And whether it's for the child's education or for the family's well-being, regular parenting time is very meaningful for both the child and the parents.
I've heard many parents say that their children are so small that they grow up all of a sudden, and they rely on their parents for only a few years, and when that time passes, even if the parents realize how important it is for them to be with their children, the children don't care as much if they don't have their parents to be with them.
So, when your child is still young, you need to make some time for your child, and the relationship between your child and your parents will be more intimate.
My own is a bloody example.
When I was young, my father had to go out to work, so he came home only after a year at New Year's time, and I was raised by my grandparents.
So a lot of times when my father came back, I was very happy, but a lot of times I didn't know how to get along with him, and I still felt more comfortable staying with my grandparents.
Fourth of July my sister is going to get married, before mentioning the birth of a child follow-up event, the future brother-in-law said, you can leave the child with his parents, my sister very much do not agree, said your parents when you are small, you put you in the grandparents home, the future of your child you still want to do so?
In fact, many parents are not unwilling to accompany their children, because they really do not have that condition. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and you'll be able to do that. The first time I saw this, it was a very good thing that I was able to see it.
Other people's fathers and mothers are separated from each other for a long time, so we can do more to squeeze a little time to accompany the child's parents, why not take this time to accompany the child?
If you want to become closer to your child, the first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have time for your child. But every family is different, so when it comes to parenting activities, the choices are different.
One of my university teachers mentioned earlier, herself a graduate of the University of Technology, is now a university lecturer, and her husband is a doctor of the University of Science and Technology, I am not sure of the occupation, but it is also considered a highly educated family.
A child growing up in such a family is destined to have a different parenting time with her parents than other children.
I once saw a teacher posting a friend's picture of a father and daughter sitting at a table together reading a book, and it looked like the atmosphere of learning was very strong.
But I was very envious when I saw it, because in this kind of family training out of the child, the possibility of future knowledge is very high, I directly ignore the two school bully may be born out of the possibility of a scum.
Of course, this practice of studying together as a family as a parent-child activity is not the only activity I've seen. They naturally do take their children out and about a lot as a way of bonding with each other.
For example, when I was in college, Dashu Mountain was near my school, and I would run to climb the mountain every Saturday and Sunday when I had nothing to do. There, you can often also see the parents with their children to climb the mountain together, can not be counted.
This kind of parent-child activity is undoubtedly a very good kind of activity in my opinion, enhance the relationship and exercise both.
Of course, there are a lot of other family activities that are more suitable for the whole family, so I won't repeat them here. The role of parent-child activities, in my original view, is to enhance the relationship between each other, is to exercise the body to cultivate the love of learning good habits, only these?
Recently, I saw a video on watermelon video by Xiluo, the creator of watermelon video, which made me have a change in my view of parent-child activities. And the place where they launched this parenting activity was something I didn't anticipate - it was in the kitchen.
Why do I say that this video changed my mind?
The first thing that came to mind after watching this installment of videos on Watermelon Video was, why did so few people in the past choose to do this kind of original parent-child activity?
In the past, when many parents chose to do parenting activities, the theme was firstly to accompany the children, give them the company they deserve, and then enjoy the parenting time freely as a family, and the day went by happily and joyfully.
What else can children gain from this? There is almost nothing else but the joy of parental companionship.
In this video by Hillel, even though the protagonists are only the father and his two sons, and even though the mother is not involved in the whole process, just watching from the sidelines, the parent-child activity is still very successful and has some educational significance.
Parenthood is really a way to bring parents and kids closer together, and both the kids and the parents get a lot of happiness out of it.
But to put it in perspective, can we use this time to get closer to our children, and at the same time let them learn more about life than just a moment's pleasure?
Even the kitchen is a great place to teach, if you want to teach, it just depends on how the parents lead.
If you want to know how they started their parenting activities in the kitchen, you can go to the watermelon video, search for "Xiluo students", the parents of the two little boys, and together they will learn how to learn how to have fun and learn to understand at the same time in their parenting activities.