Parents do not want to let themselves go to other cities to work, think the outside world is very complicated, afraid that you can not afford the temptation, or learn bad. Maybe your parents can't bear to see you go out alone, for fear that you'll suffer in the outside world. Don't blame your parents for doing this to you. Children traveling thousands of miles mother worry, children alone in the outside world, only parents day and night to worry about you. After all, you are their heart meat. Parents do not agree with you to go out to work, I think you should listen to your parents' opinions and suggestions and then make a decision, if the near half of the work, then do it, close to home can also take care of the home, but also can earn money why not do it, but also to fulfill the filial piety, is not it the best of both worlds?
The net down to the heart, on the close to find a job, so that parents can see you every day, as the saying goes, children traveled a thousand miles mother worry ah, parents older, don't let the parents every day in the worry in the good. Parents do not agree, have their own reasons, to calmly and patiently listen, analyze and understand the real wishes and concerns of parents. Combining various opinions and the *** same interests of all of us, to come up with their own tolerant rather than selfish ideas, to explain to their parents in detail, without haste, not impatient to explain their own reasons, to relieve the parents of their worries. In the eyes of parents, children are always children no matter how old they are, and they worry that their children will suffer and be cheated. You have to understand your parents' feelings, but you have grown up and have the right to decide your own life, so you can talk to them and reason with them, they do not let go, you will not be able to grow up in the true sense of the word.
If you still want to go out, you can make a deal with your parents to call home and visit them often to ease the discomfort of leaving. Everyone will have to grow up, living conditions are different, should be more to fight outside, I hope they have a good development, the important thing is to often come home to see, and parents communicate well, parents can also understand. When parents take their children as the only support for their soul, it is true that the children will feel lonely when they are not around. Only parents have their own circle, have their own hobbies (mahjong, square dance, planting plants, etc.), something to do, which is the most effective way to get rid of loneliness.