Happiness and trouble are always two inseparable souls, reflecting each other. Almost all people don't want trouble to follow them. As long as they are happy, they think that there is no trouble and happiness will always accompany them. Some people feel that there is no happiness in the world and fate is always playing tricks on them. The troubles in their hearts make it impossible for them to imagine happiness. But I don't think so. The creator created two poles of things: light and darkness, black and white, justice and evil ... Only when happiness and trouble coexist can we have a regretless growth experience.
Did you miss the joy of growing up?
After a year in a hurry, the clock struck zero and I grew up again. Counting the happy things in this year, I really can't remember at first. Think again? Got it! It's fun to participate in military training at school! The school organized an autumn outing and had a good time! I also went to the concert, which was really exciting! Also, every time I do my homework, the speed is always twice as fast as that of other students, who haven't finished it yet. I'm already reading extracurricular books! And the time when the competition won the prize; When making new friends; When I received a gift during the holiday ... seriously, in just one year, I added so many shining stars to my growth record. This is not the literary knowledge that can be learned from "endless learning", nor is it an understandable problem-solving idea for Olympiad Mathematics. It is as sweet as candy. I still have unyielding stubbornness and naughty rebellion, eager to catch up with the pace of growth in my growth and hold on to that splendid time.
I giggled at the thought. The joy of growing up didn't slip away, but I got it all. I am as satisfied as candy and can't wait to go to my next destination.
Growing pains, is it joy or sadness?
Everything has its shortcomings, and it is this shortcoming that makes it truly perfect, and it is also the trouble that makes the original colorful growth path better. Growing up is to say goodbye to the past and everything I miss and give up. Childhood memories are endless, and everything makes us happy and moved. Dolls, ice cream, merry-go-round, these beautiful things will be left behind by us when we grow up. I suddenly woke up from my dream and cried for my mother. Mom said that when I grow up, I will be independent and can't rely on others any more. When my companions grew up with me, I found that they didn't understand me more and more and often spoke ill of me. Teachers don't care about me as much as before, but they don't understand me more and more ... I have experienced many things that I am afraid and hate, and I don't understand why so many people are against me. My troubles are numerous and unreasonable, but it is this kind of trouble that has taught me knowledge that happiness can't give me: strength, understanding and tolerance ... just like a cup of tea, it tastes bitter at first and has endless aftertaste.
The pace of growth continues, there is no turning back, and there is no need to turn back. Only by knowing that you can't grow twice can you grow up well and live up to these years. Whether it is happiness or trouble, it irrigates my growth and is the nutrition I need.
grow up
Looking back suddenly, we found ourselves growing up. I don't know when the word "18 years old" has been on our lips. Once upon a time, I thought that 18 years old was so sacred that I could fly higher and farther only when I grew up. At this time, when I really have to face it, I suddenly feel a sense of loss. I am worried about whether I can fully understand the rich connotation of the ordinary number 18 years old, but I understand that 18 years old means responsibility. Maybe growth itself is a kind of responsibility!
I spent two years in high school, unconsciously spent the flower season of 6 years old and experienced the rainy season of 17 years old. I once sighed in confusion and found myself in peace. We grew up in confusion and peace. So, I began to get used to thinking about everything around me with my own brain. Perhaps this idea is superficial, but we proud but not blindly obedient children are eager to bid farewell to our youth and ignorance with reason and maturity.
18 years old is an end and a beginning. At this moment, in the alternation of gains and losses, in the transformation of persecution and abandonment, we feel happiness and pain. Almost all the pain comes from the pursuit of dreams. When we experienced countless pains to realize our dreams, we finally realized the joy, and then realized that pain often breeds the seeds of happiness. Growth is not an easy thing, and pain is not necessarily a bad thing. In pain, we know that when reality cannot be changed, we should change ourselves in time, but we always love to bargain with reality, because we deeply love this world, a world full of happiness, warmth, love and pain. In the process of growing up, we learned to discover, cherish, smile and appreciate the beauty of the inseparable summary in our hearts. Because we know that as long as we turn around freely, we can find new beautiful scenery.
Growing up is a pain, but I don't want it to leave a scar. Growth is a kind of transformation, and it takes hardship to break out of the cocoon.
The road to growth is often lonely, so you should learn to cheer for yourself when no one is cheering. Don't be afraid, don't worry, face everything you encounter in your growth bravely and frankly, give yourself encouragement, give yourself faith and give yourself happiness. In the journey of growing up, what we need is a calm experience, a calm perception and a brave face.
Standing on the threshold of an adult, you may still have immature faces in front of you. There is a hint of cynicism in the bright young eyes, and a faint sadness lurks in the lonely smile. Perhaps growth is like this: mixed feelings of sadness and joy, lost joy, noisy and quiet.
Once bitter days, in the memory of the picture, have become fragrant. Whenever the night comes with light steps, the prosperity and noise of the day will gradually disappear. In the hazy and quiet night, I often fall into endless memories. In my memory, my wishes and beautiful promises, persistent persistence and unremitting efforts have all turned into happy leaves, which I carefully collected.
Yes, growth records the pain and also engraves the joy. Along the steps of growth, we step by step towards maturity and the future.
One thing in growing up.
Happy things are like countless stars in the night sky, some of which have become blurred with the passage of time, but one thing happened in the summer vacation when I was ten years old, and I still can't forget it.
Last summer, I returned to my hometown. Once, my grandmother and I went to the supermarket to buy things. There are many people in the supermarket. The uncles and aunts of the salespeople are sweating, but they still work hard. How precious this spirit is. Seeing that they were so tired, I couldn't help saying to a saleswoman, "Let me help you." Aunt opened her mouth wide in surprise and said, "Are you all right?" "Let me try and learn slowly." Aunt agreed, and she let me read it first. I saw that she quickly picked up the code reader and aimed at the bar code, and the price immediately appeared on the small screen. When all the photos were taken, she typed a few letters on the keyboard and finally collected the money, and it was done. Ha ha laugh ... It turned out to be so simple that I couldn't help itching. Gee, it looks easy, but it's hard to do. I was all thumbs, and finally got the bar code of the goods in front of me, but the letters on the keyboard seemed to be playing hide-and-seek with me, and I couldn't type one for a long time. Aunt "sloped" and smiled and said to me, "OK, I'll type, and you take the barcode." I readily agreed. As time went by, I became more and more skilled and my work went smoothly. When I was complacent, the difficulty came. A customer came over with a lot of things and kept saying, "Hurry up, hurry up, I'm in a hurry …" Now I'm in a panic, and the order is out of order at once. Some bar codes seem to be aimed at me on purpose, so I can't get in. The busier, the more chaotic. My aunt finally got it for me. It's five o'clock in the afternoon. I have to go home. When I left, my aunt gave me a box of chocolates and said it was my salary today.
I walked happily on my way home. Although I am sweating like a pig, my heart is sweeter than eating honey, and I can't say how happy I am. The box of chocolates in my hand seems to weigh 1000 pounds. This is the first time I earned it through hard work. I took a piece and put it in my mouth. It felt very sweet.
Developmental pain
I feel a lot of growing pains, and these pains are growing.
My mother told me that we should lay a good foundation now and prepare for entering the society and having a good position in the future. Mom also said that a person with social status will have money. When the time comes, you will have whatever you want, and you will never live a hard life like laid-off workers again. So I want to study hard, learn knowledge well and be admitted to a famous university. With a good diploma, you have a good job, and there is nothing to worry about in your later life. After listening to these words, I thought to myself, yes, my mother thinks about my future with adult thinking, and my mother will never hurt me.
But then I found that these words seemed right, but they didn't seem right. Study at school every day and accept some principles of being a man. According to the Chinese book, you can't just care about yourself and ignore others. The teacher said, learn knowledge well and serve the motherland. I'm starting to get confused. Why should I study? How important is status, money and honor in life? Who can tell me what to do? This is really a very realistic and contradictory question.
When you are a child, you don't have to think about these things. After eating, you can play, go shopping, climb mountains, go fishing, catch cicadas, go home, lie on the bed, tilt your feet, hum songs, read comic books and fairy tales, and be free. It's different now. It seems that overnight, everything needs your input and thinking.
When the class chooses class cadres, the teacher wants each student to go to the stage and say that he is willing to be a certain position. When I got home, my mother boasted and wanted to be the monitor. Not only can you exercise yourself, but most importantly, it will be easier to join the party after paving the way for the future. When I fill out any form, I won't say that I haven't done anything. I have self-knowledge, and with my ability, it is impossible to be a monitor. My mother encourages me, but I just want to be ordinary and study quietly. I've had enough of my mother's endless nagging. I thought about my mother's wish that the girl would become a phoenix, so I agreed. I gave a speech on the stage that day. I said that I wanted to be a monitor most. Although I worked as a propaganda committee member in primary school, I lost my job later. My ability is not strong, but I think life should constantly improve myself, so if I become a monitor, I will try my best to help the class and do my best. I was very unhappy when I walked off the platform. I thought what I just said was a lie. I really admire myself for having such ability and making it up so well. It is a very painful thing to bite the bullet and do something you don't want to do.
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