First of all, I think people will get old one day, today perhaps those strong and savage mothers-in-law are still forked over the lessons of the work of the daughter-in-law, but with the change of time they will one day have to walk, to that time who will support the care of their own? Who will take care of her then? The daughter-in-law who was bullied by her when she was young? Obviously, the daughter-in-law will not be willing to take care of you, this is a cycle of karma world, they planted the bad karma is always to give themselves a result. So many times I want to advise those unruly mothers-in-law, not their own strong in the family can feel that the world is yours, you are not the Empress Dowager Cixi, and will not go to the court every day. Daughters-in-law in their own homes is also a princess, why to your home to serve this and serve that? If you don't like it a little bit, you have to listen to your complaint, is it necessary? The fact is that the children are not the only ones who have to be treated well, but they are the ones who have to be treated well.
In fact, some of the things that mothers-in-law do in life are more likely to avoid the outbreak of conflicts between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law. For example, in life, there are any suggestions or ideas can go to discuss with sons and daughters-in-law, do not use their own stubborn and unchanging ideas to think about the problem. More of the power of life to the younger generation to do, they occasionally go to the square dance, take a walk is not better. In the face of the grandchildren's education, they can be disciplined but not on the education of the finger, the times have changed, many times in this area of education is more focused on modernization, do not talk too much is the most correct way to bring up children. The family of young couples in conflict, and then familiar with the situation of their son to help their daughter-in-law to say a few good words, daughter-in-law and why not thank you. Life is actually very simple, depending on how you choose, each choice will always accompany you through this life, so as far as possible to get along with each other, the family and how good.
Then said so much "evil mother-in-law" bad, also should say some of the daughter-in-law problem. A lot of young people nowadays are too delicate, afraid of the wind and waves, and have no life skills at all. After marrying into a family, they think that they are here to enjoy the happiness. Just like what Tu Lei said, "I hate it when girls say, "Find a boyfriend to take care of me. What's wrong with you? Are you disabled? Or are you incontinent? Looking for someone to take care of you?" Marriage is to give each other, at least know as a part of the family, should be for the family to work hard, a lot of mothers-in-law can not stand to see said a couple of words, the other party on the name of evil mother-in-law, you are not inside the shame blush.
In the end, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflict is just two mutually unconvincing people between the fight, how much of a thing ah, there are times when you have to be a couple of people to divorce is good. Try to communicate, to think differently about each other's not easy. Are a family, both of them for the family are holding the goal of making the family better and better life, there are things open window to say, let the man in the middle to do their own balance. Only family harmony, the man outside without pressure, the work will do better and better to get the boss appreciate the pay rise. The only way to enjoy the family is to be in harmony with each other.