Everyone knows that marriage needs loyalty, and extramarital feelings are the biggest killer of marriage. However, there are still many people who can't resist the temptation and do deviant things in marriage.
Many people are infatuated with feelings outside marriage, just because the daily necessities in marriage stifle feelings, and the plain life also makes them want that kind of tenderness. However, when people reach middle age, they are no longer a person, not just a heartbeat, but also a responsibility and responsibility.
Hanako and his wife have been married for seven years. They say it itches to be married for seven years. Like almost all middle-aged couples, Hanako and his wife have long lost their hearts when they first got married.
Later, Hanako was attracted by a woman when she was in charge of a project. She is young, beautiful and capable, more attractive and touching than her wife.
Hanako was just enjoying it. Although Hanako and his wife have no heart, Hanako loves his wife and doesn't want to divorce her.
However, if a person is just wishful thinking, he may remain rational, but the most terrible thing is that he is affectionate and righteous, and it is easy for two people who are attracted to each other to stay together for a long time.
When the project was successful, Hanako and the woman drank a lot of wine that day. Two people naturally have such a relationship.
In fact, both of them remained rational afterwards, because although they appreciated each other, they both had their own families. So after the project, the two tacitly chose not to contact each other, and then withdrew from each other's lives.
There is no doubt that Hanako is lucky, because he can realize his mistake in time after making a mistake, so as to stop loss in time and return to his family.
02.
Can a man be forgiven for cheating?
Maybe many people will say, "There is only a difference between zero and 10,000 times a man has cheated." The best way for a man to cheat is to get the other person out of his life.
But when people reach middle age, it is not easy to live together, and divorce is easy, but after divorce? Taking care of children and responsibilities to parents will be very difficult issues. So if I have to answer, I can only say "it depends".
If two people still have feelings and the husband is just confused for a while, then giving each other a chance also gives marriage a chance. If one party really can't stand it, or a man is addicted to cheating, then such a man can't be forgiven, and such a marriage is best to end immediately.
In fact, there are not a few people who can really look back after a man's derailment. I remember that after the previous article was derailed, all netizens were urging Ma Yili to get a divorce, but Ma Yili just left a sentence of "cherish" and chose to forgive.
Now the article returns to the family, supports his wife behind the scenes and lives happily.
Therefore, for a man to cheat, if he is impulsive and sincerely repents, then giving a chance is also responsible for marriage.
03.
There is a relationship between the opposite sex, but each has its own family. Smart men will choose to cut the gordian knot and correct their mistakes in time.
Because they understand that it is wrong for them to have an affair. If they don't repent, the only result is divorce. In fact, in the hearts of most cheating men, they don't really want a divorce, because if they really want a divorce, there is no need to toss about.
Marriage needs to be cherished, because if an extramarital affair happens, it will eventually be forgiven, but the damage has been done, then this matter will become an indelible rift in marriage, hurting the feelings between husband and wife and destroying the harmony of marriage.
Marriage is not easy, and it is done and cherished. In life, cherish the person who lives with you and walks through the storm together, because in the end, you will find that it will be your wife who will never leave you, not the so-called lover.
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