2, laid out the venue, generally in advance and the wedding company to go to see the venue, and then with him to communicate your ideas, but because they are more experienced, so they will also give you some good advice, the layout is generally the night before, they will be the first time to go to the venue. Layout is generally the night before they will go to the hotel layout, if you are assured, you can find a friend to help you go to stare, because it may be late, but the newcomer the day before to get a good rest ah. I went there by myself with my lg, and I didn't finish until after 11pm. Got home at 12pm and didn't go to bed until around 1pm after tidying up and cleaning up.
3, the general sugar and alcohol to pull the hotel a day in advance, because they will be set up the night before, a box of cigarettes per table is enough to open in a small dish, sugar is also a small dish per table, I'm at home to take a small dish, a dish, a dish, a dish, so that it will not be too wasteful to remember to give the hotel is ready to give the people of the wedding sugar and cigarettes to give the master of the car is also ready for a small package of sugar and a box of cigarettes, small packages of sugar and cigarettes can be more than a few. Small packages of sugar and cigarettes can prepare some more, the hotel people ah, florists ah ... can send a packet. (This is also outdated, a table two boxes of cigarettes, to the float master what is also to a box of a box to give)
4, remember to bring more than one pair of spare stockings on the day, and the needle and thread bag
5, the night before the wedding to drink less water, to avoid the next day's eyes swollen, to go to bed early, a good night's rest. This make-up will remind.
6, to arrange their side of the day to take pictures of people, I just forget this, so now they have no photos in hand, can only wait for the wedding company, I guess they still have to add money with me.
7, to calculate the day of the float to walk the journey time, to avoid delays in the new room is difficult for the groom time too long, it is best to walk through the route in advance. And to ask the hotel on the day there is no other wedding, must rush in front of them to, it is called grabbing the first prize.
8, smoke I used red double happiness, wine is Jin Liu Fu three-star, the wedding couples drink fake wine is best to the day before the preparation, because the time is long inside the water should be bad, all the wine are poured out directly to the water on the line, do not have to blend a little bit of wine to a little bit of water, it's more difficult to drink, drink more nausea. (Red Double Happiness ...... Golden Six Fortune ...... really low grade point, I use the Chinese and Maotai, Wuliangye is also OK)
9, if there is a Zippo, haha, to avoid the wedding on the cigarette when they are always blowing out the matches. (But in the end it is still difficult to escape this robbery)
10, if the hair is in need of flowers, be sure to buy well in advance (but not too early ah) to save like me, when I think about it is almost midnight, the florist is closed, or the day my bridesmaids taxi to Lai Tai bought flowers taxi over, especially nervous. The day before the buy good with newspaper (must use newspaper) wrapped (the flower part of the package are also on) in the refrigerator, if there is a zero degree of freshness and so on there, the perishable on the cold... Room (anyway, is not frozen there)
11, booking banquet must be booked a larger package hall, rather big than small, rather than sitting in the dissatisfaction, not like me, now the hall may not be enough to sit in the rush!
Two, 1, the hotel lobby manager is best to give him a separate red packet, so that do things will be able to handle.
2, to both parents to honor the tea to call the hotel waiter in advance to steep, or it will be hot.
3, it is recommended that the hotel set up a wedding banquet commander-in-chief, the groom to coordinate the bridegroom, deal with all the details of the hotel, including each table smoke, wine, sugar placement, the bride and groom to the hotel time and so on. (The groom will be busy dizzy that day, must be handed over to others responsible for these things)
4, 12 to 18 per package of candy, if the bag of candy is too big, it is loaded with a jelly, (the children very much like to eat, other people will also feel that the bride to do things are very careful).
And one more thing, if your ceremony is 11 o'clock to start, the float 10:30 to the hotel, be sure to everyone (not necessarily all people) 10:30 before the hotel, so that the newcomers get off the car will not be too cold. You think there is no one at the door to pick you up, how embarrassing ah. We neglected to do this that day, the result of the halfway stop for 10 minutes, but fortunately later the hotel door quite a lot of people. I'm not sure how much fun it would have been if I hadn't done that.
The general wedding company will help you to do the float, but the charges will be more expensive than outside, you can also find their own outside the florist. I am a friend to help find the florist, I do not care. The first car is definitely to tie flowers, it should be his words you fixed in the car, and then to the flowers. If you are looking for your own florist, remember to tell the convoy people in advance where to tie up the floats.
Bring some pins, needle and thread packages and other spare, and, in the signing of the preparation of some empty red packets, some friends may forget, Oh, I have no experience, listen to what people say ~~~~~~~
The groom side to prepare more small red packets, put 5, 10, 20 dollars, is to cope with some of the unnecessary but have to give the people. Colleagues get married at the intersection of the stop wedding car, there are these small red packets to reduce a lot of unnecessary losses.
The best bridesmaids in the bag with a packet of ham or fish sausage, such as the bride in the hotel dress for the bride and groom to eat, add some energy, and will not destroy the makeup. Generally speaking, the bride and groom in the wedding banquet is no opportunity to eat something
that day must remind the hotel waiter, the dish should be a little slower
Like even inexperienced that day, 32 tables, the results of the waiter on the food speed is very fast, I just toasted a few tables, the guests have begun to drink soup and eat snacks, so boring Oh (the ceremony should be on the table when there are a few plates of table pressure of the gazpacho, wait until the ceremony is over and then serve the dish).
Don't forget to prepare for the "Li Niang meat" those things (this seems to be now also do not need, no one's family are not short of those two mouth meat to eat, but also very troublesome!)
Three, super-detailed super-practical wedding handling the whole process
Part I: service personnel division of labor, duties
(a) witnesses, officiating; hotel chief, fleet chief; master of ceremonies, cameraman, photographer.
I, witnesses, officiating witnesses, as the name suggests, is the legal proof of marriage.
The male family as the center, from the ceremonial point of view witnesses to the guest position, the ceremonial order is generally in front of the main wedding, the past is usually served by the bride. The main content of the witness's speech is: "marriage is legal, congratulations on the new marriage" and so on. Usually hired by the woman witnesses, most of the bride unit leaders. Of course, witnesses can also be hired by the man. The bridegroom's parents as the traditional rituals, from the point of view of etiquette, the bridegroom in the main position, the order of etiquette is generally in the back of the witnesses.
Nowadays, most parents do not personally officiate at the wedding but entrust others to officiate on their behalf, so the work of the officiating person is to officiate on behalf of the parents, the main points of his speech are: "Thank you for the guests, exhortation to the newcomers, and mention some of the requirements of the family after the" and so on, commonly known as to the "wedding speech". Officiating must be hired by the man. Witnesses, the wedding officiant wedding wear identity safflower, wedding speech can not be long-winded. Must arrive at the hotel on time to 10:30 am into good.
Two, the hotel general manager.
The hotel general manager of the hotel preparations for the overall responsibility, led by him, 5 - 6 welcome staff to cooperate.
The main work is:
1, to the hotel to carry celebratory supplies, including three categories:
A, cigarettes, alcohol, sugar, melon seeds, drinks.
B, 'happy' words, double-sided tape, witnesses, boutonnieres for the main wedding, marriage license, agenda, wedding props (such as: flower gallery, garlands, wedding vows declaration, etc.). (These wedding companies can be prepared)
C, color buckets, balloons, concierge guns, fresh petals and other wedding supplies; which color buckets, balloons, concierge guns, fresh petals to be in the procurement of the total amount of the basis to get the hotel two-thirds. Bring to the hotel balloon color bucket is mainly wedding use, the bride get off do not step on more than one use. Concierge guns are generally used outdoors at the time requested by the master of ceremonies. (These are also when the wedding company's business)
2, paste 'happy' words, happy couplets, wedding agenda, set up the wedding site background props, hang banners, test sound, check the microphone, the wedding march, etc. (can be handed over to the professional wedding company arrangements).
3, prepare for the wedding banquet guide, directional signs, table sign; focus on scheduling the table of the mother's family, and arrange for a special person to welcome the guests. Welcome to be courteous and pay attention to prevent the involvement of foreign unrelated personnel (in other words: to prevent the joy of thieves to fish in troubled waters).
4, set up the table, ready for the cup of wine
and the hotel convergence arrangement waiter set up the table, melon seeds, alcohol, cigarettes, beverages, sugar;
cup of wine selection goblet, pouring Coca-Cola or red wine, tray loading, lined with a white cloth sprinkled with red rose petals.
When setting up the table can be based on the actual situation to consider whether the wedding is over and then set up drinks, to avoid individual guests with drinks shaken after spraying the newcomer.
5, to the convoy seal gift, dismantle the flowers on the float. Caravan to the hotel regardless of whether the guests get off the car according to the agreement to seal the wedding gift; arrangements for specialists to quickly dismantle the flowers on the float, the float hood of the flower clusters as they are taken off to the ceremony stage decoration.
6, in the star hotel wedding but also with the hotel security connection do not let other cars close to the hotel door steps parked. Because the float is generally not from the normal traffic into the hotel, more than one hotel steps down the square parked in front of the hotel, so that the visual openness conducive to the creation of grand site effects. If there is a fountain in front of the hotel to prompt the hotel to open.
7, on behalf of the main family and the hotel agreed. One: the wedding did not start do not serve gazpacho. Because the beginning of the wedding to spray flowers, sprinkle flowers easily contaminated dishes; on a good gazpacho is not conducive to the guests to focus attention on the ceremony. The second: all non-agreed consumption, the hotel must seek the consent of the hotel manager or the host family, to avoid excessive non-normal expenditures. Third: with the hotel to confirm the total number of wedding banquets, to determine the total number of the first meeting; as far as possible to arrange a table of ten people after the opening, to avoid waste. Fourth: pay attention to the wedding banquet to be in the center to leave the bride and groom out of the aisle and the wedding site should be space. Its five: agreed on the place where the drinks are placed, supply procedures, etc., and have someone in charge.
8, the wedding banquet after the end of the reminder to help the host family to close the stall. Arrange for service personnel to dine, check whether there are guests missing items, packing up the remaining cigarettes and alcohol, etc., leftover food packing, etc..
Three, the fleet chief
1, to help newcomers according to folklore requirements for the preparation of driving routes, welcome time, and to determine the number of both sides of the welcome to arrange for enough vehicles to meet the bride.
The best way to run the route after the finalization of the car in advance, to the time, traffic control, prohibited, etc., and then delineate a formal roadmap at a glance can be clear roadmap and marked the departure point, the mother's home, the hotel, what section of the road to organize the fleet and the fleet manager, the hotel manager, the groom and other relevant personnel contact information and other relevant content. Welcome time to ensure that 10:30 am back to the hotel is best. Based on this criterion to consider the distance, traffic conditions to draw up when to leave, when to the bride's home and so on. The bride's family should allow at least 40 minutes from the time of entry to the time of departure. The overall time design should also have at least 15 minutes of reserve to cope with traffic jams and other emergencies.
2, the fleet director to the float to enough attention, when to tie, when to tie are to be in mind.
At the same time, boutonnieres, hand bouquets and fresh petals should be brought back on time. The float is best to return to the departure place half an hour before departure, because the groom before departure also have to use the identity flower, hand bouquet and so on.
3, the morning of the wedding day according to the agreed time down the caravan.
Camera car in the forefront, at least 60 meters from the float in place; then the float head, the rest of the car based on the gift of the high and low grades to consider the requirements of folklore in order to follow the good, the requirements of a straight line down; to each car road map of the car and in the gift of the car in the mirror according to folklore on the tie of the red strips of red, red flowers, the latter affixed to the 'happy' word.
4, the convoy to the mother's home according to the mother's home terrain to consider the convoy into, placed, turn around and other issues. Caravan out of the mother's home but also consider the mother's neighbors to stop the happy, generally prepared to cope with the sugar and cigarettes.
5, the convoy to the hotel after the float according to the agreed position of parking (floats generally do not take the normal lane), the convoy chief to remind the hotel with the chief to the convoy sealing ceremony, to be the newcomer to get off the car to dismantle the float flowers and so on.
Two) married female guests, pressure car children, lighting, sound engineer, salute hand, sprinkle sugar, sprinkle flowers, hotel welcome, auxiliary gift personnel.
One, married female guests entrusted by the male parents to participate in the wedding, focusing on welcoming the bride's family. To the bride's home to accompany the bride's family greetings, mutual congratulations, out accompanied by guiding the bride's family on the limousine, to the hotel, accompanied by guiding the bride's family to the designated banquet seating, to avoid everyone is clustered in the new bride's family no one to take care of, to make the female guests to the beginning to the feeling of a person to take care of.
Two, sprinkle wedding candy to pay attention to sprinkle the later the better, preferably in the bride's family on the float, the bride's family is also on the almost time to sprinkle; sprinkle wedding candy to pay attention to prevent onlookers coaxed to grab the pocket; sprinkle wedding candy, but also pay attention to do not sprinkle finished to leave a little bit to be prepared for some people to stop the happy when used.
Three, the salute gunner to play the salute to carefully read the instructions of the salute gun, observe the wind direction, the general top wind to play. Pay attention to the time and direction required by the master of ceremonies on time.
Third, the wedding day service personnel, guests of the basic etiquette requirements
One, the whole listen to the master of ceremonies to arrange the command, and then we all do their own jobs, each responsible for their own responsibilities, cooperate with each other, in the agreed upon time to their own commitment to the service work completed on time. It is strictly prohibited to push the commission, pulling the skin.
Second, the stars. Attention at any time and place to flock to the newcomer, service personnel, guests stand the best in the back of the newcomer, so that it fully feel "a life when the protagonist back to the happiness".
Three, pay attention not to block the lens. The straight line distance between the camera and the new people do not block or back and forth.
Four, pay attention to the safety of the celebration. Color bucket is flammable, use to avoid the fire source, light smoke to avoid spraying the color bucket.
Fifth, pay attention to the even use of festive supplies, do not pile up with, it is best to celebrate the wedding all day with festive supplies to bake the atmosphere.
Sixth, pay attention to the bride to the basic respect. Spray color bucket do not spray to the bride's face.
Seven, pay attention to dress neatly, avoid scruffy clothes, wear against the auspicious dress; make fun of the way taboo mischief.
Part II: the procurement of festive items to prepare
I. Macro Including the new house, decoration, furniture, electrical appliances, necessities, cave decorations, decorations and so on.
Second, micro
1, cigarettes, alcohol, sugar, melon seeds, beverages purchased on demand. One of the wine should pay attention to include the seal gift to the fleet driver, the new wedding banquet toast required. Sugar, melon seeds to consider the wedding after the return gift to individual friends and relatives. Summer also need to prepare beer.
2, video camera, film, flash batteries. Non-commercial camera services (friends to help) to consider video tapes, video lights, etc., depending on the wedding grade, the size of the purchase as needed. Commercial videography services required by the camera equipment videographer to bring their own. Weddings are recommended to ask a better reputation for commercial videographers,
3, color bucket color bucket is divided into color flowers (also known as spray flowers), color snow (snow), color bars (ribbon), when shopping for three kinds of attention to colorful flowers, color bars are mainly colorful snow as a supplement. Also note that the color of the cover, the general cover is what color, spray out the flowers is what color, so choose more red and pay attention to color matching. Color snow note must not buy white cover, it is best to red cover. Color bucket to pay attention to the purchase of regular manufacturers of products to ensure the quality of the celebration. Usually check the color bucket packaging whether there is a factory name, factory address, telephone, do not buy three products. Color bucket depending on the wedding grade, the size of the purchase as needed. Generally need 16 buckets - 60 buckets. Take 20 buckets as an example: 8 buckets of colored flowers, 8 buckets of colored stripes, 4 buckets of colored snow so that the number of flowers and colors with the best.
Be careful to take down the logo, pockets, etc. before the wedding day. Newlywed tokens are commonly wedding rings, but also each other for each other to prepare a monumental pre-wedding confidentiality of the gift wedding to each other, and let each other guess. Wedding vows declaration each other on the proposed or the officiant to provide. You can also use each other's tone of voice for each other to draw up each other's wedding vows declaration, confidentiality before the wedding, wedding please read each other, this method is very interesting.
4, corsage, hand bouquet, head flower, wrist flower, fresh petals. Wearing corsages are the bride and groom; both parents; witnesses, officiating; best man, maid of honor; emcee, VIPs, etc., prepared accordingly. A bouquet of hand bouquets is presented by the groom when he sees the bride. Head flower, wrist flower refers to the flowers used for the bride's disk head and wrist, usually consisting of lilies, magnolias and so on. Fresh petals refers to the red rose petals, the number of more good, in the wedding day the day of the bride's family welcome, the big wedding thrown.
5, message books, invitations, red thread, size of the red bag, happy words, happy couplets, agendas,, small plastic bags filled with candy, double-sided tape, wear corsage pins.
6, wedding activities required by a variety of props to promote the festive atmosphere. For example: wedding background, sound, music CD, flower gallery, rainbow door, red carpet, festive red candles, performances accompanied by banquets, banners, bands, release balloons doves and so on.
Part III: the new man etiquette requirements
A, generous and decent, happy and smiling. Bride and groom prepare each other a big smile.
Even if an individual is a bit too much, the new couple can not lose their temper, unhappy. To the beginning to the end should be full of spring.
Two, frankly enjoy the service. Before the wedding couples in the master of ceremonies to coordinate all things assigned to the person, the wedding day groom to find the head of the air, do not enter the state of the chief; bride to find the feeling of the princess, each other frankly enjoy the service. Even if the service work done by friends and the requirements of the new man some distance to be natural, because the new man on the day of the wedding day and then go to arrange what is almost unhelpful. It also affects the couple's demeanor.
Three, the newcomer should pay attention to the wedding day, always line shadow together, line "arm tie" the best, keep shoulder to shoulder, bladder by bladder and happy smile.
Four, in the indoor space is relatively small when you want to pay attention to the cameraman a "face", in order to facilitate him to shoot more positive shots of the bride and groom.
Fifth, the bride should pay attention to self-protection. In the boudoir to the groom to open the door, to the hotel to get off the float, the wedding began when the bride is the most colorful barrel jet time period, the bride should pay attention to these times to put down the veil to cover.
Six, the new toast in the spirit of order, first female guests, after the male guests; first elders, leaders, after the principle of general friends. To female guests groom end wine, to male guests bride end wine. Newlyweds toast do not kick the wine, wine, do not persuade to toast, to be fast and decent, to ensure that the table table to the principle, the general banquet as far as possible a table end.
Part IV: Determine the wedding style, form, grade
Life is a wedding. How to do the wedding grand style is very satisfied, sweet and happy memories often?
First of all, you have to choose your favorite form of wedding. Each form of wedding has its own specific iconic content. Modern popular wedding is our most common rich in the characteristics of the era of the form of wedding, float wedding, hotel ceremony, feast guests, the new bride and groom toasting, happy cave and so on.
Four, a bride make-up, tie color car chapter
Wedding day time schedule is tight, Wing shall not be delayed. But there are two aspects tend to be prone to some problems, that is, the wedding photography when the makeup sent as well as tie colorful car, especially when the wedding is a good day. Often encountered because of the crowd, when it is your turn, much later than originally expected, and ultimately is affected by all the processes after the Nai. Beforehand, we should make two preparations, one is and originally invited half of the makeup artist to communicate well reserved time, once the wedding studio problems, half to full. Secondly, the wedding company to provide tie color car, may be sub-contracted to some small florists, more prone to problems. So to be clear with the wedding company, take the wedding car time must have been tied color car, if not, in the contract to complete the latest time to tie color car, as well as once more than the responsibility for breach of contract. If it is their own tie color car, it is recommended to play a little more in advance, lest there are accidents, especially when the day is particularly good.
Second, flowers
For the May, June, July, September, October wedding of the new people, due to the heat of the weather, usually at noon tied the color car, hand bouquet, boutonniere less than a few hours on the wilt, so the heat of the wedding, the choice of flowers in the flower type of flowers must be considered when the issue of tulips are not suitable. In addition, ask family members to prepare empty bottles, bottle cap tie a few holes, or is a special spray bottle, regularly to the flowers sprinkler water. In addition, the groom's boutonniere must have a backup, often found because of hugging the bride as well as a long time, to the beginning of the ceremony, the groom's boutonniere was 3-point seeded, it affects the effect.
In addition, it is the problem of scattered petals, the wedding company to prepare almost all the flower store is ready to throw away the garbage, not very auspicious, right! So why not ask for a handful of roses, their own demolition before the wedding ceremony, it is guaranteed quality and quantity, and there are flowers as a backup, where less, but also in time to make up. Prepare a little more, in the wedding bed with petals to lay one or two hearts out, than a bed full of bubbles to look much better it