Miss Man Sweet
01
Si Murong once said:
There are a lot of things in this world that you think you can surely continue to do again tomorrow; there are a lot of people that you think you can surely see face to face again.
So, when you temporarily put down your hand or temporarily turn around, all you can think of in your mind is the hope that you will be reunited again tomorrow.
Sometimes, you don't even feel this hope, because you think that since the days come and go like this, of course they should also go by like this.
Yesterday, today, and tomorrow should be no different, but there comes a time when, in the moment you let go, in the moment you turn around, something changes completely;
The sun goes down, and before it rises again, there are some people, who are goodbye to you forever.
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A man in his fifties in the village died suddenly and long ago, and people rushed to mourn him, crying and grieving.
Mom heard the corners of the eyes slightly red, slowly said, a few days ago and we took the same car to Xi'an, only a few days of work, the person is no longer ......
I listened to some heartbreaking, not only asked a few more questions.
That's a man of few words, treating people kindly, a life of no competition with the world, quietly guarding their own small life, a peaceful life.
A few days ago also excited about the intention to go to the city to work, unexpectedly, the night before the brain hemorrhage suddenly died.
It is said that when he was alive, he was always kind and kind-hearted, never calculating with people, and when talking about him, people would always use the words "honest man" and "good heart" to describe him, so his sudden death was a sad one.
Some people cried on their knees, others remembered him in their circle of friends, all of them lamenting the loss of a life in their own way.
We have all complained about the unfairness of fate, which has brought us many disadvantages, but in fact, the biggest unfairness of fate is that the time given to each life is different.
Obviously, people born in the same year, but have a different time to leave, disease, accidents, natural and man-made disasters, every day, life has been so unsatisfactory, why waste themselves?
02
Life is like this, see one side is less, many people in fact you have seen the last side, just you do not know.
We always think, this time we miss, there is a next time, the next day is the world's biggest lie, in your mind to plan the next time to meet, perhaps the person has been too late to wind up to the appointment.
Grandpa loved me a lot when he was alive, and now that he's been dead for many years, the memories of him are still as vivid as if they were yesterday.
When I was a child, I was very naughty, and grandpa was my biggest umbrella. When he was there, I lived like a fish out of water, and my mom couldn't do anything about it, and grandpa would block all the wind and waves for me.
Grandpa set up a stall to sell snacks, my pockets were always bulging, his stall was set up there, where my figure appeared.
I was a little bit older, grandpa's legs are not convenient, he was sick, he rarely went out, stayed in the empty home, I routinely every week sat on the basket to him, which is full of fruits and vegetables, I ran fast, voice loud and clear shouting.
Grandpa was always sitting in the sun in the open space outside the hut, and when he saw me running, he always shouted my name at the top of his voice, loud and clear, mixed with doting, and the wrinkled texture of his face bloomed, and he still smiled openly, and then rummaged through the cupboards for me to find good food.
One night, he suddenly passed away, we heard the news to arrive, grandpa lying quietly in bed, his eyebrows stretched, the corner of his mouth smiling, but I was unusually sad, wow cry.
More than ten years later, his face and voice are still clear in his mind.
We used to think that he would stay with me for many years to see me grow up and become a man, and then he turned around and suddenly left when I didn't realize it.
Today, every time I look at the empty lot outside the hut from afar, I still see Grandpa as he was when he was alive, sitting in the sunlight with his crutches, smiling brightly and calling out my nickname sweetly.
A person's prolonged absence invariably warns you not to live up to every meeting.
There is only one chance to live, and what happens in the next life will be said in the next life, and this life is lucky enough to be born, and there is nothing more important than living desperately.
03
Watching the TV series adaptation of Yu Hua's Living, there's a scene that I always remember vividly.
Fugui, after experiencing the heavy blows of fate, still puts on a calm face and repeats a phrase over and over again in front of the screen, "To live is to hope."
Life is all about enjoying the sweetness and facing the hardship, and no matter how much torture you encounter on the way, living is the whole meaning of life.
The time after one's death will be long, so far that it is unfathomable, but the time of living is fleeting.
I don't like those who always say they have a cheap life, they always trample on their own life excessively, casually overdrawing their health, wasting time, never sorry.
This kind of person is extremely irresponsible person, to their own life wantonly spoil, feel that their own cheap life, but never thought that the ultimate meaning of life is to be responsible for their own responsibility, but also to be responsible for the loved ones around them.
Every time you travel, your parents always urge you to pay attention to safety, eat and wear warm, because the meaning of your existence is all they have, your peace and health is the hope that the rest of their lives well.
People live, can not see life at will, can not just spoil themselves. I'm very lucky to be able to come to the world for a while, a few decades is not long, why not cherish it?
04
Old people used to say that it is better to die than to live, but now it seems to be the most real truth.
You don't know what the significance of living is, it's not how ignorant you are, it's that you don't take the initiative to understand the joys of this world.
There used to be a very poor man who had no knowledge, no money, no money, no money, no money, no money, no money, no money, no money, no money, no money, no money, no money, no money, no money, no money, no money, no money, no money, no money, no money, no money, no money, no money, no money, no money.
On one occasion, he went to the mountains to collect medicine, accidentally slipped down to the halfway point of the mountain, under the feet of the steep wall, in front of the vines is lush, he was suddenly terrified of a million, the fear of the bones came to life, he desperately tugged at the vines, and worked hard upward to climb, and finally got out of danger.
Later he borrowed money to open a cake store, business is gradually improving, hired some helpers, more free time, they took his wife and children traveled around the world, the circle of friends every month to sunshine some of the outing photos, a small life has been tasty.
He said, go to more places, only to know the beauty of life, do more things, only to know that they are quite capable.
Those who have seen the world know the beauty of living, and those who have experienced life and death know the meaning of living.
So don't say your life is cheap, whose life is the most precious.
If you don't even cherish the chance to live, why did you try to come to this world in the first place?
05
Ten thousand ways to die are not as good as living well, healthy, happy, safe life, is the best way to open happiness.
Your life is yours, but also those around you who care about the people who love you, everyone's existence is to be guarded by others, you do not live well, they will be sad.
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No matter which way you choose to live, have a dream to chase hard, in the realization of the road to meet a better self, there is no swan's will, on the ordinary life, a small bridge is also a kind of beauty.
As long as you live seriously, not to lose the body, not to live up to the original intention, is the most beautiful state.
Eat what you want to eat, drink what you want to drink, wear what you like, go where you want to go, see who you want to see before it's too late, as long as you enjoy life, is the ultimate meaning of living.
Wait until you are old and can't walk, wear old-fashioned glasses to turn over the album, smile and water the flowers, and occasionally dance in the square, this life is perfect.