The first is to give up your job or choose an easy job to make sure you have time to take care of your children.
This method is to choose to sacrifice themselves, after all, who to take care of the children are not as good as their own children, no one will be selfless to take care of your children, only you will be personally, because it is your own children ah, and children are best to bring their own, their own to education.
It is up to you to measure yourself, you choose to work and choose the money, or choose their own children. You should spend more time with the child do not always work and ignore him, this will make him and your relationship gradually distant, he has a lot of words a lot of things will not tell you, will not look for you to confide in. What children need most is not money, but companionship. You look at a variety show metamorphosis, most of the rebellious children are because his parents are always busy working when he was a child and neglected to take care of him, resulting in his parents have a bad attitude, always feel that his parents do not love him. The other way is to choose to go to work and put the child in a preschool or hire a nanny at home to take care of the child. This will always be uneasy, I'm afraid that the nanny at home will beat their own children, do not give the child food, do not give him water, do not take good care of him. There may also be a child on the nanny than to you more pro, may be the child shouted the first mom is to the nanny shouted, grow up later when understand a little bit will also ask you say why let a stranger to take care of him when he was a child, why is the mother does not stay at home with him.