I don't confide in my parents when I am in trouble or aggrieved in my life.
First of all, I think my parents should be allowed to worry less when they get older. My parents are both in their sixties, and my father's health is fine, but my mother's high blood pressure is very serious, and she takes antihypertensive medication every day to control it. Once I had a few arguments with my husband and I called to talk to them.
My husband and I made up the next day, but my mother's blood pressure rose because of it and she didn't sleep well for several nights. Father would not eat well either. I was so proud of myself, but I made them think about it for several days, and I couldn't eat or sleep well. From then on I would not tell them anything I felt aggrieved about, lest they worry.
Secondly, I think I'm an adult, and there are some things that I can do on my own. When my family bought a house, the down payment was short of a few tens of thousands of dollars, and I knew that my parents had money in their hands, but I didn't ask them for it.
From a young age, I have been pampered by my parents as if they were babies, and they have helped me to do everything, and I have suffered for so many years. Now that I'm old enough to keep some money in my hand for my retirement, I feel that it would be unfilial of me to let them take out the money for my retirement because of my own reasons.
Parents were young and suffered most of their lives of suffering and tired, now old is the time to enjoy the blessings, every day leisurely walk, stroll around the morning market, playing poker, dancing ...... as a child I want to do is not to give them trouble, so that they do not have to always worry and think about me, so that they do not have to be busy every day! To me to watch the children to cook.
These are the reasons why I do not confide in my parents when I encounter difficulties in life or when I am aggrieved.