Only know, their parents do not love to go out to turn, and time does not allow, on the contrary, in-laws especially like to go out to walk, although before are in the countryside to do manual labor, and now to the city along with us to live, they are also very open-minded, generous, without the kind of twisting unnatural, without the kind of jong realm as if to a do not belong to their own belonging. This is rare. To the weekend, the two of them go to the park by themselves to skate, the usual evening, dancing square dance, leisurely.
Probably out of gratitude to the in-laws, but also want to meet their own parents to take their parents out for a walk around the small heart, although the band is not to raise their own parents, and I do not know what their opinion of my idea, after all, some of the elderly still care. Well, my mom said that they don't like to go out on their own anyway, and they have a lot of things to do at home, while my in-laws like to go out and don't have a chance to get out of their own square, so let's go. So, without informing my husband, (who is usually too busy to spend time with the kids, let alone his parents) I booked the train tickets, hotels, and itinerary, and set off for a short few days of traveling around the area on the Friday when the kids were finally out of school for the summer. Because I am a small wage earner, raising a family and children, basically also moonlight, so choose the train, airfare is too expensive, give up. Besides, the scenery on the road, and the old man has not been on the train, it is also a small experience.
Although it is not worth showing off things, just to meet the old man's small vanity, after all, around the people, have not seen personally take the in-laws out to play with the partners (my world is relatively small ah), their daughter-in-law is willing to do so, is a little bit of happiness, but also out of the walls of the world to see a "small world". Of course, on a larger social level, it's a bit funny to list such trivial matters, and it also seems to be a suspicion of self-aggrandizement, however, this is what I really want to do. Many people do much better than I do in filial piety to their in-laws. Everyone has their own way of expressing their filial piety, either by giving them money or by physically serving them with food, clothing, and shelter. In my opinion, it is best not to clash with the elderly, and if you have any different ideas, you can digest them by yourself. In doing so, we all get along calmly and peacefully, so why not. Of course, to be able to do so, but also need to understand each other, think big, what can be compared to the "family and all things happy" it?
Take the in-laws out for a spin, but also have their own little selfish, is to give themselves a chance to teach their children. Of course, such an opportunity can be found everywhere in life, but a few days out, the whole day "sticky" together time is not often. Let the children take their grandparents to meet the outside world, see the excitement of the outside world and our exciting how different, and then tell the elderly about the convenience of the Internet, but also the children's own exercise. Leisure travel, we are in a relaxed state of mind, the conversation is also more in-depth, usually rarely open heart of the elderly, looking at the antique, seems to see their own childhood years of hardship, tell stories to granddaughter, the corners of the eyes are flooded with tears, but also contains a smile. The granddaughter seems to understand the grandfather's words, should also more or less understand why the grandparents want them to cherish food, study hard.
The time is not easy, it is not easy to raise a family, now is, before is even more.
In fact, people around the neighborhood, more or less with the in-laws will have some small conflict, when I was the same. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new product, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new product, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new product. As long as a person's general direction is good, such as kindness, sincerity, other small special, like a small vanity, small fun, which is the icing on the cake in life. Life is full of people who are unique and who are not here for anyone. So figured out this point, probably will understand, people and people meet, no matter and husband, and children, and in-laws, in-laws, are a kind of fate, live in the moment, enjoy the moment, do not for a little bit of a small thing, hurt the peace, because the harm brought, are not the results of each other want.
But this is not to take the elderly out on a trip to figure out things. Some old people, also not willing to put down the body, also not willing to go with the flow. Some young people are not willing to settle for anything less than the best. They can only stand in each other's way, each living his own life. This is also a choice, a different way of life. It just means that when each other is willing to step towards a better path, willing to make a choice, it may be worth trying to change their mindset and look at the other side of the matter. It may not change anything in the end, at least try.
However, traveling back, in-laws than before more willing to take the initiative to help me share the housework, the daughters are more sympathetic to the mother's not easy, to help clean up the fried food, the husband, early at home to do a good job of cooking, to go to the station to pick up our back. It seems that the biggest beneficiary is still me.