First of all, the whole story
The truth of the matter is this. Because Li Nainai's son gave birth to twins, he wanted to ask Ms. Li to help take care of the children, and Ms. Li was willing to help. I also take good care of my grandchildren, and my son is very grateful to his mother for her help. It stands to reason that such a plot should be enjoyable. The downside lies in Ms. Li's hobby. Although Ms. Li is 60 years old, her hobby is quite special. She likes drinking, clubbing, playing mahjong and dancing in square dance. And once you do these things, you forget that you still have grandchildren. As mentioned at the beginning, you lost your grandchildren four times in two years. Finally, my son kicked her out of the house, fearing that her grandchildren would learn her bad habits.
Second, the importance of responsibility.
It stands to reason that old people spend time taking care of their grandchildren, and children should be grateful. But if you lack the sense of responsibility when you take care of it, it will only be counterproductive. After all, they are grandchildren linked by flesh and blood. No matter how much they value it, they can say that they don't value it once, but four times every two years is a bit unreasonable.
Third, the way to deal with the relationship between the two generations
The generation gap between the two generations and the way of dealing with things are different, and it is easy to create barriers. Timely communication and handling can ensure the harmony of family relations, and family conflicts can be effectively reduced as long as they are willing to understand each other.
In a word, Li Nainai does take care of her grandchildren, but she is not responsible enough. She agrees with her son, but she can't be deprived of the right to visit her grandchildren.