When people get old, if they find that their children are slowly hating themselves, what should they do?

Aging is a stage that we all must go through, then there will be a variety of manifestations after aging, for example, after a person is old, if the body is not good, it will be sick, there is a saying in China is so, long before the bed, no filial son, the poor and lowly wife hundred days of decline, so this sentence is not completely unjustified, because in real life, we can often find that, when a person is old, and often sick, then his children, more or less will have a certain complaint. After a person is old, and often sick, then his children, more or less will have some complaints. The first thing that you should do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what you are doing and how you are doing it. In the process of cultivating children, do not spoil the children, to establish the correct three views of the children. Cultivate a child, have filial piety is a difficult thing, because people in the process of growing up, he will accept a variety of things, and there will be a variety of people around, so want to cultivate a child, have a traditional Chinese virtues, but also is not an easy thing, therefore, in the parents of small children should be inculcated in the traditional Chinese virtues, know filial piety, is an excellent quality of a person's body. It is a good quality in a person, and then give the child to set up a correct view of the three, there is a ruler in the heart, to face the later life of right and wrong, learn to recognize, do not go on the wrong way, not to be influenced by the bad behavior of others. When you still have the ability, you should also plan for your old age. In fact, in real life, the pension industry has gradually started to develop, as good as for example in Japan most of the elderly in the old age will enter the nursing home to live, this model is very good, after all, in the reality of China's society there is a large group of people is a single child, then a family to bear the old age of four old people's pension pressure is very big, so you are in the young, in their own capable of So when you are young and have the ability, don't put all your capital on the child, thinking that he will be your old age, this is a certain risk, you have to learn to plan for yourself. Use your own retirement money to hire a professional care for yourself. When you get old, you will realize that there are certain benefits of getting married, because after you get married you have your own partner, and when your partner, who still has the ability to take care of himself and his mobility, he will be able to take care of you, and you will be able to take care of each other as well, so that is one of the reasons why the older generation will ask the younger generation to get married for sure, or as much as possible. You can also hire a professional caregiver for yourself with the money that you have earned when you were young.