Laziness is a stumbling block to success, on the road of life full of difficulties and frustrations, only diligence, hard work, good learning, upward mobility, and work diligently towards the intended goal in order to achieve their goals, and for this reason we must strive to overcome the habit of laziness.
First, start with household chores that are within your reach. There are different kinds of chores that we can do at different ages, and we can compare them with our own to urge ourselves to try to do them.
If you are an upper elementary school student, you should be able to do the following: decorate your room, mend your clothes, wash your clothes, brush your shoes; use simple tools such as pliers, clocks, scissors, axes and shovels; help your family buy rice and flour and cook simple meals; water, loosen the soil, fertilize and so on; clean the hallways and yards; and take an active part in the work organized by the school.
If one is a middle school student, one can try to work at a higher level: designing and arranging a room; managing finances with parents; learning all the household chores, being able to wash, sew, cook, cook, use household appliances, and scrub and repair simple mechanical items such as bicycles.
Second, to firmly establish the concept of labor is the most glorious. Let the children take the initiative to do what they can at home, help their parents clean, organize their own things, wash their own clothes. In the school conscientiously complete the duty, do not rely on others, and actively participate in the school organization and a variety of labor and social practice activities, exercise the child's will, hone its endurance.
Thirdly, don't push others to do things that you should do yourself. For example, you can clean up your own books and toys, sharpen your pencils, organize your bag, and do your duty. For older kids like cleaning up their own house, washing their own clothes and shoes. When you are home alone you can solve the problem of eating by yourself and so on. These are all problems we have to face on our own, so try to do it yourself from now on.
Fourth, we learn by doing, and we learn by doing, and we try to do everything to the best of our ability. No matter what age group we are in, for every new thing we do there will be a learning process, it is not that, I am a middle school student, I naturally must be able to cook, no. Therefore, at the beginning, we have to face every labor with the mindset of learning, and only when we learn it slowly can we do it with ease. In addition, the meaning of "learning by doing" is that there are some labors that we learn from our parents, but it is still necessary to think about the process of doing them, is there any easier way to do the same work than the current method?
Fifth, we are more capable than we think. When we are faced with a labor task, we often feel that we can't do it before we even start doing it because we think we've never done it before. Yet many times it is not as hard as we think it is because we are more capable than we think we are.
Sixth, have the courage to suffer. In fact, the reason why a person becomes lazy, mostly because first from the mind or spirit has begun to become lazy, because of spiritual laziness, we become physically lazy. Therefore, have the courage to suffer the spirit, do not give any excuse for laziness: