The older leftover women are very solid?

Most of the older women have a certain economic foundation, after marriage will not choose to marry and in-laws stirred together, the distance produces beauty, naturally, many fewer men act as a sandwich, the husband and wife relationship will be relatively more cordial. So marry an older woman, the divorce rate will be relatively low, because accustomed to the feelings of the world, know the marriage of tolerance and understanding, so it is easier to deepen the feelings between husband and wife. Marrying an older woman will be due to age, usually after marriage, choose to have children, indicating that older women can easily face reality. Couples who marry young, often due to the greed for fun for the time being, are not willing to be held by the child, and therefore caused a lot of family conflicts. In-laws are eager to hold grandchildren, while daughters-in-law are not happy to be pushed to have children and take their grievances out on the men, causing them to be in a dilemma. And because having a child means that you may have to give up your career, and most of the women, most of them are in the rising stage of their career, it is easy to take a step back, and it may be very difficult to take a step up after having a child. So the matter of whether to give birth to a child often makes women torn. Some women have lost the opportunity for promotion because of having children, and at home with children and social disengagement, want to return to the workplace when they found that they missed the best age to learn. On the other hand, when a full-time mother has no financial income, it will add to the burden of the family, resulting in complaints from the husband, as well as the in-laws' dislike. And most of the older women in the career into a stable period, have children basically will not cause too much of a crisis in their own careers, one step back there is a certain economic foundation for protection, and further more has been promoted to the company's key positions, career and family can be most likely to balance. So if you marry an older woman, you don't have to deepen the family conflict by having children. My friend Luo Dan is an older woman, twenty-something years old, experienced a bitter love, was broken up, no longer dare to easily believe in the feelings, but to devote themselves to the cause, to turn themselves into a proper strong woman. These years witnessed part of her dating process, but also found that Luo Dan became a leftover woman, not just want to do a good job of the cause of the reason, she still has a lot of their own problems. First, the temper does not follow the undeniable Luo Dan is indeed an excellent woman, but in the process of contact will also feel out of her strong and short-tempered, what things once she made the decision, others do not want to easily change her point of view. Although Luo Dan in the company in a high position, but she really can make heart colleagues are not many. Although we all know that there is no true love between coworkers, but most of them do not have any problem with each other that is to help. However, Luo Dan often in the company by the people of the joint ostracism, if a company so understandable, but Luo Dan stayed in most of the company, often heard her colleagues rob her business, or rob her credit. But because of her strong personal ability, although the times have no danger, but it can be seen, Luo Dan and can not unite people, which has a great relationship with her temper. Secondly, the consumption concept is different Luo Dan by virtue of their own ability to live in the city with a house and a car life, stand firmly on their feet. Her concept of consumption is not the same as many of the men she meets. Luo Dan believes that she has the ability to earn money, and how she wants to spend it is her own business. So even though Luo Dan has a good salary, except for her house and car, she basically spends her salary on her spontaneity, so she doesn't have much of a balance. Dating men see her so spend like water, often will be deterred, that and such a loser girl married, the future will be very difficult and their own **** with the responsibility of the family. Third, the self-perception of good because Luo Dan's own conditions are not bad, so the requirements of the matchmaking object is also to have a house, salary income and their own not similar. In fact, to be honest, if it is such a man, it is not reduced to the point of the leftover men, I'm afraid that it has long been other women stared at. Good-looking, good condition of the man, unless it is not married or some special aspects of personal factors, or can only be divorced men. However, Luo Dan's condition was that there was no problem with a divorced man, but she had to request that the other party be childless. Though her request is understandable, not wanting to be a stepmother to someone as soon as she gets married. But Luo Dan herself is 36 years old, can meet her requirements of a few men, and even if there is, the other side may be more favorable to the young girls. Even if Luo Dan again excellent, but ultimately and can not be comparable to the advantages of young girls. Fourth, the requirements are particularly high in fact, the first few years of dating, Luo Dan also ran into a few conditions of comparable men, but because at that time she felt that she still have a greater selection of space, so they did not hesitate to cross off their list. Later on, Luo Dan said that one of them, at that time, their own feelings are still good, but entangled with each other than their own four or five years older, feel that their own conditions to find a year or two years older than their own most suitable. The other man was actually a good match for Luo Dan's conditions, but she rejected him because he had too little hair. From Luo Dan's characteristics, it is not difficult to realize that most of the leftover women become leftover women, most of them have nothing to do with their own problems. It is also these reasons that have led her to run around on the road of dating for the past few years. Although she thought her requirements had been lowered again and again, it was always hard to meet the right person. And while she had always said that she actually had no requirements, often the more people who thought they had no requirements, the more demanding they actually were. As she gets older, Luo Dan, who has always longed for love, once even thought of having two children after marriage. However, she has not yet entered into marriage, in fact, has passed the optimal age of childbearing. The phenomenon of older women like Luo Dan this condition, in fact, is not bad, at least enjoy the freedom and happiness of single, material temporarily make up for the spiritual loneliness. And there is a part of the woman, may be due to the character of the more introverted, more than thirty years old has not had a love affair, forced by family pressure to go on blind dates, but due to the nature of the boredom, often the beginning of the beginning of the end is not followed. Most of the blind dates are for the purpose of marriage, there is no communication process naturally can not go on. So the older leftover women are very solid.