? Today, see the needle, read the national teacher Dou Guimei teacher wrote "Rose and Education", benefited greatly, the heart can not be calm for a long time.
? The first time I met Ms. Dou Guimei was in 2013, when I was teaching in Anqiu, the school let me speak open class "grapevine", because it was the first year to teach the second grade, I do not know how to speak this text. An old teacher said, "Go listen to Ms. Dou Guimei's class, she's a great teacher. Ms. Dou was not only beautiful, but also had a very sweet voice, a sweet smile throughout the class, and brought raisins to share with the children. If I had been her student, I would have been very interested in the whole class. From that day on, Ms. Dou became my life coach.
? After so many years, I recently had the honor to be associated with "Rose and Education" written by her. The whole book is written in a simple and natural language, with no fancy words. It is a book written by Ms. Dou with her own teaching experience and experience in teaching, and with her heart and soul.
? Mr. Dou is kind-hearted and cares about every child. The article "Behind the Little Red Flowers" reflects her concern for children. "If the next class still did not get the little red flower, in the next class still did not get the little red flower what, over time the child did not get the red flower, and what is it?" When I used to teach first and second grade, I used to give out little red flowers and such myself, and some of the best kids in the class tended to get the most. We thought we could use this to motivate children to develop habits in learning, hygiene and other areas, but we often ignored the true feelings of those who did not get the little red flowers. Mr. Dao is right, classroom learning should not be a competitive race, no one is a loser, every student is in need of encouragement and comfort, and those who are usually in the eyes of the teacher is not active students should be encouraged, because we are facing a look forward to us to encourage the children with the warmth of the public, the heart to encourage the positive, we do not have the right to use the adult world of the principle of victory or defeat, positive or not positive to constrain them and evaluate them, on the contrary, we have to use the adult world of victory or defeat, positive or not positive principles to constrain them and evaluate them. We do not have the right to discipline them and evaluate them with the principles of victory or defeat, positive or negative in the adult world, instead, what we have to do is to positively encourage each child's enthusiasm for learning and the future, and to stimulate their respect for honor.
? The child's heart is transparent and fragile, "carefully and gently put" the child's heart - this is the bottom line as a teacher.
The first thing I want to do is to make sure that I have a good understanding of what I'm doing and how I'm doing it. The words of praise are like the sun on your head - leading you forward and upward; the words of criticism are like the sword behind you - forcing you forward and upward. However, the most beautiful is the sun after the thunderstorm, in that success, there must be the merits of criticism.
The road to becoming a master teacher is not easy. You will encounter individual comrades of the blow, jealousy, and even rumors slander, these trials and tribulations have to go through, because it is also sharpening. At the same time, this also requires us to have a clearer understanding of our own shortcomings - although kind and enthusiastic, open-minded and studious, but straight-talking, too extroverted, speaking and considering simple, inevitably there are not right and improper. I and Mr. Dou really very much like ah.
? An educator said: Teachers are actors, but the actor's performance on the stage, the teacher's stage in the classroom; actors interpretation is the role of the script, but the teacher interpretation is their own life. In the future teaching, I will let my shortcomings become characteristics. For this reason, in the classroom teachers can never show off, pretending to be profound, pretending, long-term so is how hard things, that will be exhausted themselves, but also tainted themselves. So in the face of students, I am fully committed, passionate, unreservedly release their own, I am not acting others play, but to play their own heart.
? "A man, no matter what the strongest voice of the times he has mastered, has not the slightest reason to be superior to others, and he should not violate the basic human conscience." --Tostoevsky's point of view prompted me to think further: do not call yourself a so-called "thinker", which can not do anything but guide others.
? Encouragement of the power to make you proud and forward, the power of the blow to let you go forward not "forget", which can not be separated from a pair of antonyms, like your left and right feet, sometimes the left foot of the praise in the front, but the right foot of the criticism will surely follow - only such a walk in a different footprints out of a life of their own.
? Mr. Dao told me: The heart should be full of sunshine. "First of all, change the attitude, we can not change things, change the attitude to this thing. What happens in a person is not important in itself, the important thing is the person's attitude towards this thing, the attitude changes the meaning of things change. "Even if you are a great man, history can't bow down for you." The important thing is to correct yourself is a "little bird", and then sensibility, rationality, this may be the best self-protection and development, so when you change your own, the view of things, then the situation will change.
? Second, enjoy the process. Life is a process, not a result. Life is a bracket with birth on the left and death on the right, and all we have to do is fill in the brackets and learn to enjoy the process - whether it's wonderful or it's going to suck. Don't look for the most annoying places to experience. There will always be a dark side to this world, and when a ray of sunshine falls from the sky, there will always be places where it doesn't shine, and if your eyes are only fixed on the dark places complaining that the world is dark, that's your choice. You should know that everything is too heavy to look at the success of life, honor gain and loss of people, in fact, is to look at life as a possession.
Thirdly, live in the momentLiving in the moment means being happy with where you are, believing that what happens to you at every moment is good, and believing that your life unfolds in the best way possible. What if you are not happy with where you are? Ask for an explanation of the status quo from the opposite side of things - you complain that the status quo is bad because you don't see anything worse than the status quo. Try to inquire and scrutinize your existence every moment, and try not to forget when you are happy, and not to lose your temper when you are miserable.
? Fourth, learn to be grateful. There is a maxim in the West - eating vegetables with love is better than eating beef with hate. A person is happy or not, in essence, and wealth, status, rights have nothing to do, but by the mind, mindset decision. Learn to forgive your enemies. Not forgiving is the same as giving others the opportunity to continue to hurt you. Being hurt by someone else's words is actually your chanting that hurts you. Suppose someone says, "You're such a bad person, you can't be annoyed with him, please say this to him: you are so right, you have revealed the nature of mankind, mankind is definitely not a thing, you and I are the same. So learn to be grateful, you have to cultivate grandeur instead of dominance, cultivate righteousness instead of evil, and be atmospheric instead of petty.
"The eyes are clearer because of more tears, and the heart is warmer because of more sorrows". To learn the ideal and the reality of addition and subtraction, to strive to realize the "ideal and the reality of the smallest opposites" of the happy life. Know how to care, get friends; know how to be happy, live easily; know how to forget, get free - can make your heart full of sunshine.
? Mr. Dao said, reading is the most high-grade nutrients, the most brand-name anti-aging agent, just like a woman to care for her face, the precious words diet, repair of the soul, so that the mind is increasingly become strong, no longer lack of calcium, no longer lonely and weak, a person, only in the reading to experience the taste of life, in the reading of the body naturally get the movement, the brain naturally get to run, the mind naturally be rewarded. I am glad that I sit in the book city every night, and even all the time after school are used to read and record, every time I read until late at night.
? Reading, so that the spirit of noble and rich, but also to make life profound and far-reaching; reading, so that we in the limited time from teaching, to realize their own infinite. Therefore, reading is the wings of my heart; reading is the breath of my spirit. I will continue to read every day with Mr. Dou, and constantly improve my language skills.
? Drexel said: Ideal, is the sun of life. My ideal is to be a good language teacher, after reading Mr. Dou's "Rose and Education" has strengthened my faith, I will not forget the beginning of the new year, move forward, I believe that my children and I will be full of harvest.
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