? In Chinese history, the concept of "family" is very important. In fact, the concept of "state" was rarely mentioned in ancient texts, and was often called the "world", the so-called "family world", "see five generations". Even when the relationship between the family and the state is mentioned, it is also referred to as the family and the state, and the family and the state. After the modern era, this term, shown in the concept of "family", in the traditional consciousness of the Chinese people is supreme.
The concept of clan is related to the concept of clan name. Local people could enter the upper echelons of society through the imperial examinations, and gradually, fair competition between clans emerged. Folk were allowed to compile genealogies and the concept of clan became strong. The glory of a clan did not depend on the amount of wealth, but on the attitude of each clan member towards it. Then it emerges; rentier characters pass on the glory of the family, the development of the scientific impulse is driven by the satisfaction of a belief,
Then there must be a spirit of rationalism and the rule of law! Management, 'family', 'clan', 'nation'.
My family name is Ni! Zu father from before liberation out of the 'Ni House' land! He left his elders to pass on the industry and so on, and set up his own business to develop a free life. My grandfather had no faith, only self-confidence, towards the people, dry revolution! To be an ethnic teacher! He was the principal of the Hongqiao Sanfang Ancestral Primary School. Also managed the Ni clan genealogy! Folks say; 'Ni family young master family culture to pass the genealogy'!
I was in the first grade in 49 years at the lake side elementary school in Tamsui, and then transferred to the Hongqiao Sanfang Zitang Primary School in 52 years, still in the first grade! Grandfather knew that my family was difficult, no housing, live to live, put off schooling. He said;
Little grandson hey, moving affects your semester, a few more years of first grade books is okay, as long as you get good grades, knowledge is experience, is talent! Smarts can transcend grades! Also said;
Learning can not be ahead of time, more can not be quick, otherwise, the child no childhood, youth no youth, middle-aged no fun, old age no peace and quiet.
I asked Grandpa and said;
'Grandpa, why did you walk out of 'Ni House' in the first place? Didn't Grandpa Tai have a house and land to pass on?'
'My father's family had millions of dollars, tens of thousands of hectares of good land, and was the richest wealthier in Ni Residence! Only because of the seriousness of the feudal exploitation force, I am not used to! With his wife and children abandoned his family and left the clan to live in the ancestral hall.' Grandfather proudly said. He added;
'Later on, I hosted a school in the ancestral hall, which was the Sanfang Ancestral Hall Elementary School. All in the family name society supported my cultural education!'
'How many sons and daughters do you have?' I asked Grandpa. Grandpa replied;
'One is your father, who is a physician, you know, and one is your second uncle, Vincent, who has been working with me since he graduated from the county high school!'
I then asked; 'What kind of work? I've been working with you since I graduated from the county high school.'
I then asked; 'What job?
'Not teaching, it is writing on behalf of customers stalls, write letters on behalf of other people, write the deed of sale, collect the evidence of arrears, etc.'
'I'm not teaching.
'Why did you ask him to write on your behalf?'
'You do not know ah, stall is a look, in fact, is also to help me underground transportation station liaison work ah! My comrades in the transportation station at that time, all contacted in the stall, many guerrilla confidential documents are forwarded in the stall!
'Then how come he's not a member of the government now?' I asked him again sharply.
'Blame it only on the fact that I was too work minded at the time, strictly enforcing the discipline of the liaison officer, only a single line of contact, not to consult superiors, and not the discipline of carefully interviewing the higher-ups, and the result! Several liaison officers were killed and sacrificed, and several transportation stations were disconnected from the upper and lower lines of contact! Then I also asked my son to set up a stall to write, there will always be another person to joint. I didn't expect there to be no information until now!'' Grandpa said shyly and discouraged, tears welled up.
I asked again;
'Uncle Two has never had any other job in his life, how is the family living?'
'Your second uncle is a very smart and capable intellectuals, outstanding writing, when the social sale of deeds of sale are written by him, but also write a tell-all and so on to maintain life, there were a lot of units to hire, he did not go, sticking to the post of stalls, collecting intelligence, insults to find informants! In fact, he was also one of the liaison officers of the underground transportation station. After getting married and giving birth to two men, he participated in labor in the countryside and set up a small family, and his life was also sloppy! Grandpa added;
'I respect day and night dead underground workers and Mei political commissar colleagues, accidents also did not give up the three-family shrine transportation station! Expose the writing booth!'
'Second uncle is really a bitter life, no positive career in life! It is also considered a great man, but no one cares about color!'' I replied painfully, and asked grandfather;
'Then you talk about aunt, how is she?'
'Your aunt married into the Chen million family na, there and brothers abroad in Canada, after liberation is the landlord composition, leaving your aunt alone with a man and a woman, life is not easy! Later became an overseas Chinese family, one year your cousin Chen Jirei also went to Canada '. Grandpa said.
'Wow! That year cousin Lei also asked me to go abroad together, I thought he was bragging, did not agree to him.' I'm so sorry I wanted to go!
Grandpa said to me happily;
'The Ni family has no inheritance set aside, we are very young and poor, but we are also surnamed Ni ah! Now our family is also the Ni family. Isn't it five generations old? l'd like to see six, seven generations.
At that time I saw the genealogy kept by my grandfather; Hongchuan Ni's Genealogy - Hoe Jing Tang, Hongchuan Ni's of Hongqiao, Yueqing;
The main residents are in Hongqiao, Xianyang Chen, Xinao, Puqi, Hubian, Qianqian, Yaaoao, Guantang, Louao, Heqi, Xilin, Nantang, Yandang, Dajing Beige, Pingyang Liushi, Wenzhou Dengxuanfang, Taiping Changjiaozui, Shandong, Shanghai, Taiwan and other places; generation ranking (Kuan Gong 49th): Ru, from, filial piety, respect, heir, Gong, Shou, the, Yong, Yan, ancestor, Shi, Tian, Qing, Hong, Pi, learning, Zong, Kong, Meng, Xian, Sheng, San, Yang, Kai, Tai, transport, thousand, multiply, this, ancient, countryside; the population of this clan of about 25,000 people, the former President of the Legislature of Taiwan, Ni Wanya that is, the clan, there is a big ancestral temple of Hongchuan Ni clan. There is a big ancestral hall of Ni Clan and 7 branch ancestral halls, among which the ancestral hall of Dafang is built better; the date of ancestor worship in Xiabao is two days in March 14th and 15th of the lunar calendar every year; the ancestor worship in Yuhuan is the same as that of Judeo Ni Clan every five years (Kuan Gong's 39th grandson, Tao Gong, is dispatched). The following content in the record Ni's second son Wen Yu - there is the eldest son 'my name'.?
I asked my grandfather; 'What is going on here? Am I Wen Yu's son!'
Grandpa said; 'Wen Yu is my second son, twenty-one years old, "Yueqing student task force" is also in the Hongqiao area propaganda, mobilizing the masses to support the "police four" anti-Japanese. Mobilizing a group of young students to participate in the "Police 4" and set up the "Student Army Model Team", the Japanese invaders once came out to loot and brutalized the party members and progressive youths in the team, and Wen Yu was unfortunately injured and sacrificed his life without any medical treatment! The character for Wen Yu is pronounced YU YU. It means daylight shining
'The family tree in order to commemorate him, the successor wrote your name under his door - to pick up the meaning of 'Thi' son.'
'Well! So ah, to me what can be inherited ah? Revolutionary family members!'
He also told me that my father was a doctor who ran a clinic and gave away free medicines! In 50 years, he worked for the Ministry of Health and was the director of the People's Hospital for more than ten years! In the family of Ni House, a famous doctor! In the 1980s after the evaluation of the anti-retirement in the honor of outstanding advanced workers, the Health Bureau subsidies pension 36,000 yuan. Quite now 36 million yuan he created a home and business, Fuzhi life 91 years old, went to heaven.
My father has a large family of eight children! Four men and four women, I was arranged fourth.
My eldest sister, the second sister looks outstanding, face like a full moon eyes like autumn water, cherry Fan Su mouth, a talented person, handsome and extraordinary show outside the smart Ice Qingyu clean eyebrows clear eyes, ice smart! Sincere, warm and generous. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on the best of the best, and you'll be able to get the best of the best, and you'll be able to get the best of the best.
Now the eldest sister's husband's family has four children, two daughters married into the family, two men have two sons, building a new house with four rooms and four floors, life is possible!
The second brother-in-law lives in Xilin Maao, there are three men and two women, although the whole family has no culture, but the rural living environment is good. Five siblings are in the provinces Lanzhou open cloth store trading business! The family wealth development is fast, the family has two or three children! I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on this!
My elder brother, is a **** production party members! In the village for more than ten consecutive terms on the village committee director, director of the old association, he is righteous and moral, selfless, all righteous, two sleeves clean! He is noble, talented, both inside and outside, do a good job of all kinds of village work, there are advanced honors!
His family has two men and two women.
His family has two sons and two daughters. The eldest son is a businessman, his wife is a teacher, and his son is a dragon, so his life is very comfortable!
The second son managed the village vegetable market, work actively, is an excellent **** production party members! Wife open barber store, business is very good, annual profit of more than ten thousand, also has a son, life is very satisfied! The company's business is very good, the annual profit is more than 100,000, also have a son, life is very satisfied!
Daughter in the People's Hospital accounting office work!
My daughter works in the accounting department of the People's Hospital and has a child.
My fifth brother has the best living conditions! I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on this, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on this! The house property also has more than five or six million, he is a real businessman! The son of a capable man can also open a store, has already become a family with a son.
The youngest daughter is also a Hangzhou dance college student! After graduation, she promoted square dancing and developed social mass sports!
The most said my sixth sister! Destiny is subject to that 60 years of age; she is a beautiful, generous, elegant, quiet, gentle, kind and virtuous pure and lively, naive sixteen-year-old student! Her parents had difficulty in making ends meet. They could hardly afford to feed, clothe, house and housewife! Mother decided to marry Sixth Sister off. Found a cultured, complacent rural brigade accountant with a pretty good family! Got 220 yuan 'fixed head silver' which means to betroth a marriage. As a result, he looked down on her, and after the marriage, she was disadvantaged in every way! In fact, she is young, or students do not know what to do, really shortchanged her! Later gave birth to three men and a daughter, family wealth or can be, but the son of the entanglement between the unclear, parents supervision is not strict, made a lot of mistakes!
Fighting, drug use, drinking and gambling, many times by the police station closed pressure, were released by the maternal uncle bail! After that, I had to respect my mother!
Now the prodigal son returns! The boss ran for the sale of products, annual income of more than a hundred thousand, the couple harmonized with the son of nine years old!
The second son in the enterprise as a worker, the little brother learned to drive the technology, run the training driver, when the master!
The seventh sister is lucky! Get a broad-minded, obedient husband! Her character generous, dignified, gentle, virtuous, multi-talented, capable, all make men y worship! She opened a store of incense, paper, wax and superstitious products, in line with the social opening up of the period of freedom of religion, the majority of people's popular customs, the Qingming Festival to pay homage to their ancestors, buy superstitious products very much, a few days up to a profit of tens of thousands of dollars! Good father has a good son, one of his eldest son to run a factory, a son to join the army as a soldier, *** production party members, transferred to the county party committee disciplinary office director! How much honor to the family!
There is also a count of 'eighth brother'! No one recognizes and does not know. Only my mother said to me;
When the national government in Chongqing, the form of chaos! The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of a long journey, and I was in the middle of a long journey. My father knew that the form of chaos! I'm not sure if you're a good person, but I'm a good person, and I'm a good person! Coincidentally, there is a rich neighbor, seek medical attention, father gave him a week-old son, the rich man was very happy, out of 100 silver rounds of thanks. Father had money, that night night quietly take the family to leave Chongqing! home! Mother grieved, selling her son to save the family is worth it!
Father for the family three times up and three times down! Suffering life is impermanent, suffering can test a person's character! Cure the sick to save the free medical treatment is the purpose of his morality! In the clan, no one knows Mr. Ni's excellent medical skills, help people's health, carry forward the noble spirit, adding to the old generation of brilliant honor!
My father's influence on me may not have been able to predict at the time, one thing is certain, it gave me a shock from the soul. It changed me in my youth. My thoughts, my behavior, my attitude. I can't tell you what happened, but I remember that I was so numb that I felt like I had returned to that time, and my heart was filled with all kinds of fantasies. I began to become sentimental, I feel the world how beautiful.
I am seventy-three sheep spring this year! Someone asked you what occupation? It is a lifelong nameless occupation Pepsi! But all kinds of mastery of great wisdom and courage, is not adhere to a pouring heart strange effect occupation! Eventually also 'social security' retirement treatment, salary of three thousand five hundred and seventy dollars.
I myself! There are one man and three women;
The female boss opened a firecracker gift store, business is booming, the money is rolling in. There are a hundred obedient good husband, run a factory. Life is beautiful out of the wizards, the son read Hangzhou University specialist! The daughter reads the excellent student of Zhejiang Jinhua University, and is eagerly sought after by laborers upon graduation, so her happy life is more stable! The family has three college students.
The second female, graduated from secondary school on the recruitment of labor, to participate in the Telecommunications Bureau engine room section of the work, study abroad in Japan for one year of training, business level is super strong! There is a *** member of the party's husband, working in the Taxation Bureau! Son on Ningbo University of Technology, entrepreneurial light successor.
Female Junior, cheerful and optimistic personality, understanding, passionate, good looks, a table of talent, show outside the smart, articulate, gentle and virtuous, style and splendor! Is an excellent senior title people's teachers! Superb writing, students and parents reflect the noble, approachable unity and love. Is an excellent **** production party members. Husband in the people's hospital work. Son is also a college student, smart and clever, graduated next year.
My third son Shengqian, graduated from Nanjing University Computer Science Department, recruitment of the Public Security Bureau department for many years, worked Hongqiao police station administrative section director, for many years rated in the advanced workers, excellent ****production party members honor!
His wife graduated from secondary school, also in the city people's hospital head nurse work. The son of the Department of Arts and Sciences of Zhejiang University outstanding students, ready to study abroad doctoral it!
My Zhang; is he, their mother! Is a great people's teacher and principal, senior title treatment! Excellent **** production party members! After retirement to participate in the town old association on the committee's responsibility, when the University of the Elderly as a teaching principal, renewed year was evaluated in the province, county level, excellent advanced counselor award! Is a 'great mother' honorary title!
Life is not if, their fate tells us. Each of us is subject to the fate of this era. We can't completely determine our own destiny, what we have to do is how to make us happier. It's good to have ambitious ideals, it's good to want to live an ordinary life, it's just a way to pursue our happiness.
The family 'genealogy'! The ancestors stipulated that only the male on the genealogy record, to pass on the generation! No daughter on the genealogy, which is too patriarchal!
Throughout the years, it has been the case that a good woman produces a good mother, and a good mother produces a good son!
You see; my grandfather's three generations did not do the official, but got a mixed name. Now four generations, five generations, there are seven or eight excellent *** party members, administrative cadres, college students have seven, has participated in the work of the one also!
My family is becoming more and more glorious and great. Look! The fifth generation of college students are in love, the sixth generation will soon be born! The genealogical order of designation: ancestors, parents, children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, great-grandchildren! Lai grandchildren, descendants (kūn) grandchildren, still grandchildren, cloud grandchildren, ear grandchildren.
"The state has a history book, the euphony has a county record, and the people have a family tree." A genealogy that records the heritage of a family, which is now more than 80 people! Connected to the family lineage, living and breathing. Branching out, children and grandchildren, children and grandchildren around the knees, a hundred sons and thousands of grandchildren, many children and many blessings.
I believe that a careful reading of my family, a serious understanding of our family history, better inheritance and carry forward the fine traditions of our family, which will have a positive effect on the promotion of the construction of harmonious families, for the promotion of friendship and caring between compatriots, for the promotion of the construction of a harmonious society. We are a 'revolutionary family'!
I sincerely wish our family friendship: a lucky life, a good future, a successful career and a happy family! Live a long life of a hundred years!