What are relatives? The definition of relatives refers to relatives, spouses and relatives. The closest people around us are our parents and brothers, especially our parents. We can find that even if we have great contradictions with our parents, we can usually make up. Even if not, the other party will still help themselves in the face of some major problems. For example, if our parents are sick, or we are sick, then the other party will take care of us without hesitation.
It can be said that the relationship between relatives, even if we do not deliberately maintain, is also very strong.
But the relationship between husband and wife is not like this.
Although many friends now refer to the relationship between husband and wife as kinship, we are not related by blood, and the divorce rate is particularly high now. You can find something like this. Many times, if both husband and wife feel that there is something wrong with their feelings, they will really divorce at any time, that is, they will dissolve such a marriage relationship, and the so-called kinship will not exist.
Different from natural relatives, father and wife are our later family. At the beginning, the two sides came together because they had the same goal and love for each other, but in the long-term relationship, time may really dilute these daily necessities and turn the former fairy into a middle-aged aunt, so the love that may have been once has long faded.
Get along like friends, and love will last longer. In the process of getting along with our husband and wife, we should often find such things. Many times we are really reckless and outspoken, unlike when we get along with friends, we will take care of each other's feelings.
It can be said that if you regard your other half as your friend, some contradictions between you may not arise at all, because you don't have the respect and scruples like friends.
At the same time, everyone should have heard the saying that no one is perfect, and we also understand that friends are the same. For example, this person may like to drink and take advantage of small things, but you will still get along with him. But if your wife or husband is like this, you may find him boring, so why not face this piece squarely? Look at it objectively. After all, everyone is imperfect.
Moreover, if we look for the shortcomings of our other half with a magnifying glass, then every marriage is really bad, and if we get along like friends and tolerate each other's shortcomings, then this relationship can last longer.