How to be hot and cold with girls

First, change your attitude

Turn your attitude to pay, put the focus on their own body, do not take her as the center of the circle around the turn, to do your own thing, actively build their own circle of life, first of all, you have to make their own taste up, only to have the capital to attract to her.

Second, the appropriate suppression of her

Value exchange psychology, to help you, learn to refuse, you are not her unpaid labor, her identity in the absence of certainty before it is nothing more than a friend, friends to help is supposed to be, but also can choose not to help, this time the boys will certainly want to if not help, she alienated you, does not exist, the You have to learn to properly go to suppress her, let her know that you are not a laborer at her beck and call.

Third, cause jealousy

If the girl on your cold and hot, need you when you go very close to you, do not need you when you kicked you far away, like this that why we can not develop their own female resources, appropriate to recognize some of the better than her girl, if she really like you, and then this situation she will be anxious, if she feels very indifferent, it shows that, simply do not take you seriously.

Fourth, improve their own charm

Men in front of the girls can not be afraid to enhance their own aura, the charm of men, and even their own monetary value, after all, every girl subconsciously want to find a high value of men, if you can not reach their inner a standard, you are good again is only a bit of a friend! But the fact is, it can't be integrated into her circle of life. If you have a lot of charisma, you think the girls will ignore you, cold or hot!

Men and women think differently, girls need to be attracted to see if you can have attracted her place, and then only to contact to understand, and many boys are through foreign trade feel pretty want to have, think with money or good for her, can make her moved, like you, this is a typical error thinking, if she was attracted to you early, no matter what will be moved by your A move to move, after all, she has long begun to observe you.

So girls have an inherent advantage over boys in socializing, girls in the treatment of boys to get along with, cold and hot is often, and you can not take them how, in the end you find yourself very passive.