1, the passage of time, there is no unchanging people or things, there is just unchanging past!
2, give up does not always mean that you are weak, sometimes instead of showing that you are strong enough to give up.
3, I miss, those years, the future is far away without shape, we simply have no worries.
4, leave a place, the scenery no longer belongs to you, miss a person, that person will then have nothing to do with you
5, every time China's disaster is like this: at the beginning of the sadness, the next is touched, and later is angry.
6, many habits, not want to change can be changed. Just like a lot of people, not want to forget can forget.
7, life's greatest regrets, no more than the error of insisting, and easy to give up
8, take care of everyone's feelings, doomed to their own will not be good.
9, I don't know music, so sometimes things are not too reliable, speak not too tune
10, don't lie to me, you know that even if you lie I will believe. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to do that, and I'm going to be able to do that.
11, single, began to envy the sweetness of lovers, when in love, miss the freedom of single.
12, Shen Jiayi said to Ke Jingteng: because by you like, so do not feel that other people have much like me °
13, the woman is strong, live for yourself. Don't TM be men as a monkey.
14, the world's most heartbreaking thing is: when you hold the hand of the person you love, inadvertently touch a strange ring.
15, this year, good by people jealous of the poor let people look down on the beautiful say you plastic surgery rich say was adopted open point people say you slut conservative point people say you loaded
16, you have no side, the first time I met like a Siswenwen woman, after ripe, I do not know which neurological hospital to put out.
17, the child, sadness can cry very woeful, very woeful, tears flow dry, to raise his head and smile beautifully, beautifully.
18, you have nothing to miss, you are good when I cherish, you are not good when I tolerate, you abandon me how many times I do not want to say, you simply do not deserve me.
19, the best friends tend to be: adversity can pull you a hand, when the situation can damage you.
20, rely on mom and dad, you are at most a princess. Relying on your husband, you are at most a princess. Rely on yourself, you are the queen.
21, I am very ugly, more not intended to be gentle, I am me, the color is not the same fireworks!
22, sometimes, we wait is not what people and things. We are waiting for time, waiting for time, so that they can change.
23, the road ahead is still very far, you may cry, but must go on
24, there will always be someone to say you good, there will be someone to say that you are not good, but as long as we do things with a clear conscience, we do not have to be obsessed with the judgments of others. No need to look at other people's eyes, do not have to be to please others, that will make themselves live more tired. When someone gives you disrespectful words, please do not pay attention to them, and do not be troubled by them. Because these words can't change the facts, but they can mess up your heart. If the mind is messed up, everything is messed up.
25, he graduated from college 20 years ago, applied for 30 jobs, all were rejected; he wanted to be a police officer and five students to go together, four admitted, only he was not admitted; he Hangzhou, the first five-star hotel opened to apply for the waiter, was not admitted; he applied for the Hangzhou KFC with 24 people, 23 were admitted, was not admitted to the one or him. He can not write code but revered technology Internet entrepreneurs, he is Jack Ma!
How to say things in a bad mood How to say things in a bad mood How to say things in a bad mood, the circle of friends:
1. If one day you begin to regret putting me down, please remember, I used to be like a beggar begging you to stay.
2. There is no such thing as forever, there is no such thing as a long time, find an excuse who can go first.
3. There was a moment, because of a person's sentence, like being splashed with a pot of cold water, swish, from head to foot cold!
4. I did not bother him again, and he did not think of me again.
5. I used to think that people in the most desperate, will tear the heart and lungs crying, and then I know that the gaze of the empty silence, is really heart dead.
6. There will be no one to feel sorry for your sadness, they will only laugh at your cowardice.
7. No matter how many times you argue, say how many hurtful words, the last will still be unable to give up each other and good as new, this feeling is really good.
8. People will never know, who which time unconsciously said goodbye to you, will really never see you again.
9. Life can not always be smooth, but continue to walk toward the sun, the shadow will hide behind. The eye, but the right direction.
10. Time will take away our youth, but it can not take away those memories, those beautiful.
11. The most upsetting thing is that I used the whole youth and the best love, but taught him how to love another person.
12. Maybe I'm not mature enough, but maybe it's because you're too young
13. Those sad once was just once, now I only care about now.
14. Life is their own, do not have to use other people's standards to frame their own life.
15. Like a person who does not like themselves is a long lost love.
What to do with a bad mood? After reading these phrases you will know the answer
1, see others have the wrong, if you can not help, not to fall into a well is a kind of goodness; see others sad, if you can not comfort, not gloating is a kind of goodness; see others have difficulties, if you can not help, not to take advantage of the fire is a kind of goodness; see the work needs, if you can not help, not to help is a kind of goodness; can not actively help others, but when others ask for help, as long as it is a kind of goodness, you will know that you can help them. But when others ask for help, as long as it is within your reach, please try your best! I don't want the people who ask for help to be disappointed in the world.
2, look up at the sky is a direction, look down at the road is a kind of sobriety; look up to do things is a kind of courage, head down to do is a kind of bottom; look up to smile is a kind of mentality, look down to see the flowers is a kind of wisdom; look up in adversity is a kind of tenacity, head down is a kind of calm in the good times; position is humble when look up to a kind of backbone, position is a kind of humility; look up in disillusion is a kind of self-confidence, when it is right to look down is a kind of tolerance. It is a kind of tolerance. The choice between head up and head down is a reflection of the wisdom of life.
3, in this world, no one who lives easier than who, just someone in the sky, someone in the quiet perseverance. Waiting for the life of the original old, give up is the fate of the worst fall. If you go forward, don't be afraid of pain, some injuries are the medal of life; if you have, don't be afraid to lose, gathering and dispersing is just the cycle of life. Do not pursue too much, do not have to force too much, not too many extravagant, accept can not accept, you are growing; bear should not bear, you have been vicissitudes.
4, people, what is the fight? Thousands of food, but also three meals a day; rich ten thousand, but also black and white one day; ten houses, but also a sleeper couch; treasure car a hundred times, but also have worry and trouble; high official pay, but also every day to work; mountain delicacies, but also a set of belly; glory, wealth and prosperity, but also a cloud of smoke; the power of the money to earn the hand, happiness is missing; fame to earn the hand, the health of the missing; non-sharing of the things to earn the hand, the peace of mind is missing.
5, when you love each other need to be sincere, the time of contention is the need to communicate, angry time is the need to calm down, happy time is the need to share, the time of accusation is the need to understand, confused time is the need to open up, aggrieved time is the need to listen to the time is the need to communicate, suspicion, the need to misunderstand is the need to forgive, in fact, in life or in marriage, everything is not a happy and happy person. The first thing you need to do is to get a good understanding of what you are doing and how you are doing it.
6, the husband and wife way: in love with each other is an admirer; talk to each other is a confidant; pleased with each other is bragging about the object; angry with each other is a ventilator; difficult to consult with each other is a counselor; pain each other is a comforter; sick with each other is a care; usually each other to do each other to maintain a moderate distance. Two people together, more is not to change each other, but to accept each other, this is tolerance. If you just think about changing each other, that's not life, that's war.
7, the most tortured in marriage, not conflict, but boredom. From sweetness to bitterness, from thoughts to complaints, wounded and scarred, will eventually leave traces. Do not easily turn around, because a turn around, miss may be a lifetime of love. Don't let go easily, because a let go, the pain of losing may be a lifetime of marriage. People are drifting boat, home is a warm shore, hold my hand, from the heart to the old age, let each other become each other's shore.
8, I smile, if you understand , hold my hand tightly to my smile is enough, I cry, if you understand, lend me a shoulder quietly with me is enough, I am aggrieved, if you understand, give me your embrace so that I only in front of you vulnerable. I am capricious, if you understand, will be tolerated, because it is you I will be capricious. When I am silent, if you understand, you will tease me, because I like the way you tease me. When I complain, if you understand, give me a surprise, let me feel cared for and valued. When I think about you, if you understand, let me know that you think about me too. When I'm tired, if you understand, let me lean into your arms and be quiet.
9, communication with the elderly, do not forget his self-esteem; communication with men, do not forget his face; communication with women, do not forget her emotions; communication with superiors, do not forget his dignity; communication with young people, do not forget his direct; communication with children, do not forget his naivety. An attitude to go all over the world, will inevitably bump into walls everywhere; according to local conditions, due to people, in order to reach the four seas.
10, you have the right to be angry, but should not trample on the dignity of others; you have the right to fail, but should not give up; you have the right to strive for success, but should not be sacrificed at the expense of others; you have the right to ask for controversy, but should not be vengeful as a means. You have the right to demand a better life, but you should not pick up tomorrow's pleasures by cheating today. Who can always go well? The sadness of human nature is not in losing, but in not being able to lose.
11, often need to explain the idea of what, but once explained, but found that any explanation is so pale, and even more black. In this world, deliberately reversing black and white, the deer for the horse of the people is, after all, a small number, if encountered, the explanation is useless. As long as you are diligent in self-cultivation, self-discipline, uprightness, innocence, not to small good but not, not to small evil. The fact that you don't need to explain yourself is the choice of a wise man.
12, do not take the goodness of others, that is weak. Because kindness is the nature, do not be evil. Don't put others' forbearance, think it is retreat. Because endure a calm wind and waves, let a let the sea and the sky. Don't put other people's tolerance, think it is cowardice. Because tolerance is virtue, virtue is not wrong. Don't think of others' forgiveness as unprincipled. Because when you have to forgive people and forgive people, can not do things completely. Don't think of others' sincerity as naivety. Because the flattery of the heart is to cope with, the advice is responsible for. Don't take other people's love, joke for obsession. Because deception has no good end, betrayal has no good results. Don't think of other people's generosity as clumsiness. Because virtue can carry things, help people can be happy.
13, sometimes, people inevitably more heart. Mindfulness of more than one, many small things will follow the allergy, so others look at you more than one glance, you will feel that he is interested in you; less look at you, you decided that he deliberately cold to you. Multi-centered people are destined to live a hard life, because it is too easy to be swayed by other people's emotions. Multi-centered people are always thinking nonsense, the result is trapped in a mess of thoughts, can not move. Sometimes it's better to have fewer muscles than to be more mindful.
14, standing at the intersection of life, often wandering, indecision, into a dilemma. Influence our choice, neither things are too complex, nor their own judgment is not enough, but to give up the choice of the heart is not willing. Many people are not without good opportunities, but without good ideas; not not not accepting new ideas, but not willing to abandon the old ideas. It is not today that can determine today, but yesterday's attitude toward life; it is not tomorrow that can determine tomorrow, but today's behavior toward life. Our today is determined by the past; our tomorrow is determined by today.
15, friends are not higher than low, mutual sincerity is good. The appearance is not more beautiful than ugly, the balance of mind is good. For people not more than fame and fortune, self-esteem and self-love is good. The house is not wider than the narrow, living in a cozy good. The car is not compared to have or not, a safe journey is good. Tickets are not compared to how much, enough to spend enough is good. Food and clothing are not compared to the expensive and cheap, good health is good. The day is not rich or poor, live happily. Work is not compared to the post, love and dedication is good. Do not do more than smooth, ask the heart is good.
16, their own conquest of their own, is a life of maturity, their own persuade themselves, is a victory of reason; their own touched by their own, is a sublimation of the mind; their own satisfaction, is a spiritual enjoyment; their own denial of their own, is a kind of character of transcendence. The joy of life is to walk their own way, look at their own scenery, beyond others are not complacent, by others beyond the ambition is not lost.
17, who have temper, but to learn to converge, in the silence of observation, in the calm thinking, do not let the impulse of the devil, brewed into an irreparable error; who have dreams, but to be based on reality, in the struggle to get close to, in the patience to adhere to, do not hang it in the mouth, often aspiring to end up with no will; who have the baseline, but know how to grasp the importance of the principle of great things, small things have a certain degree of proportion, do not talk about the feelings of others rare! The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal on the way to the next stage of the game.
18, say sorry to yourself for making yourself unhappy. Say sorry to yourself, because once for others again and again difficult for yourself. Say sorry to yourself, because always inexplicably hurt? The first thing you need to do is to get rid of all the bad habits and the bad habits. Say sorry to yourself, because the disguise makes oneself very tired. Say sorry to yourself, because stubbornness makes yourself hurt again and again. Say sorry to yourself for always saying sorry to others and forgetting yourself. Say sorry to yourself for not cherishing many things. Life goes on. Just want to let yourself not sad, just hope not to have to pretend, so now smile and forgive yourself.
19, the true meaning of life lies in understanding; the trick of life lies in reason; the ideal of life lies in the ambitious; the art of life lies in harmony; the step of life lies in the practical; the joy of life lies in the pursuit; the happiness of life lies in the plain; the trouble of life lies in the mind; the quality of life lies in the health; the value of life lies in the details; the significance of life lies in the beautiful; the pursuit of life lies in the perfect; The whole of life lies in today.
20, the heart lacks self-esteem, words and deeds will be lowly; the heart lacks fear, words and deeds will be casual; the heart lacks honesty, words and deeds will be delusional; the heart lacks connotation, words and deeds will be crude; the heart lacks indoctrination, words and deeds will be impolite; the heart lacks knowledge, words and deeds will be stupid; the heart lacks good, words and deeds will be vicious; the heart lacks virtue, words and deeds will be nasty. The heart is a scale, the scale is out of their own words and deeds; words and deeds is a mirror, reflecting their own mind, the heart of the beautiful words and deeds beautiful, life will be better!
A woman in a bad mood
1, find someone to talk about the law
This is the most useful and effective way. Maybe you think your troubles are so big that no one can make you free, that's wrong. If you talk to someone, your worries will slowly shrink like a leaky ball. The speed of shrinking is related to the person to whom you talk about it. If the person is a close friend, and can also help you out some ideas, think of some ways, or persuade some, it will quickly dissipate. If the other party is just listening, there is no way, that's not bad, you will be comforted, the mood slowly get better. The most afraid of the kind of fuel on the fire, such a person, have trouble when trying to find him less yo.
2, time to dissolve the law
There is no suitable person to talk about, may wish to believe in the power of time, it will always let all the joy and worry with the wind. A few days ago, I have a sister to die because of love lost, feel the sky is going to collapse, anyone who persuade can not. But with the passage of time, the trauma is slowly filled, life becomes lovely again. And there is an epiphany, to find a person they love as well as to find a person who loves himself, to say that this gain is not small it. In fact, a lot of time is this, when I thought it was a big deal, after a thought became a piece of cake, time will let the trouble a little bit of wear and tear off, until you feel funny.
3, food filling method
When the mood is not good, but may be the time of appetite, what weight loss, what waist, are all thrown into the clouds. First point a table of delicious meals, left a bite, right a bite, ht east a spoon, west a chopstick, until eat a mouth full of oil, belly full of waist round, that point of trouble in the hiccups in the disappearance of the sound. Although after the meal to pay the price of a few hungry, but think of the heart of the gas dissipated, it is also worth it. Sometimes think about it, weight loss repeatedly did not work, whether it has something to do with this.
4, shopping vent method
This trick is more suitable for women, usually want to spend money to buy things for no reason, the mood is not good can borrow this lead to the mall in the autumn wind sweeping leaves. The former can not afford to now generous, before not dare to buy now nothing to worry about, anyway, is not in a good mood, tube it three seven twenty-one, the first to buy and then say. I have been hanging in the bedroom of the pink cap is in this case, although the price is not expensive, but did not put it to use, but sometimes take it down to dust the top of the dust, it is a favor.
5, the method of alcohol pouring sorrow
This is a common way for men, as they say, pouring sorrow with alcohol is even more worrying, but sometimes it can also temporarily play the role of anesthesia, and then with the passage of time, naturally able to change the mood. Sip a cup, and then talk about it, let the bad mood in the alcohol dissolved, is our ultimate goal. Just don't drink too much, hurt the body that's a big problem, if then borrowed the strength of alcohol, tossing nonsense, it can really be sad more sad.
6, sports dispersal method
When the mood is not good, it may be to the park, courtyard, or neighborhood running, walking around. Outside the high sky and clouds, and green trees, grass and red flowers, will extend the magic hand, so that you slowly out of the bad mood. Can not think of things may be able to figure out, can not see through things may be able to curve through, the heart will also become open-minded bold up. Besides, the movement can also strengthen the body, can be said to be two in one.
7, a good cup of tea
People into the tea world, the heart for the quiet, good for thinking. Tea, like Zen, can wash the dust heart, clean up the ordinary concerns, elaborate and thrifty virtue. Therefore, the monks practicing in the temple to ban alcohol and use tea to enjoy and nourish their temperament. Monk Qi has poem: stone tripod autumn waves quiet, Zen back to have Yue tea.
Second, how to vent in a bad mood
The right way to vent:
1, want to destroy the items of friends, why not spend money to buy a sandbag. The biggest advantage of buying a sandbag is that it is resistant to beating, and I believe that not many friends can beat the sandbag to death!
2. Cry out loud. Crying is not for us, then we can shout. Come to the mountains or the sea, open our voices, let loose and shout, after shouting, we will feel soothed.
3, if you have to find someone to talk to, do not vomit heart unhappy, then may wish to go online to find a netizen. Netizens we are not very familiar, usually inconvenient to say the words do not have to be taboo. The other party is not happy, we will not feel ashamed, and the other party is most likely to listen to you casually, and you just need to talk to the object, so it will not hurt the other party will also spit out the heart of our unhappiness.
4, the wine is not as good as the food to praise themselves. Seeing the beautiful food, our eyes will then brighten up, maybe the mood can come to a 180-degree change. I think it's worth it to spend a reasonable amount of money on things that make you happy!
How to vent a bad mood? Avoid the misunderstanding, take the right way, return you a good mood, it is so simple! The purpose of venting is not for any other reason, it is to vent your bad feelings and get happy! As long as you know this, you will be able to find the right way!
Three ways to improve your mood
1. Fake it
Your mood is-smile, laugh, giggle loudly, and hold it stupidly for two minutes. This is said to help trigger and control your happy thoughts and make you emotional and feel better.
2. Get some vitamins
Vitamins B6 and B3 are both important for the production of complex amines. Zinc helps balance neurotransmitters in the brain and reduces low mood.
3. Clean up your life
As strange as it may sound, cleaning out your closets, drawers and magazines and throwing out the junk that collects can make you feel better. The more demanding you are, the higher the payoff. Think about an induced diarrhea cleanse!
4. Make a list
Take out a piece of paper early in the day and write down three things you want to accomplish today. Studies have shown that people feel happy if they achieve something, no matter how small and insignificant the thing is.
5, timely checkout
Studies have shown that if you always have important things in your life that you haven't done or are not finished (like bills) can drain you, cause anxiety and create unnecessary tension.
6. Don't talk about it
Don't hesitate to talk about it if you're not going to do it. Doing that you will only add to the burden of life.
7, don't stay in bed on weekends
Staying in bed on weekends or lying in bed for a long time can only disrupt your body's internal biological clock. It's light that controls your biological clock not more sleep. If you lie in a lot, then try getting outside as soon as you wake up to help stop your bad moods!
8. Have a good laugh
Watch your favorite video. Laughing has the same morale-boosting effect as sprinting: it lowers stress levels in your body, relaxes your muscles, and causes your body to release more pleasure substances that make you feel better.
9. Don't complain angrily
Constantly complaining about your problems is one way to bring you down. Talking about your problems is fine if you're trying to figure out a solution, but making yourself the drama queen of an event will only cause you to continue to have a negative attitude and bring it up over and over again, unbearably.
10. Don't strive for perfection
Perfection is impossible in real life, so trying to achieve impossibly high standards is a waste of time. Instead, customize your goals to be more realistic and go with the flow - both of which will make you a happier person.
11. Have fun
Work less, worry less, get outdoors and dedicate your free time to having fun - this will make you less depressed, more connected to others and improve your overall health.
12. Accept the things you can't change
For example, your height, the color of your skin, the fact that you didn't win a bet and that you're not an Oscar-winning actress. This will make you feel better and give you a positive attitude towards the future.
13. Say no
This is about not continuing to play hard to get when you can't work it out. If you say yes to everything then you will be overwhelmed, exhausted and victimized by everyone depending on you.
14. Let bygones be bygones
Mistakes, cheating boyfriends, stupid things you've done - learn from them and move on rather than keep reminding yourself of them and letting them drag you down.
15. Stop judging people
Studies show that constantly judging people and their demeanor is a testament to being super self-critical. In order to live a more relaxed and comfortable life, give yourself a break from judging yourself as good or bad, and recognize that you are human. Are people not perfect!
16. Smash something
Indulge yourself and let yourself smash some pottery - it's good for your mind and body. Apparently, one-third of people with high blood pressure often repress anger. And experts agree that it's better to let it out rather than keep it bottled up inside!
17, do something you like
Some studies in the science of hedonism have found that doing something you like, or shopping, or wasting your time, can help improve the efficiency of your immune system, release mental tension, and increase the level of complex amines in the brain.
18. Ask more questions
It sounds strange but a higher level of curiosity means you're better able to adapt to change, stress and challenges. It also helps keep your mind focused on external things rather than the internal me, me, or me above.
19. Stand up
Feeling tired and down? Don't lie down, that will only make you feel worse. Standing up means you'll be more alert, able to think faster, solve problems better, and stay positive - all things that stimulate the brain and make you feel better overall.
20. Self-analyze when you wake up
We generally start to become more self-critical in the afternoon and evening, when our brains slow down and our bodies start to tire. That means you're likely to become negative, feel moody and become teary-eyed as you begin to search for the meaning of life before you go to bed.