65438+On February 26th, Hong Kong star Cecilia Cheung appeared in an activity in Shang Yan. In the cold winter, she wore a short white skirt and sang hard on the stage, which was very dedicated.
But that night, her voice was not in good condition, not only hoarse, but also often stuck. Some netizens observed from the photos that Cecilia Cheung has gained a lot of weight, even a little fat. At the beginning, she was the perfect goddess envied by everyone.
However, although she was in poor overall condition, she still insisted on singing all the songs. It can be said that as a mother of three children, she is really desperate to make money for milk powder!
After the Shang Yan incident, Cecilia Cheung's die-hard fans shared photos with her idol and explained why she lost her voice. "Lu Xiao is numb and her throat is uncomfortable, but she still takes every fan seriously."
Speaking of Cecilia Cheung, her early acting career was smooth sailing, which brought us many excellent film and television works. Her pure image is favored by many young men and women.
Later, after the divorce, her career and life became a little bumpy. It's really not easy to take care of the children and the drama at the same time. No wonder her figure is a little fat.
From Cecilia Cheung's experience, we realize that everyone in the workplace needs a good career balance.
A while ago, a small video burst into a circle of friends: a young mother put her sleeping child in the flower bed, but she worked hard beside her.
Seeing such pictures, I wonder if everyone knows them?
Like Cecilia Cheung, many working mothers seem to live a chic life, but behind the chic life, there are countless bitterness.
My friend Xiaomei is 27 years old and my son is 2 years old. When she goes out every morning, the baby follows her everywhere. Seeing Xiaomei pick up her bag and keys, she cried with her mother's leg.
Xiaomei said that she gritted her teeth every time and there were tears in her eyes on the way to work.
The balance between work and life is an unavoidable topic for working mothers. Do not make money, affect the quality of life, lose yourself; When you earn money, you lose the company with your children.
Therefore, we should work hard and take care of the children. How many people can understand the helplessness and grievances of working mothers?
There is a good saying: you think life is quiet and beautiful because someone is carrying a heavy burden behind your back.
In a special program of Ace to Ace, commodity queen Via talked about her 8-year-old daughter. She said it is difficult to find a balance between work and children. The most regrettable thing is that she has never been to her daughter's parent-teacher conference.
In the live video with her daughter, when she heard her daughter complain, "Why do other people's children have their mothers, but you don't accompany me?" The strong Victoria could not help but burst into tears.
Balancing work and life is so difficult, what else can we do?
1, ask your partner for help.
Take working mothers as an example. Some women are used to taking care of children and housework, and then complain that men are not considerate when they are busy.
In fact, women with high emotional intelligence should know how to ask their partners for help and encourage them to take responsibility. This is a healthy family relationship.
2. Reasonable distribution of life roles.
To achieve a good career balance, we can refer to the thinking of "balance wheel", that is, rationally allocate the proportion of different roles in life, such as parents, children, workers, learners, wives or husbands.
3. Improve work efficiency
God gave everyone 24 hours of fair time, so how to reduce the proportion of work in the same time? Improving efficiency is the best way.
In this regard, we can use "pomodoro technique" and other time management skills.
Write it at the end
Seeing that Cecilia Cheung, the former goddess, was in poor health and attended Shang Yan in spite of illness, I didn't think she was down and out, but she was full of respect and love.
Although she is a little fat, she has a light figure.
As a professional woman, I saw that she was sacrificing something important for her family and children, which was her choice in life.
I wish Cecilia Cheung a better and better future!