature performance. The word "love" is a sacred word that means pursuit, commitment, and even a responsibility.
The man who just says "love" is irresponsible.
Four, civilized love, can not be forced
Not every MM can chase the handGood girls will always have a lot of people to chase, it is not possible to Sui everyone's wish, there will always be losers. For example, even if you have studied hard and mastered the most advanced principles of MM chasing, you will not be able to chase any of the TWINS.
Thinking about it from a different perspective, a small nanny in the countryside who didn't graduate from elementary school, even if she's good to you and earns 600 a month to buy you 700 gifts (overdraft) and is willing to work for you as a cow, you won't be able to fall in love with her. If she cries and wails every day, you will definitely feel annoyed.
So love needs a material basis, at least a balance.
Chasing MM to do is a serious social activityDon't ever get people annoyed, leave yourself a way out. A great man has no wife. Some MM is really snobbish (a few), if you are not convinced, you can be angry and strong, with the facts to prove that "she was blind", do not mislead people wrong.
Lastly, don't be cynical in front of MM, cynicism sometimes means "you're a failure".
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