The middle-aged in the workplace generally have this feeling, which is based on reality. This era is a little unfriendly to the middle-aged, 35-year-old phenomenon, 45-year-old phenomenon, 55-year-old phenomenon, 59-year-old phenomenon, and so on, a series of ditches and hurdles waiting for the middle-aged. Middle-aged people walking in the workplace, as "horizontal Long ditch fishing roller", a step by step, the older you are, the more ditches and hurdles.
This is not a personal problem of the middle-aged in the workplace, but a general problem in society. Some young people complain that the middle-aged in the workplace are uneducated, do not study, do not work hard, do not struggle, should be eliminated by the workplace, but do they not know how much this generation of middle-aged people to pay a lot of hard work, how much contribution they have made? When they get old and tired out, they start to dislike them. There are four main reasons why middle-aged people generally find life more and more difficult:
The first reason: they had very few opportunities to receive good education back then.
This group of middle-aged people generally refers to those born in the 1960s and 1970s. In those days, the level of education was relatively low, and there were fewer opportunities to go to junior high and high school. In other words, it wasn't that they couldn't do it, but it was hard for them to get a good education. When a family could produce a junior high school student, they had to hold a banquet to congratulate him. Most people stopped graduating from junior high school, and those who had good family conditions went to technical schools, while those who had average family conditions could only work part-time or do some small business. Therefore, the forms of employment in many organizations are very complicated, including migrant workers, seasonal workers, collective workers, agreed workers, and so on. Now, when they grow old, you start to ask them to learn new knowledge and skills, and you start to dislike them for not knowing how to use computers, programming and robotics? Why don't you think about where they went to high school back then? Besides, once a person is over 45 years old, their family is overburdened and their brains are not working well enough, so how can they learn new knowledge and upgrade their skills?
The second reason: they were in the low-wage era and generally had no savings.
This group of middle-aged people generally suffered a lot, they grew up in the era of the big work, they sweated a lot, which old man has not been tired of the problem? The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night. That era, the implementation of the so-called "high welfare, low wages", the so-called high welfare is the allocation of a small house, usually issued a little pork, vegetables and fruits, soap, towels, toothpaste and so on, life is more difficult, New Year's Day to wrap dumplings. As wages are very low, usually thirty or forty dollars, basically no savings. By the time wages started to rise in the last decade, you resented them for not being useful, for not being cost-effective, and started to dismiss them. Ask your parents how many rich people there are in their generation. Their lifelong savings can't catch up with a year's annual salary of the young people. You are beginning to resent them for not having money anymore and living in old and shabby houses, why don't you think about the pain they suffered back then?
The third reason: their income or pension is generally not high.
This group of middle-aged people experienced a large-scale wave of layoffs, and now many people have long been unemployed at home, the conditions of good people to implement the policy of internal retreat, the conditions of bad enterprises, I am afraid that the door can not find, reimbursement of medical expenses can not find the old factory, right? Even for middle-aged people who have retired, the pension is generally not high, the national average is less than 3,000 yuan. May I ask, can they live a prosperous life with a pension of 3,000 yuan now? They still have to support their children, take care of their grandchildren, buy medicines for their elderly companions, can't afford to eat something good, and have a bit of money to think about saving up for their sons to get married. Do you think this group of middle-aged people will find life more and more exciting?
The fourth reason: the era began to abandon this group of middle-aged people.
Before, age was a treasure, and it was worth more and more. Now, youth is a treasure, middle age is a grass. The recruitment of enterprises is limited to 35 years old, ask people in middle age, want to find a job, anyone want? High-tech, Internet companies also exist in the phenomenon of "35 years old", middle-aged people are not popular. The company's main goal is to provide the best quality of service to its customers, and the company's goal is to provide the best quality of service to its customers.
In summary, you know the suffering of people in middle age. When they were teenagers, they didn't have so many opportunities to receive a good education, and their cultural level is not high, can you blame them? When they were young, they all struggled in the front line and devoted their youthful time without much savings. Nowadays, the cost of living is so high, how can you let them live a wonderful life in style? When they are middle-aged, the society starts to eliminate them, the industry can be transformed, how do you let them transform? They have neither the culture nor the energy to transform. To evaluate a phenomenon, you can't just look at the present regardless of history.
Lastly, I would like to say that the middle-aged people in the workplace nowadays are very marvelous, no matter whether their lives are meaningful or not, wonderful or not, they still carry the heavy burden of life, and still raise their children to adulthood. When society needs them, they still shine; when society does not need them, they go to square dancing. Don't dislike them for square dancing, not pursuing, not romantic, not fashionable. You may say, "Why don't they go traveling around the world? The problem is that they have neither the money nor the spending habits to do so. They dance in the square, saving money and time and exercising their bodies. This shows that the middle-aged people nowadays, no matter how hard they suffer and no matter how aggravated they are, they still try to live a wonderful life of their own. They deserve respect.