First, he is disappointed with his feelings, because his heart is broken enough. In order to save his last dignity, he will choose to leave and how much he left. How cold and tired the heart is. Every relationship, like a spring, has its own limit. Once the limit is exceeded, the relationship will break down quickly. This is a process from quantitative change to qualitative change.
Second, respect for feelings is because some people's concept of love is "patriotism is better than being together." When they feel that there is no need to continue between them, they will not long for the warmth you gave them at that moment. This kind of person treats feelings very harshly. They just lost too badly. That doesn't mean they don't cherish you. In fact, on the contrary, they chose to leave because they were single-minded and respected their feelings. They ... I often feel that since I am not the only one for you, I have to leave my most beautiful appearance.
It's like Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty and his favorite Li Furen. Li Furen is a transparent beauty. She clearly knew what she looked like, so when she was seriously ill, she refused to visit and take care of Emperor Wu. She hopes to leave her most beautiful face to Emperor Wu. Li Furen thinks that since she can't live with Emperor Wu of Han Dynasty, she must let Emperor Wu remember herself for a lifetime. In fact, she became a little cinnabar in the heart of Emperor Wu of Han Dynasty. She became the first queen of Emperor Wu of Han Dynasty.
"Take care of the city first and then the countryside" is the praise of future generations, and it is also the best evaluation of this sense of emptiness.