If you feel that your current life is not interesting and you have more room to play, why don't you try a different environment?
More communication with colleagues and friends, so as to find a suitable position in society and life, as the saying goes, live to learn, if the material conditions can match, learn more fresh knowledge, broaden their horizons, may be a good choice.
If there is no way to change the current situation, then how about thinking differently?
For example, my husband is very busy at work, and he arrives home late at night, so we can't have dinner together, and only occasionally do we go out on the weekends, so if you're always thinking about how boring life is, and your husband doesn't have the time to spend with me, it's not fun, and it's only going to make things more difficult for you, and you're not as good at it as you think you are, but you're better off if you're just going to go out with your husband, because you're not going to have a lot of fun.
These are the first time I've ever seen a woman in the world who has been in the world for a long time, and I've never seen her in the world for more than a year!