? People get older, loneliness unconsciously will be enveloped in their own, how to avoid loneliness, to find friends to know, so that their old age, more colorful, life is more rich it, my point of view is as follows.
? First, when people are old, is destined to be lonely. Elderly people have strong self-esteem, not willing to bother their children too much, young people are also busy because of the usual work, work pressure and other reasons, there is not much time to communicate with the elderly, sometimes, on a certain issue, the concept of the two generations are not the same, so the two generations communicate less, the elderly will naturally produce a sense of loneliness. The society then appeared many empty nest elderly social phenomenon.
Second, we can develop our own hobbies and grow our own specialties, such as learning a few musical instruments and getting together to entertain ourselves. You can also use media platforms, such as Baike, publish their own works, to show their own specialties, so that more enthusiasts to see themselves, produce **** Ming, we are like-minded, together with the development of hobbies, so as to make friends.
? Third, often go out to travel, go to visit and appreciate the beautiful landscape of the motherland, go close to nature, feel and experience the vastness of nature, appreciate the beauty of nature at the same time, but also cultivate their feelings. When you have time, you can often go to the place where there is the sea, looking at the blue sea, your mind will become more open, become broad. It will also make oneself more open-minded and cheerful. This can be a very interesting experience to make friends with yourself when you are traveling, and to listen to your heart in nature.
Fourth, enhance your charm, cultivate your optimistic and sunny outlook on life. Continuously enrich yourself, so that you can be a person full of positive energy. Let the people around you like to socialize with you. Open-minded, accept others, let the people around you feel, with you have a kind of upbeat, energetic feeling, we are willing to make friends with you, so that you have more friends.
Fifth, in their own life circle to socialize some friends. With the same community of the same age of the retired elderly, together with the exchange, together with the chess. People of the same age have *** the same social experience, social views and values are more similar, so the topic of exchange is also more, it is easy to produce the consistency of viewpoints. There are also more topics that are *** the same, so there is a better fit for making friends. This can also make some good friends.
? In summary, I think the elderly, get rid of loneliness, open mind, more to broaden their own, improve their own pattern, cultivate their own optimistic and open-minded character, will surely socialize to the heart of the good friends, in the later years, live a full life.