What do you talk about in love? Chatting is a science, and chatting is an art ... Boyfriends and girlfriends should increase the distance between two people by chatting when they are in love, but they may chat to death. So what do you talk about in love? The following is what I prepared.
What do you talk about in love? 1
First, what is the topic of love?
1. Problems encountered by boys when chatting in love: When they are with people they like, they don't know what the other person is thinking and what to say to them; Chatting always avoids asking girls boring things, such as where are you from? How old are you? Have you had a meal What did you eat? What are you doing?
2, the misunderstanding of falling in love and chatting: I don't know what to say when chatting, always "mm-hmm" and then the chat ends; At some point, I can't go on; A quotation is always serious or constantly preaching the truth;
3, dating chat skills: take out a keyword according to the other party's words, talk about yourself or other things around this keyword, a sentence, a question, and so on. For example, girls say, "I'm so tired at work today." Then the keyword you can choose is going to work, so tired, you can choose one or both. As a boy, you can say, "Really, it seems like I didn't go to work today." ; Changing the name with verbs means, for example, we usually ask girls out to the movies directly. "Look" here is a verb, an invitation action. As long as there is an invitation action, it is called a verb! It's easy to be rejected at this time. Girls will probably say no, no time or something. At this time, the verb we say becomes a noun, that is, the noun of watching movies becomes a movie. We don't send out invitations, but talk to her about related topics and then arouse girls' interest. After the girls are interested, we will make a logical invitation.
I-I just belong to the super introverted personality, that is, the diaosi man in the hearts of girls, so that I am still a place at the age of 29. Later, I saw the cheats of picking up girls online, which are all dry goods. Now my girlfriend changes every time, which makes her a little trance. I don't know if I want to get married now. For brothers who are still single, you can also learn the secret of soaking old fish to improve yourself. Check it online. Anyway, they can learn to love and improve themselves without spending money. I feel nothing better than this.
Second, what topic is suitable for talking about in love?
1. Talk about interesting things in life: for example, in business and family, as long as interesting things happen in your life, they can be a good topic, so that girls can get involved in it and learn about each other's habits.
2. Talk about gossip and humorous topics: such as very popular TV series, Weibo, stars, Tik Tok, etc. This kind of topic is easy to find, and it is easy to narrow the distance between you. But talking too much may also make girls feel that they are bitches and bored.
3. Talk about what the other person is interested in: Find a girl's hobbies and start talking from her interests, so that the other person will feel comfortable talking. We can talk about her today, her past experiences, childhood experiences and so on.
At the beginning of dating, many people don't know how to talk, what to say, and sometimes even cause embarrassing situations. Chatting is an essential part of love. Only by mastering the art of love, what topics to talk about and what topics to talk about are appropriate, can feelings heat up rapidly.
What do you talk about in love? 2 How to find a topic with a couple:
1, tell me more about life.
If two people love each other very much, but have nothing to say, and I don't believe it, how dull should such two people be? As long as the spirit and expression ability are healthy, there is much to talk about. For example, you can talk about the little things in life, eat, drink and be merry. I'm not afraid of finishing the topic, I'm afraid you don't want to talk to each other at all.
2. Travel and share the process with her.
With the accelerated pace of life and the growth of age, the pressure on young people is increasing, and decompression of traveling abroad has become a hot topic. It is important to talk about the places we have been to and the interesting things that happened during the trip, so as to understand each other's attitude towards life and some of her values. Besides, you can also talk about some career topics, understand her attitude towards work, and talk about your plans for future life, so that she can know that you are a self-motivated and responsible person. This is very important.
3. Learn to be a humorous person.
Maybe you won't tell jokes or stories in your daily life, but you will keep sending some funny jokes to the girl you like. After a long time, you will find that you can tell some jokes. In fact, I usually chat with many women, and they all mention that they like their boyfriends to send some jokes to themselves. Read more books and learn more classic chat conversations. In the process of chatting, use more love words to make her feel that you are an interesting person.
4. Talk about some old memories
If it is really impossible, you can also talk about the other person's past experience, some places you have been to, some people you have met, and some things you have experienced, but remember not to talk about some serious problems, try not to make too many comments on some people or things, and build your own high-value image with positive energy as the guide. Remember: the whole chat process should be pleasant!
5. Cultivate * * * ability with interest
How can I put it? I want to make your communication colorful, such as movies, literature, music, food, collections ... If you all love these, let's talk about them. It's normal not to find a topic. You can just say something that you think is very interesting, mainly to adjust the atmosphere between you, narrow the distance between you and deepen the girls' affection for you.