On the first day of school, my son, who just started elementary school, couldn't wait to teach me a lesson!
When he got home, he started rummaging around in his closet, threatening to pack up my "dirt mom".
"Mom, you wore lipstick to your kindergarten graduation and it was beautiful.
"Mom, you'll wear this dress to school tomorrow."
"Mommy, this hairpin is so beautiful, wear this tomorrow!"
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The old mother's heart dark tide surging, I can't say whether it is touched, or heartbroken, but it is inexplicably wet ......
"Other people's moms are very pretty! "
Son smash, you know, mom was also very good-looking back then.
Some people describe a married woman like this, "A princess for a day, a queen for ten months, and a fucker for a lifetime."
What woman, before getting married, wasn't a princess in her mother's house for 20 years?
Suddenly I remembered a small video I saw on the Internet, although it was only two minutes, but it made countless mothers tear up.
No girl is born a mom!
Before we became moms, we were just like the girls in the short video, wearing shorts, revealing our bellybuttons, A4 waists, waistlines, finely dyed hair and nails, eyeliner, eye shadow, mascara, blush, and foundation, all the same.
Then, carrying a small bag, feet on high heels, leisurely out of the door, youthful and fashionable atmosphere, even walking with the wind.
After work about three or five friends, shopping, watching movies, eating all over the snack street, play to the high, the kind of free flight, fly youth days, even the soul is singing along.
Only when we married, pregnant, looking at the growing belly, can only "bear the pain", and the yesterday's self to say goodbye.
We have given up too much for our children.
They are the first to be able to use their own personal computer to make their own decisions about what to do, and they are the first to be able to use their own computer to make their own decisions about what to do.
Eat and vomit, vomit and eat, guarding the toilet with tears, but also to swallow the food you do not like.
Gnashing her teeth and insulating herself from fashion, she put away her high heels and shapewear, put on baggy maternity clothes and cut her waist-length hair.
Daily face, lest accidentally lead and mercury and other chemicals, hurt the baby.
Born a baby, we are no longer have their own life, the house is full of maternal and child care products, parenting dictionary, shopping carts clear color diapers, milk powder, toner ......
Home, 24 hours a day, the child is like a koala 24 hours a day to hang on the body, eating, drinking, sleeping, a moment away from the, no longer have personal time. There is no more personal time.
When you go to the bathroom, you have to slowly get used to the embarrassment of having to tease your child while taking a dump, and you also have to practice the skill of carrying your pants with one hand and holding your child with one hand.
Going out, left hand carrying a mommy bag, right hand holding the baby, seconds into the King of Hercules ......
The only time belonging to us is the baby sleep, that only late at night time.
"It's not the night I stay up, it's the freedom!" Don't ask me why I like to post late at night, because I'm me at that moment.
For the sake of their children, moms neglect themselves in life, and for the sake of their children, moms give up too much, too much!
For the sake of our children, we live as the most familiar stranger in the mirror.
Is such an unkempt mom really what a child needs most? However, no!
Remember, there was an elementary school student who once wrote this in his homework, "How much makeup does it take for mom to become beautiful?"
The parents are the originals and the children are the copies, and if you want the copies to be polished and beautiful, the originals have to be "flawless".
The fact is that the mom is the role model of the child, only when the mom is good, the child will be better.
? The temperament beauty Liu Shishi, has always been like a lotus flower in the water, active in front of and behind the stage.
She is not the most beautiful woman in the entertainment circle, but she has a unique clear and elegant body, and some people say that her temperament is to learn dance at a young age and practiced.
But, until the day of the wedding of Wu Qi Long Liu Shishi, the moment we saw Liu Shishi's mother, we finally understand that temperament can also be inherited.
A mom who always pays attention to her makeup and mannerisms, and dresses herself clean and beautifully, raises a daughter who is definitely not unkempt and whose temperament is obliterated by the crowd.......
The influence of parents on their children, in addition to education, comes more from teaching by word and example.
A friend of mine, since the birth of her daughter, is a person with her, but she lived into a "hot mom".
When she was pregnant, her weight soared to 150 pounds, and after breastfeeding, she treated herself like a cow, looking at her own body wide and fat, she suddenly decided to give the child weaned after she wanted to lose weight.
Since then, she has been practicing yoga, weight-loss exercises, and all kinds of indoor hiking exercises while bringing up her baby.
And not forgetting to revisit her professional books, ready to recharge her batteries, ready to kill the workplace.
By the time her child entered kindergarten, she had slimmed back down to her pre-wedding weight.
And in the process, she met a group of full-time moms online and began conducting online yoga classes to bring them together for exercise.
Her daughter, who spends time with her mom, has also become a yoga expert, following her mom in meditation and exercise, with one cute move after another.
While trying to be a good mom, she doesn't forget to please herself and make herself better, which is what a mom should look like.
Be yourself first, then be a mom. When a mom is good to herself, she is really good to her children.
The future of the child is hidden in the face of the mother.
? German philosopher Jaspers said: What is education? Education is when one tree shakes another tree, when one cloud pushes another cloud, when one soul awakens another soul.
Sometimes it is not we who change our children, it is the children who change us.
Children are the awakeners of their parents and will educate them.
Actress Sun Li once said, "I like Sun Li who is a mother in front of the camera, and I prefer myself who is a mother in private."
Sun Li, who has become a mother, has become more self-disciplined in order to play a leading role for her children.
She reduced her time for filming and spent more time in family life. She has been growing up with her children and trying to become a better person on the road of raising them.
When she's not filming, she paints, practices yoga, travels, nourishes her body, writes books, rescues small animals, and lives a happy life.
Under her tutelage, her children are just as versatile as she is, enjoying reading, drawing, making crafts and dancing.......
Sun Li reveled in her role as a "mother," saying: "I didn't love traveling before, but now I want to run out and see the world whenever I have time.
All this change comes from my two children, I gave them life and they gave me the color of life."
Turns out, moms and kids, they've always made and nourished each other.
Taiwanese author Huang Shu-wen said in her book, "When a mom is herself, her child can be herself," "The most fulfilling parent-child relationship accomplishes the child's fulfillment while also accomplishing itself."
"What you want your child to be, let yourself be that first."
I'm willing to be a better version of myself for the sake of my children, and to be worthy of being such a good mom.
So peaceful!
Woman, your name is not just mother, you are still yourself.
In "Teenagers Speak", the girl Wang Han fights to cry out, "In addition to being my mother, she is still herself, Pu Qiongfang."
The mom gave up her hobbies for her daughter, only to be single-minded, devoted to her daughter, and give her child the best care.
But this kind of wholeheartedly only for the child's mother, is not the daughter's heart in the "good" mother. She prefers her mom to be herself rather than a mom who spends all her time around her kids.
Her heart aches for her mom, and she hopes that she won't focus only on her, but be brave enough to be herself, and she hopes that her mom can realize her own dreams.
You are a mom, you are more yourself, and such an awakening should not be left to a child.
Some people say:
Before you become a mom, your life is like a motorcycle, forward, backward, cornering, overtaking, how you want to ride, how you want to ride;
After you become a mom, you're a heavy-duty truck, and you have to work hard to get across an intersection.
However, no matter what kind of car, you should always leave a passing lane for yourself.
I'm a mom, I'm a wife, I'm a daughter, but I am, first and foremost, myself.
Ma Yili once said, "Instead of letting someone else take the umbrella, you should give yourself an umbrella."
May every woman not give up self-growth after marriage, after becoming a mom. In the husband and wife relationship, live as an independent kapok, do not be a climbing roller coaster, in the parent-child relationship, live as the most beautiful self, let the child be proud of you.
A mother who is growing in all aspects of her life will earn more respect from her children and will raise an excellent child.
As he sees you, as you are, because you deserve a high quality child for your beauty, confidence, and awareness.
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